Is it okay if your SO. is regularly (every 2 weeks) sleeping at an opposite gender's house?

[Anonymous]

my girlfriend met a guy at a party and they have been chatting, and meeting 1on1. She sometimes sleeps at his place after a party.

But she says he is just a friend. What do you think I should do?

[OlderAndWiser]

And you believe this shit? No, girls don't regularly sleep over at a guy's house unless they are having sex.

[OlderAndWiser]

If she says they are not having sex, ask her if you can go with her to the next party and spend the night at his house. She will probably come up with some stupid excuse and it will never happen.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Not cool. At a minimum she is testing the dating pool and your tolerance for such behavior. Worst case scenario she is intimate with him or another individual at the party