If you were into someone, and you knew their type or preference, and you didn't quite match that, would you still ask them out?

[Anonymous]

Yeah

Probably not

Either if I was their type, the person has to show signs of interest in me first, before I ask

[DaveJord]

Let me tell you this my man, I honestly do not think woman know what it is they want. Like woman have an idea of what it is they want, and you might be close on some accounts and not others... but woman think they really know until they meet someone for real, and then they think your not the one.

Like maybe you are the things they were looking for, until they found it and decided that maybe they want something different. Or maybe you just all all those things, except they are not into you... but honestly I have met woman many, many times and they acted like they know what it was they wanted.

Honestly men are not all that different... but for most me you just got to get close to be someone they are looking for... like as long as you are close. Women on the three hand, tend to have this expectation for what they are looking for, and when no man can compare to it, they start thinking there are good men out there, or that maybe they need to start settling for a real human man, and not someone they made up in their won heads.

Ask her out all she can say is no, or yes.

[dynamicyandere]

Assuming I was single and looking, it would depend on how far off I was from their type.


If the differences weren’t drastic, then who knows? I can work my charm and see if we click.


For my current significant other, she described meeting me as not something she ever expected, but everything she has ever wanted.


Sometimes you don’t know what you want until you experience it.


But let’s say their preferences are waaay too specific and waaay far off from me.


For example… Let’s say… She was extremely into the occult wants to be with someone who wants to try communicating with the dead with her.


For me, personally, I don’t dabble with magic (or magick for you technical folks).


It’s personally a hard pass for me, so for something that drastically different from me, I wouldn’t even bother.


Nothing against them, it’s just something I don’t mess with.


Like you wouldn’t invite a vegan to a steakhouse — it’s just not a fit, and that’s okay.

[Little_Bumblebee]

I honestly never really had the need in me to ask someone out. No matter how much I'm into them.
In my head I do my best to actually hide it.

Probably due to a lot of unresolved stuff.

[DubiousIntentions]

I'm sure you would try whether you fit their preference or not. If you didn't at least try, then you were probably not really that into them to begin with.

[ManOnFire]

Most definitely not. In fact right now there is a cute Asian girl I know who is your classic white guy lover, and that alone repels me from her. Not saying it's wrong to date white guys or that they are disgusting, but non-white women who put white people on a pedestal because they think they're higher quality or that white physical features are supreme, make me run the other way. To even try asking someone out like that would be disrespecting my own self.

Also, believe it or not, lots of women like that are almost hoping a man who isn't their preference will make moves on them, so that she can have the opportunity to tell him he's not her preference. Trying to ask one out would just satisfy her.

[jojoiwiwbwjo]

My whole life and most of my skillset is related to girls' interests. I would be learning science, music and politics the girls are gone long time and we enjoyed it well at the same time I built myself up :)

[spartan55]

Of course. Very few people adhere to types, especially guys.

[Truthatanycost]

Don't concern yourself with preferences, only in building attraction. That is what really determines your outcome.

[jshm2]

What's the worst that's going to happen? They will say "no"

[RedInnocent68]

Absolutely! Girls are usually more flexible than guys that way, and go for things like charm and humour, not just tits and ass like us 😂

[exitseven]

Yes, I think that might be the whole idea. Being with somebody different.

[BourbonAndBacon]

Preferences can change so never cared about not being someone's preference

[msc545]

No. That is a setup for rejection. Why bother?

[Magnoliaamaryllis]

I would try to attract him because I am an attractive and sexy woman I would look his eyes

[fonduegirl]

Yeah of course

[DreamLife7]

No don't waste your time.

[Massageman]

nothing ventured - - - - -

[LiamJHayden]

Nope. I respect boundaries.

[serious]

No, I won't.

[Anonymous]

i wouldn't care