I put myself out there on a website. And I have so many women following me that it’s more than I can handle. I usually don’t try when it comes to a profile, but I just was putting pictures that represent me, and I guess it’s a hit. Like I’m a good looking guy, but I’m really shy. So I never really tried dating sites or apps before. I also been told that I’m one of those people you’ll only meet once in your life. Like they say I’m really a unique person (lots of people say that about me). Nonetheless, I get flirted on a lot by random strangers, but I never get approached by women. I know the guy is supposed to ask out the girl, but i don’t know them well enough to get comfortable enough to ask them. Like I really need to get know a girl in person first, before I ask her out or even for her number. I want to fall in love, but I’m just unsure because I still need to work on myself.
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What’s your definition on “working on yourself” ? I feel like a lot of men throw themselves into the dating pool without actually realizing that they are partly the main character in getting a relationship started and if they have things that they need to work on that will affect them being available to getting a relationship going, they are better off not pursuing a relationship. Don’t wait to fix things that you know you need to work on, start now so you are available for whomever you decide to take out on a date.
I have insecurities. Like I think I can look better by being at a lower body fat, even though I get compliments. I have body dysmorphia, so I always feel like I’m not good enough. I also feel like I get so in love so easily, and I always end up getting hurt. Stuff like that.
But I have always made every girl that’s been in a relationship with me feel amazing. Like I can still talk to my exes, and they would still want me back. I know I can make any girl happy with me, but I just feel like I have these small quirks that I need to improve on.
Sure, give it a shot.