True or false - women who dont act like they want commitment are more likely to get commitment?

[MyOwnMan2]

True

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2 mo

I dont care what anyone says, men want sluts around THEM. If they are hating on sluts is because the sluts aren't coming around THEM. Period.

[dynamicyandere]

Women who don’t act like wifey material will have a much harder time finding men (the men they want — not simps) who will wife them up.


If a women is really into hook up culture for example, that’s going to automatically disqualify them from most men who are looking for something serious.


Most men will put women in a ‘just for fun’ box if they don’t appear to be wifey material but may be nice to have in the bedroom.

[dynamicyandere]

If a woman*

[MyOwnMan2]

There are 2 extreme. There's the slut and then there's the prude. In the modern world the girl who is more on the slutty side is what is winning.

[MyOwnMan2]

And when a girl doesn't even attempt to showcase her slutty side something seems off. The prude only worked when men were the ones forcing women to be prudes

[dynamicyandere]

It’s one thing to be flirtatious, and it’s another thing to be putting out all the time.

What I hear from a lot of guys is that girls that put out way too easily are usually not someone they want to have a serious long term relationship with.

And I would be the same. If girl were to put out before barely knowing me, that would make me question a lot of things about her.

[MyOwnMan2]

I would fear being a Muslim man for example. You couldn't even find a girl without talking about marriage and kids.

It sounds nice to say, the fact is, both men and women prefer sluts.

[dynamicyandere]

@MyOwnMan2 Casually dating is one thing. But, the question was about commitment though. As in serious relationships, right?

When it comes to commitment, wouldn’t someone rather marry someone whose’s committed to them rather than non-committal?

I mean, that’s why so many men are afraid to marry. They fear disloyalty and lack of commitment from women.

[MyOwnMan2]

Casual dating is all there is. This isn't 1500 where you need to secure a son to transfer your vast estate.

[dynamicyandere]

@MyOwnMan2 Then in the context of casual dating, commitment is irrelevant.

Attraction is one thing and commitment is another.

A woman who is promiscuous can cause many men to be attracted to her.

But, a woman who is promiscuous will have trouble getting men to commit to her for life in marriage and split 50% of all his assets with her.

[MzAsh]

The very fact that they’re putting women into these ‘boxes’ makes them disqualified for being husband material. That’s what so many men don’t seem to understand.

[dynamicyandere]

@MzAsh Yeah, and the worst is when they aren’t upfront with the girl. Leading her on, making her think she’s found a keeper, when really he’s just using her for sex.

I say, if she’s looking for something serious and you aren’t, just be upfront, part ways, so nobody is wasting anyone’s time.

[anon1903]

@MzAsh exactly!

[anon1903]

@MzAsh if you truly hate promiscuous women, maybe don't have porn on mobile, maybe deactivate onlyfans account to view them, maybe don't sleep with them.

If you associate with them, congrats men! You're on their level. They're low quality! So are you.

[dynamicyandere]

Yup. A man shouldn’t judge promiscuous women if he’s just as promiscuous.

A woman that doesn’t sleep around deserves a man that doesn’t sleep around.

[anon1903]

Agreed

[Minxxie]

You can act like you want it but still allow him to see that you have other options if he isn't into it... he will feel a bit threatened and hurry to lock it down.

Before we were exclusive, my boyfriend knew that I was dating while celibate and was still receiving offers for dates from many other people. He had the marriage discussion on the third date because he wanted me to know that his intention was to date for marriage, and I respect that.

[Raeannox]

Yes that’s true. Men like challenges and the constant rejection because in their head you are interested in them but you are playing hard to get. (I don’t understand why they like making things hard for themselves🤷🏾‍♀️).



Main reason why men go for the ‘free spirit’ and not the ‘pick me’ lol.
They are feeding off of the ‘free spirit’.

[jb2622]

Long turm Relationship are risky in terms of time and resources. Nobody with any sence is going to make that bet with some how is not serious. Admittedly there are peaple that dont have sence thought and it will probably cost them.

[kylee2437]

Very true - I’ve had better luck once I stopped caring , took care of myself person

[MyOwnMan2]

It's cus the vibe is better. Nobody wants a girl who's pushy and demanding and closed off with "boundaries". In other words, nobody like insecure people. Truly powerful women aren't afraid to loosen up and do whatever it takes to be both entertaining and respectable

[kylee2437]

Very much so agree. Men like someone that is easy going and let’s circumstances happen naturally

[MyOwnMan2]

I heard men who women agree with got big dicks

[ChiTown33]

Yes and no. The problem is the women that are generally complaining about lack of commitment are the same ones that 1. choose men incapable of commitment. And 2. Do nothing whatsoever to foster wanting to commit in a man.

It's not surprising therefore that the women that get men to commit never have to bring it up.

[MysteriousDarkness]

Those sleeping around with a lot of people usually end up not being able to pair bond. It sends a message that they will mist likely want to outsource the sex if we got together and to me that is highly disrespectful, unloving, uncaring etc. If a man has to go through a figurative obstacle course to get with with someone why would he want that person? We perfer someone that has an aura that causes us to want to be the best version of ourselves when around them.

[Apple1996]

True in my case. I never wanted to settle down but it happened 🤷‍♀️

[Apple1996]

@bros26 omg stop I'm not loose 😭

[bros26]

Apple crying? 😞

[anon1903]

In what context? This is a very open ended question.

[DreamLife7]

True