Everyone Says I Can Do Better With My Current Relationship, What Should I Do?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been dating this guy for 3 months. I do love him don’t get me wrong but everyone says I can do a lot better. I will admit he is not the most attractive guy but he makes me happy, laugh etc. I try to shrug it off but it’s always going to be in the back of my mind and I look at photos or even in person sometimes and I’m like hmm.
So yeahh I don’t know what to do…

[SueShe]

The fact that you let yourself be influence to that extend by people leads me to believe that this idea that you "can do better" will start growing in your mind and that sooner or later you will actually find inexistant flaws in him to dump him and to try to find someone more suitable.

This really shows a very weak character from you. You let yourself be influenced by others rather than to have your own opinion and dismiss what others want you to believe.

In your case, you are better off to separate from your boyfriend right now. He does deserve someone that does love him for whom he is. You seem to think that you deserve better. Good luck with that.

[Finchie40]

Understand it’s your relationship and not anyone else’s , so don’t listen to other people’s advice , you chose your partner for a reason , you chose him because he treats you well and makes you smile, the same reason he chose you. Most people in general always try to run their 2 cents into someone else’s relationship when those same people can not even fix their own relationships. So if you want love to grow in your relationship you are best to prioritize your partner over everyone else

[jahaims]

Not let others influence you. What do you think and feel?

[boobliker]

if you are happy stay with it, if not move on!

[butterly248]

Dump him

[Anonymous]

Move on

[Anonymous]

Move on