Why do some girls do this?

[Anonymous]

My crush's ex found my ig account 🤣. Why would she find my ig account and block me? I never gave her my account. Is it just me and her or do all girls stalk their crush's account? Do you think he was searching my account and she found out? He had a thing for me and she got jealous before. I believe he only got with her just to try to get over me.

[Anonymous]

How do you know she blocked you?

[Asker]

When you search her name and it doesn't show up on Instagram. But If you look it up on Google you will find her account and it's active.

[Opinion Owner]

Got it, well I’m mainly asking because to know she blocked you, obviously you have to visit her page, meaning you may be keeping tabs on her and your crush, like as to if they get back together or anything like that. If she knows of you at all, the blocking is mainly so you can’t see what’s happening on her page. Even if you aren’t sure exactly how, she put some puzzle pieces together somewhere and this was her move. If I were you, I’d just block her as well and not concern myself with her anymore, because who knows what could happen with her and him (or what’s already going on), and if your crush isn’t making a move to make shit happen with you, he may not be interested in exploring this crush.

[Asker]

Yeah, I might do that. Me and my crush don't talk because we are both shy I guess. I'm shy for sure but he only acts shy with me. Plus I haven't seen him since my birthday in May. Anything that involves me he likes to disappear for some reason. He normally would stare when I'm not looking and if I'm looking at him he looks down on his phone. I can't tell what he is thinking but his parents are always watching me. I want to ask his parents about him but with my anxiety, I'm too afraid to ask. This is the longest he ever disappeared.

[Opinion Owner]

It may not be that he “likes” to disappear, he’s just dealing with his ex to some degree, maybe even a different woman and he doesn’t want to give you the wrong impression. I’m sure you may disagree and try rationalizing his behavior a lot in your mind. That idea is a tough pill to swallow when you want the guy for yourself but it’s rational enough to consider. Like they don’t have to be in a full blown, flashy relationship with pics and vids for them to have something going behind the scenes. Anyway, I’d be getting over this fixation and crush if I were you. Dating a guy who’s allegedly that shy may translate in your mind as safe, when usually they’re the most deceitful because their kind nature gets them out of trouble every time. Then as a shy person yourself, you may not even question certain things out loud, and that’ll be tumultuous. Get yourself a man who’s your opposite, or at least who has the balls to make the first move. The dude you have a crush on strikes me as a boy who would be too reluctant to protect you even by just speaking up in certain situations. You should have the ick at the thought of it fr lol.

[WhitneySnow]

That’s really petty!!!

[Asker]

Like fr 🤣.

[Wise4myage]

Because she's a psycho.