Boyfriend used his former girlfriend for practice and left her for me? How do I know if he will do the same to me if he finds a prettier girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

His friends told me that he didn't really love her and used his former girlfriend for practice. He used to have a crush on me for years but I'm physically not his type since I'm short and normal weight while he prefers borderline anorexic tall women. How do I know that he doesn't use me as a stepping stone to women he considers hotter/out of his league?

[provokeesmokee]

He will. He told you already that the last person he did this with was his ex. You're the next one.

Dump his ass. Don't devalue yourself by accepting being his stepping stone.

"Hey you're cool and I decided to fuck with another person to make myself feel better, and I totally promise you you're different."

See how bullshit that sounds? He's gonna say anything he can to get your pants off. And he's going with "women are disposable to me" as his approach.

C'mon, now. You know what to do to protect yourself.

[Asker]

No he did not tell me, his friends did. He had a crush on me before he met her but I still have a bad feeling about him.

[provokeesmokee]

Listen to your gut.

At best, he has shit friends who think this is just a funny prank. At somewhat better, they're being truthful and doing what they can to protect you.

[notfoundtoday]

Hard to judge as you only know him better.
Suggestion will be to take things slow and see where it goes.

[Flatmanlewis]

You have no way of knowing this. Only time will tell. My belief system: once a cheater, always a cheater.

[Asker]

he never cheated but he left her for me

[ChicoFromThe305]

That's a very self aware way of thinking you are doing there anon, you don't know and weither you want to take the risk is up to you

[Anonymous]

Typical guy. He will move on soon enough.

[Asker]

are you currently in a relationship?