Im 20 and the guy I met online is 22 he seems pretty cool we’re still in the getting to know each other stage. I’m aware that we both are speaking to different people we met on a dating app so that wouldn’t surprise me. The thing is at first I didn’t really care if we talked or didn’t. So I never really cared to reach out. He now tries to make an effort and messages me and we have conversations that are pretty good and just casually texting. However sometimes he will leave me on seen randomly mid convo and he will be active online. That does bother me a bit and it makes me question whether he’s interested or not. Then when he leaves me on seen I don’t double text I leave it as is and then hours later he will text me again or a day later text me again. I know it’s not because he’s busy because he posts online. I made a post once for a Snapchat story that lets people anonymously send you questions. However it will show me who it is if I subscribe to their subscription. One day I got bored and decided I wanted to know who’s sending me these questions and then I found out it was him. The questions/comments were normal for example (how tall are you? Would you rather stay in watch movies or go out? And are you free this weekend? Who’s the last person you texted?). The thing is why are you asking the questions anonymously if you can ask me personally like why do you want to know those things if you’re gonna randomly leave me on seen? My friend says he’s most likely trying to see if I’d chase him to boost his ego but i don’t chase lol. What do y’all think I should do? And what do you think is going on? 🤔 or maybe I’m looking too much into it?
What should I do? (Wishy washy)?
