Do hot guys get approached often?

[red324]

I've read that most girls don't approach a guy. They have to do it themselves, but I bet if they're really attractive the girl will do the approaching herself. Opinions?

[catsarethebestn67]

I usually won’t approach a guy no matter how hot he is. But I’ll give him hints to approach me and if he doesn’t I will take it as he isn’t interested.

[HolyyJordan]

Attitude?

[catsarethebestn67]

Haha no I’m just scared of being rejected

[HolyyJordan]

Lol. Im sure you wouldn't be fr. Also do you mind following back?

[red324]

Yeah some girls are plain mean af when rejecting a guy. I asked a girl I'd been talking to recently on fb if she wanted to grab a bite to eat sometime. Her response was "well eating is a favorite pasttime of mine, so the chances are pretty likely". At first I thought that meant a yes, but then I realized after she never read my response that she wasn't talking about eating with me. 🙄 why not just say yes or no? No need to be disrespectful about it.

[Anonymous]

i think i am 100% attractive so i approach men all the time and they think i am ugly so they reject me. they clearly hadn't checked themselves out in the mirror on that they.

[BarryLiverstone]

I’m confused. If the guys haven’t checked the mirror why are you finding them attractive?

[Opinion Owner]

@BarryLiverstone because i dont date for looks i date for personality. i think i am beautiful and perfect because god created me and i see my body as a blessing. if some guy can't see that seriously i dodged a huge bullet.

[BarryLiverstone]

Gotcha. Well being attached is thd start of interest. I also love God and know He made us. But I’ve literally tried to date someone I didn’t see as attractive and never did feel the spark. She had a good personality but the outside appearance does matter

[Opinion Owner]

@BarryLiverstone well you have to prioritise cuz someone super hot and who has a loving personality is really rare tbh. if they exist they are most likely taken and i think there are less than 1%like that

[BarryLiverstone]

We agree that’s 1%. But I’d say that I’m attracted to average and above. So it’s not just 1%., more like 60% are attractive if they make an effort. Think most guys would agree that at least half of the ladies could be seen as good looking. So it’s not that rare. Would you say that 50% of guys are attractive?

[Opinion Owner]

@BarryLiverstone tbh i think most guys i have come accross are not so attractive. they all have some guy of default. i knew theis guy he was a doctor he was really fit all over but his ears were detached. most men have something wrong with them. if i love a man i will completely ignore it and consider it a perfect imperfection but i can't love someone who is a complete dick.

[BarryLiverstone]

No one is perfect, everyone falls short. But he can still appear attractive and just not vibe with you

[Opinion Owner]

@BarryLiverstone ok well i dont like this word attractive. its not scientifically correct. attractive by definition doesn't make sence because scientifically attraction varies according to genes. and second noone has the same tatse. its like saying an art piece is or isn't attractive it doesn't make sense because if someone painted it they must have found it attractive. honestly describing people as attractive is so retarded that i can't imagine ever hearing it from the mouth of an European. i have actually never heard it here in Europe.

[BarryLiverstone]

Cool then I’m ok suggesting another word. For me, if someone is attractive ( good looking, sexy, hot, pretty..) I am excited to kiss her if I vibe with her. I’ve been excited when kissing girls before but the one I tried to date for her personality I tried to kiss 3 times on dates and never did it feel good. So based on science what word would be better?

[Opinion Owner]

@BarryLiverstone ok well i dont see love the same way as other people. i beleieve in god and i believe than anything to do with looks is related to pride whish is a sin. i believe to much lust is sinful. i believe love should be entirely to do with kindness and souls. and both people should be pleasing to god and that god will bless them. dating in this society is a trick from the devil.

[BarryLiverstone]

Makes sense. Are you married?

[BarryLiverstone]

Girls are just less direct overall. Under a handful of times has a girl directly approached for my deets. Usually it’s more subtle

[red324]

That's true. Usually I don't realize they were hitting on me until later because well its not often it happens. 🤷