A guy sent me a breakup text (the morning of our planned 3rd date) he ended the text by saying " hope you are not upset with me" should I even reply?

[Anonymous]

[Honest-Matt]

We're getting too old for nonsense. Acknowledge the text with something mature and simple like "Thanks for letting me know, you know my number if you want to get in touch". And leave it at that, move on and clear your mind for the next one.

[coachTanthony]

Maybe a thank you might be appropriate... some people don't say nothing and just ghost ya.

[jb2622]

This, just polite sorry it didn't work out. Then move on with you life.

[DaveJord]

I wouldn't. Easier said than done, when it happens to me, I am like thanks for wasting my time.

But ghosting is better, I guess.

[verybusyguy]

Hope you are not upset with me

Means

See you later if I run out of options


Should you reply to that or how should you reply to that

Is another question to answer

[Asker]

Thank you! The last thing I want to be is an "option". I appreciate your honest answer!

[Honest-Matt]

Well now you know what to expect next time he rolls around, keep it casual and have fun, use the opportunity but don't expect anything.

[BoopBoopBeep]

No real need to. It's not like he's going to really care all that much. It was only two dates. If you must, "Thanks, good luck" would be about it. At least he didn't ghost you.

[exitseven]

I think breaking up with someone by text message Is terrible. Just forget him

[Flatmanlewis]

I think it’s far better than ghosting you so I’d reply just with a thank you and wish then the best.

[smilelots]

No you should not but that’s up to you make your decision based on how you feel he was not the right guy for you. You will find a good guy if your willing to be out there and be yourself

[Anonymous]

Only if it makes you feel better. It's not going to change anything.

[AviatorTom]

No reply is needed

[Anonymous]

That’s Cowardly