What should I do? (Wishy washy)?

[Anonymous]

Im 20 and the guy I met online is 22 he seems pretty cool we’re still in the getting to know each other stage. I’m aware that we both are speaking to different people we met on a dating app so that wouldn’t surprise me. The thing is at first I didn’t really care if we talked or didn’t. So I never really cared to reach out. He now tries to make an effort and messages me and we have conversations that are pretty good and just casually texting. However sometimes he will leave me on seen randomly mid convo and he will be active online. That does bother me a bit and it makes me question whether he’s interested or not. Then when he leaves me on seen I don’t double text I leave it as is and then hours later he will text me again or a day later text me again. I know it’s not because he’s busy because he posts online. I made a post once for a Snapchat story that lets people anonymously send you questions. However it will show me who it is if I subscribe to their subscription. One day I got bored and decided I wanted to know who’s sending me these questions and then I found out it was him. The questions/comments were normal for example (how tall are you? Would you rather stay in watch movies or go out? And are you free this weekend? Who’s the last person you texted?). The thing is why are you asking the questions anonymously if you can ask me personally like why do you want to know those things if you’re gonna randomly leave me on seen? My friend says he’s most likely trying to see if I’d chase him to boost his ego but i don’t chase lol. What do y’all think I should do? And what do you think is going on? 🤔 or maybe I’m looking too much into it?

[Guyvo]

Ur looking too much into it. Your dating for a reason. Playing mindgames is for during cluedo etc

[Asker]

I could be looking too much into it I don't know lol I’m just confused whether I should keep speaking to him or not

[spartan55]

You are definitely looking too far into it. Have you even met him in person yet?

[Asker]

I have not Im interested in him and he talks about planning something soon but yea as of now no we have not met in person

[spartan55]

Does he know that you are interested in him?

[Asker]

We met on a dating app and yes we both have flirted with each other so I’m sure he knows at least I think he does

[spartan55]

I wouldn't be so sure.

[Kareem_z21]

I think he isn't serious with you. Or he just chats with you when he is only on mood for it or when he feels bored. Did you meet in person?

[Asker]

No we haven’t met in person yet he talks about wanting to meet me in person sometimes but plans never fall through it’s still pretty early we’re still getting to know each other a bit but I don’t know if I should continue talking to him lol cause I’m not sure what his deal is

[Kareem_z21]

Does he try to be naughty with you while chatting?

[Asker]

No he hasn’t talked me like that lol it’s just normal conversation like trying to get to know me and updating each other about our day and stuff

[Kareem_z21]

Try to not talking to him and see his reaction

[Asker]

So next time he hits me up just don’t respond? Bet lol thank you!

[Kareem_z21]

And also don't try to initiate it yourself

[Asker]

I only initiated a conversation maybe once or twice but yea definitely not doing that lol

[Kareem_z21]

Also feel free to pm if something new happened with it

[Asker]

Thank you!! I Appreciate it

[Kareem_z21]

With pleasure :)