What foods should be avoided on a first date?

Question

I think it would be better not to order foods that are difficult to eat, such as hamburgers or spaghetti, on the first date... Do you have any experience on this? What foods not to eat on the first date?

Peter_Penetrator · Accepted Answer

If you are worried about your breath, if you both have garlic or onions, you won’t smell it on the other person. Like a kid that drinks alcohol, if their parents drink a lot, they won’t smell it on their kids. Same with smoking.

So if you both have pizza then eat similar toppings. I have cooked a homemade ragu for a first date. Only instead of spaghetti pasta, we ate it over pasta shells.

Before the date, l had asked her what kind of pizza toppings she liked. This way l was able to gage if l needed to omit any of my ragu ingredients. I even made garlic bread. Because we had eaten the same meal, there were no offensive odors.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Honestly I think if a girl can eat in front of me she’s got potential to be a keeper. I don’t mean she’s scarfing down 3 burgers and fries, a coke and a shake. She should be comfortable eating in front of me. We all eat. Don’t try to act like oh I’ll just have a salad. Get food.

Bethany22 · Accepted Answer

Anything that could make your breath stink: dairy products, fish

Messy food: spaghetti, or anything handheld

Stuff you don't know how to cut properly: meat, baked potato still in the peel

Also, as a woman, be sure to get something that's healthy yet also filling, in order to show the guy that while you do care about health, you also care about being full. So if you're opting for salad, make sure there's chicken, quinoa, or rice that balances out the lettuce. I don't recommend ceaser salad, as that's fattening. But things like poke bowls are trendy now, or stir-fry.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I hung out with two friends, a male and a female and the male refused to share dishes the way we do in Asian culture, forcing us to order food at an American junk food restaurant that gives individualized eating bowls. I wanted Chinese food cause I thought it was healthier. So shared dishes is something you both have to agree to before hand.

I also had a non Chinese friend who refused to eat at restaurants where the people kill the fish or lobster in front of you after you order it so that your sea food is freshly boiled. Another thing to consider.

keepersecret58 · Accepted Answer

Anything that uses hands. No cheeseburgers no sandwiches no wings none of that. Also, first dates are meant for conversation more than anything else eat a little bit before the date. Don’t get too full! But full enough that you’re not crazy hungry when you get there.

eternal_heck · Accepted Answer

Anything that can make your breathe smell extra horrible - lots of onion or garlic. Anything else is fair, I’d say. I’ll even eat messy foods - it ends up being a good laugh for us both lol.

greyislife · Accepted Answer

Anything that will cause bad breath, gas, or a mess

Finchie40 · Answer

Anything that doesn’t sit well inside you that gives ya Gas lol Holding in gas during a date sucks , so I tend to not eat or drink a lot when I am on a date to avoid embarrassment , stay away from spicy or hot foods or anything that is real rich in flavor unless you want to run to the bathroom on your first date , after then3rd or 4 th date if it makes it that far let loose and bust ass if you want lol

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I avoid foods with garlic or onions, and I also avoid foods that have a liquid that can be splashed or dripped on my shirt, such as spaghetti sauce or roast beef au jus.

PrincessBunBuns · Answer

Definitely fast food. Other than that, eat whatever you want.

Avicenna · Answer

Ones that are messy and/or give you gas

Anonymous · Answer

I usually choose foods like tacos, pizza, kebab, burgers or sushi as first date food. You know, the kind of food that’s basically impossible to eat without making a mess and stuff like that. And that’s for many reasons.

one reason is actually a little of a test. Even though we just met, I want you to be comfortable enough to eat a sloppy taco with me. Because if you can do that on the first date that’s a lot of extra points.

another reason is that… it’s food most people like. People know what it is. So instead of going to some place where you barely understand the menu you know what you’ll get… and the food is not the important thing…. Your date is.

and a third reason… people usually get very happy when you suggest a date at the taco restaurant or something like that. Because it is unusual. A lot of times these persons have been to dates on so fancy places so the pressure was too strong and the food was weird etc… and those dates don’t lead anywhere.

and again, another test… if they won't go on a date with you because you suggested a pizza place that just shows that you weren’t the important thing for them on a date… the food/place were.

JacobJordan · Answer

if you are going on a date with a guy rule of thumb my parents taught me and my sibling and the rule of thumb my now wife was also taught. mirror your date in terms of cost and choices. what does this mean? pretty simple if you go out and he orders a soda, tea, coffee don't order a beer, wine, shot etc. if he orders say a burger don't go ordering a $30 filet of fish. as far as foods to specifically avoid it does depend on the type of gal you are. if you are the type of gal who will be doing kissing or more at the end then avoid basically the entire menu outside of salad (mind the dressing and the cheese) and get a water. specific items. anything with red sauce (also typically has garlic/onion) dairy, coffee, alcohol, dairy based soups (cream of, chowders, cheese etc) if you are not the type of gal who does kissing or more on date 1 then you can sort of order whatever just use the rule of thumb and avoid messy foods.

Anonymous · Answer

Onions; anything that makes you gassy, a lot of broccoli, obviously... but there's also whatever the other person is (seriously) allergic to.

I have a major allergy to certain foods. Some allergies are minor - I can eat a tiny amount, or I can touch the food, and I probably get hives, my lips will swell, my eyes will get itchy; it won't be fun, but it's ok once I I get it out of my system (It's not a big issue). SOME foods can guarantee me a trip to the ER. (Shrimp, etc), even if I don't eat it.

You could ask if there's something likely that is a common allergy (nuts and peanuts are becoming more common).

Bricealan · Answer

@gayesblog After reading @Bethany22 below, I have to agree with her, 100%, and would also add from what a girl at work said... for god's sake nothing that would give you GAS !

Only thing I would add or change is that after a meal, especially on a date, I don't like feeling 'full', as that tends to slow me down and I don't like feeling that way, anytime, especially with a date.

Anonymous · Answer

On first dates, it's generally a good idea to avoid foods that can be messy, difficult to eat, or have strong, lingering odors. Some examples might include:

1. Spaghetti or other messy pasta dishes.
2. Foods with garlic or onions, as they can cause bad breath.
3. Very spicy foods, which might lead to discomfort or sweating.
4. Foods that you're allergic to or have had bad reactions to in the past.
5. Extremely exotic or unusual dishes, as they may not suit everyone's taste.

Choosing foods that are easy to eat and won't leave you feeling self-conscious can help you focus on getting to know your date better.

Benplus10 · Answer

First dates are all about making a good impression.. so I recommend nothing that will make you gassy, and for sure messy or overly fragrant foods.

examples: 1. Gas blasters: , beans, lots of dried fruit..

2. Ribs, salads, ice cream ( most food you need hands only to eat)( salad can get caught in your teeth)( ice cream always melts… obviously)

3. garlic, garlic, garlic, and don’t smoke cigarettes or vape ( shtank-eh)

HawkPerception · Answer

It really doesn't matter what anyone eats, as long as they aren't chewing like a cow with their mouth open and have basic table manners. There's something called a breath mint or gum if you're worried about bad breath. Just be yourself and eat what you like.

Drewtate · Answer

Anything that will mess your clothes up. The worst things are probably Mexican good, Chinese food or Indian food. Anything that possibly may upset your stomach and have you running for the bathroom.

I took a chick to a Mexican restaurant who had real bad IBS, we had to stop 3 times for her to use the bathroom. She actually came to my place because it was the closest bathroom.

WillowofFeathers · Answer

I don’t think there’s food that should be avoided unless it’s only of them eating it. Messy food is okay too as long as both persons are eating it. The same goes for food that gives bad breath like garlic. If they both eat it I don’t think there’s any food that should be avoided on first date

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I would say nothing. As long as both people enjoy it. But for a few first dates, I would choose neutral places in the food category. People have different smell sensitivity, so it's better not to overdo it.

For me, the best and safest would be sushi, pasta/pizza or some salad.

MustafaAl · Answer

Hi, Just be yourselves don't become a different person otherwise you'll get depressed.

For the sake of etiquette choose the dish that is easy to eat

For me i guess I'll order my favourite and her favourite uf we have common favourite then its good.

Dont waste your time caring what other people think or your impression think about relational depth

Life is both simple and complex at the same time
Its like 0 and 1 at the same time not 0 and 1

DubiousIntentions · Answer

Garlic or any food that produces gas. There should be no tooting on a date.

jshm2 · Answer

Any foods. You are there to talk and gather information, not fucking eat. Order drinks, and something light at best. Heavier stuff if only if the date is going somewhere.

The food is just mostly for show. If you or they are eating more than talking, then you're not on a date. Just eating with an associate.

Jersey2 · Answer

I have the same rule of avoiding sloppy meals at business lunches or dinners. It works there too. Things that can fall off your fork and splash off the dinner plate or drip are a no. Small things like tiny bit that can come off and roll down your chest are also a no.

tfan1 · Answer

Anything not messy like sauces, don’t eat anything with poppy seed. It makes your teeth look nasty and if stopped by cops, it can give a false positive on a drug test (mythbusters confirmed this). Don’t eat anything that will give you gas like leafy greens or beans. (Might want to take a bean-o just in case)

hotwheelz78 · Answer

ANYTHING THAT MAKES YOU FART...(AND THAT WOULD MAKE SAID FARTS STINK...).. THE STINKY ONES ARE HARDER TO DENY... AND SHITTING YOUR PANTS IN FRONT OF SOMEONE YOU'RE ATTRACTED TO (AND SUBSEQUENTLY TRYING TO HAVE SEX WITH) CAN BE MADE MUCH MORE DIFFICULT WITH THE AROMA OF KETCHUP AND ONION, GARLIC, OR JUST YOUR BUTT IN GENERAL... LOL

Asimiv · Answer

Anything that would make you gassy. So wether it's sth that makes you personally gassy or sth that is universally gas inducing (like beans or just legumes in general)

Singing_Hollow · Answer

lol I say dont avoid any foods. Let the guy see who you are instead of putting up a fake front in order to impress him. He would appreciate it more seeing the real you from the get go rather you trying to be miss perfect lol

Jasmin01 · Answer

Definitely not something with tomato sauce, like spaghetti. It's more than embarrassing when you make a mess.

Nigjt · Answer

The kind that make u the hornest well for me that's jumbo shrimp & some smoked oysters an some good music as she lays their between my leg's all as well running her lip's an tongue all over the head 9f my Cock.
Damn how much I love that from most Women who know how to Play with one in the wright way .
God Bless

Kokoaquest · Answer

Beans, anything with garlic in it, corn on the cob, lentils, nuts anything that could give you gas. Personally I like to take peppermint oil tablets from the herbal stores so it prevents any embarrassing moments..

johnnydeeeep · Answer

I think all food ought be a avoided on a first date if at all possible. Just a personal preference according to my own subjective reasoning pertaining on what I'm usually attempting to accomplish on a first date.

MiddleAgedClimbee · Answer

Any food served at a strip club!
In all seriousness, perhaps, messier finger foods should be avoided, but beyond that I'd like to think that two adults trying to enjoy each other's company can keep it somewhat clean :-).

madhatters4 · Answer

messy chicken wings. probably very saucy foods in general food with lots of garlic or onion

Simslover92 · Answer

Anything with onions in it and garlic. If you end up having a first kiss at the end, it won't be pretty.

Tamera952 · Answer

Anything messy, sloppy, saucy, or requiring special tools (crab leg crackers) in order to eat it. (Pasta is a NO, Corn on the cob is a NO, BBQ ribs is a NO, …etc.)

Unycorn · Answer

I would say rather uncomplicated food that keeps your clothes and fingers clean. So no spaghetti with tomato sauce or spare ribs. Exceptions prove the rule.

aceleon · Answer

pasta is a definite no, it will make you look like a slob no matter what, not a breath stinker (such as garlick, onions, dairy products or sea food) also no soup either.

Lara_Croft · Answer

Burgers aren't bad as long as they don't have too much stuffing. Pasta is probably not a good idea. Rice is usually okay; Chinese food, korean, African these are safe options

Anonymous · Answer

Foods the make you gassy 💨 I always felt a first date should be something simple like a cappuccino ☕️ and dessert 🍮 at a café. Guy should still pay but don’t spend a lot on a first date. Girls who are looking for $300 dinner’s are only using a dude.

hppygrl · Answer

All of these answers are great and I would add NOTHING THAT GETS STUCK IN YOUR TEETH!! Salad leaves and broccoli are horrible offenders- check your mirror after eating 😂🥦

4ngelic · Answer

anything with strong smells (garlic for ex) or that would gross someone out from kissing you after (like fish)

Anonymous · Answer

Anything that is very messy to eat I would say as well as anything very strong smells such as garlic. I also think there is a balance to the amount you should order food wise. You definitely don't want to order to much food I would say.

Tbh I guess there is a lot of neuance to things to order and not to order on a first date.

VanityFair888 · Answer

Foods that are messy to eat.  Anything too spicy.  Anything too smelly.  Anything that you haven't tried before.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

I don't have experience, but I know of a few smelly foods: Onions (especially red), chives, garlic, sausages, spicy foods, etc.

TalkWithoutSpeaking · Answer

Wings, ribs, burgers, cheep pizza, unless you want to make a mess and have fun and flirt about that and use the mess as a tool 😊

overthinkergirl · Answer

I don't like to eat at all on the first date but yeah I agree with spagheti and pizza and much more

laurieluvsit · Answer

Sardines and garlic. Also, licorice makes your breath smell like cigarettes.

Horse-girl · Answer

Smelly foods or messy food like spaghetti as you said is all I can think of.

Marcuslrh · Answer

I would say seafood nothing worse then a first kiss of seafood breath🤢

Constatine · Answer

But but... slagetti is so romantic... { # lady and the tramp scene )

Andres77 · Answer

Anything with tomato sauce or ribs or wings…. or…these would actually be the best foods to eat on a first date, because you would learn so much about them…🤔

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Anything and/or everything sloppy & stinky, for sure.

SongBird3 · Answer

For me, salads. They are soo messy to eat and gets stuck in your teeth

whirled_up_girl · Answer

Spinach or things that get stuck between your teeth.

Paris13 · Answer

Cheesy Buns and Chocolate from a Red Lobster. lolxxoo

A_Bell · Answer

All food. I hated eating on first dates. So awkward.

sage2021 · Answer

Spaghetti 🍝 with the long pasta noodles and sauce. There is just no graceful way to eat spaghetti.

strateguy632 · Answer

first impressions are important but still must be yourself so whatever you usually eat

Worrying · Answer

Durians. They make the breath stinks after eating.

molonski2 · Answer

Anything that is messy and difficult should certainly be avoided , pretty good logic.

Jonnywayne · Answer

I can only recommend not eating tough meat. If it's stuck in your teeth, you can forget any kissing.

Kinkyhubby · Answer

I would say Onion or garlic. I would not mind a woman eating g messy food on first date. If she ordered ribs, or a burger. Then I know she more down to earth, and not trying to be fake

LiamJHayden · Answer

None. I actually prefer messy foods. Nothing says "I'm real and comfortable in my skin" than getting some spots from pasta sauce on a shirt.

alice55 · Answer

cheese, garlic (anything that smell strong) and herbs / salad (can get into your teeth).

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