I’m leaving the ball in her court right now. I told her just to contact me when she had a good time time to come over. I’m not going to ask her again.
The last time I messaged her was on Saturday. She told me she could “hopefully” come over Sunday or Monday night. She asked about I planned on doing. I joked about teasing her, showing her my place I proudly fixed up and giving her a belated Christmas gift (it’s cheap/small but thoughtful). She responded with “ok I okay. I see!” I didn’t respond to that. Haven’t heard from her since.
I know better than to push it. Need to withdrawal and get her thinking about me. Asking her again to come over will just look needy. I have to avoid that at all costs.
But yet I’m feeling a strong urge to contact her again. I think it’s because she got my hopes earlier, I’m bored and she’s hot. Any advice to act like don’t give a f*ck? Hate being in this position.
Yeah I knew the right answer before I even asked this. I’m just getting shit tested and need some encouragement not to screw it up anymore.
I hate when women do this crap. But a cat is a cat and you need to LET it be a cat.
You do nothing and wait for her to come to you while you spend your time doing your hobbies or taking other women out. Also, why the fuck did you get her a Christmas gift dude? That was unnecessary and makes you look desperate especially if she flaked on you.
Nah the gift was bought before she came cancelled. It’s cheap and simple (it’s scented soap shaped as flowers). There is also a big age gap. She’s in her early 20s and I’m in my late 30s.
She said she wanted to meet up but keep it on the DL. Which tells me she’s interested in messing around but doesn’t want anybody to know about it. I’m completely fine with that. Her and I will never get into something long term all factors considered.
But you might have a point about the gift. I actually bought several boxes of them to hand out to other women in my family for Christmas gifts. I just had one box leftover. But still I of should of just kept that as a surprise.
Anyway yeah what you are saying is right. I just needed someone to tell me that. Not going to message her again for quite a while.