So, a month a go I met a guy on this online dating app, we didn't meet in person yet, because we want to take it slow since both of us have major trust issues, we both have been hurt in the past, so we're both sort if in a healing process... But we both found that little trust to tell each other our stories, and we're motivating each other to get better, and he does think we're compatible (he said it straight out).
He already mentioned that we will be meeting, so he technically asked me out. We're just waiting for the best moment since we both work nonstop... We have A LOT OF THINGS in common, he sends me songs every single day, we're both into the same genre and we did talk a lot during the last month... Sometimes, I'm a little insecure, because he sort of takes distances from me from time to time, so I'm always convinced that he actually does not like me anymore, or that he found better, I OVERTHINK A LOT, and I don't feel like telling him this because i might loose him for good,... I'M STUPID BECAUSE I MISS HIM, I'd literally text him THE WHOLE FREAKING TIME, i can't get enough of him and I also want to show him that i'm there, I am present, I am interested... but I don't know how to handle this, I don't know how to deal with this stupid insecurity of mine... if he doesn't text me for a whole day, he will the next day though, and that only means he was thinking about me... but at the same time I'm scared to seem too obsessed and try to match the vibe of distancing as well... BUT I AM SCARED THAT HE THINKS THAT I DON'T WANT HIM ANYMORE... i'm just... tired of overthinking, overanalyzing, I don't know how to deal with this. He is an amazing guy, and I don't wanna loose him and contact with him... should I be patient? How do I control this !! HELP
Trust Issues, Online Dating, First steps to take?
