Why do girls hate broke guys so much?

[chris_987]

The Lord was broke

[IslaTheWitch]

Being together means both partners make an effort. If you are broken and your girlfriend provides, I assume you do all home chores, including cooking and nice surprises for your hardworking girlfriend?

[chris_987]

That's a horrible idea considering women get pregnant and look for a man that's taller and stronger than them so that they can provide. I don't know why girls seem to think that if a guy takes us a submissive role that she'll still be attracted to that.

[IslaTheWitch]

Why is sharing effort seen as submissive?

[chris_987]

Well think about it this way. Guys can't Wake up and say I want a girl to pursue me so that I can cook and clean and nurture him. What are the chances that he will get in a relationship? Your average girl who hasn't thought about what it's like to live life as a man will say it's very possible. But zero girls approach men. So that means from the get-go men can't adopt a feminine way of being in a relationship. So why would it a woman be attracted to a feminine man?

[wolfcat87]

Women definitely approach men, and women definitely have house husbands. 😆 We know what we are attracted to, and this person's answer is accurate.

[IslaTheWitch]

@chris_987 if girls don't approach you, you can approach them.

In general, if something doesn't work for you, change the approach. Don't blame others. If you look for a specific type of a girl, look in specific circles, when the chance of meeting matching partner is higher

[chris_987]

My point was that a man can't be submissive in the same way that a woman can. In general, a woman can be pursued. A man cannot and that's what makes the woman submissive

[IslaTheWitch]

@chris_987 Man can be pursued the same way. Just has to find a woman who will enjoy it.

[chris_987]

How many girls do you know that will get down on one knee and propose?

[IslaTheWitch]

@chris_987 I did :D

[chris_987]

So does that mean that every guy will find a girl that will go down on one year propose?

[wolfcat87]

I proposed to both husbands and so did my best friend. There are plenty of women who will propose to submissive men. Every guy doesn't have to find a girl to propose... he has to be desirable in some way. We are saying that it does happen and being submissive alone won't prevent it. Neither will being broke. The man has to have value on some kind just like women do.

[wolfcat87]

I proposed to both husbands and so did my best friend. There are plenty of women who will propose to submissive men. Every guy doesn't have to find a girl to propose... he has to be desirable in some way. We are saying that it does happen and being submissive alone won't prevent it. Neither will being broke. The man has to have value on some kind just like women do. We believe it because it's obviously true.

[chris_987]

Okay so I asked the question and you've demonstrated that three girls would get down on one knee and proposed to a guy.

And now you guys are insinuating with that, this is more likely to happen if the guy is submissive. But common sense would show us that a girl who is willing to propose to a guy is like less than 1% of the human population.
But you wouldn't be a woman if you didn't argue for the exception to the rule

[wolfcat87]

Sexism, doesn't listen, and bad communication. Again, you being broke isn't why women don't like you...

[chris_987]

The argument was why do women use being broke as a measure of a man's character. Unless you're about to say that no woman has ever judged a man based off his finances.

[wolfcat87]

The question was, "Why do girls hate broke guys so much?" and the majority of women aren't agreeing. You just don't understand women.

[chris_987]

Why would a girl that hates broke men explain her position? Especially if I posted a question that would insinuate that I don't agree with her assessment of men.

So just because a couple of girls say they don't hate broke men doesn't mean that there are no girls that their German based on his income

[wolfcat87]

Why would you ask a question to a public forum expecting no one to disagree with you? Especially one that's clearly untrue. That's delusional.

Most broke men have been in relationships and even had kids, so again this is a YOU problem and not a broke men problem. Men who are the most poor have the most children statistically. You are undesirable and looking to blame one thing that isn't the issue while ignoring every other red flag being pointed out. Other men are doing great with the one trait you want to blame, and billions of women are dating men with those traits. It's funny.

[wolfcat87]

"Men aged 22–49 with no high school
diploma or GED had fathered a
higher mean number of children
(1.7) than men who had a high
school diploma or GED (1.3) or
those with some college (1.0) or a
bachelor’s degree or higher (1.0).

Men aged 20–49 currently living in
households with incomes at 300%
of the federal poverty level or higher
on average fathered 1.0 child, lower
than the average of 1.3 children
for men living in households with
incomes at 0%–149% of the federal
poverty level and 1.2 children for
men living in households with
incomes at 150%–299% of the
federal poverty level."

https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr179.pdf

[chris_987]

Because girls deep down know it's shameful to judge a man based on his finances. It's the same reason why if I asked how many girls have cheated on their husband, no girls going to volunteer that information.

And just because a couple of girls come saying I've never cheated on my husband. Therefore there are no women that cheat on their husband. I would be stupid to believe that

And that statistic about men being poor have the most children is not a good thing. Most of them have multiple baby mothers. So if one dude impregnates seven girls that's not something we should be celebrating in society and it doesn't mean that women go after broke men. All that statistic points out is that if you're broke, a woman will leave you even if she's pregnant with your child. So you basically defeated your own argument but whatever.

Yeah if you're adding the statics, the 20% of men father like 70% of children.
Then that doesn't mean women are dating broke man. All that means is that The guy is broke and he has confidence in a good dick game. I will have his child but I won't stay with him.

[wolfcat87]

The mental gymnastics your brain goes through to make nonsense make sense are astounding... You're like religiously anti women and that being broke must be the issue and not that the guy is an unintelligent, egotistical, very delusional, nut case who can't do math. Couldn't be that for sure... 1.3 children per poor guy vs 1 per rich doesn't equal 70% of children. This is so dumb.

On the same source, about 70 of poor men having children are married. The majority of first marriages last a median of 22 years.

Only 10% of people with kids have children by multiple partners. Not the majority at any income level.

www.census.gov/.../p70br-146.pdf

Literally nothing you say is actually based in reality or on facts. You just make things up as you go to try to cope with your insecurities as a person. But, that's not how the real world or women work.

[chris_987]

I sighted a different study so you can't say I don't make sense if my results are different from yours. And saying that a lot of women's judge men based of their income is not anti-woman.

You also believe that there are women who will propose to a man and it's so prevalent that it's easy to find so looks like you're the only one not living in the real world.

[IslaTheWitch]

Damn... I should buy popcorn...

[wolfcat87]

Ha ha ha XD

[wolfcat87]

Women don't hate broke guys, they hate men who aren't contributing or bettering their selves and their partners.

[chris_987]

What does that even mean? You literally said something without actually saying anything lol

[wolfcat87]

Women get it. It's not about being broke, it's the other issues with the guy.

[chris_987]

Yeah God forbid You actually want to explain what you mean, but women get it so I guess it doesn't really matter

[wolfcat87]

I explained it twice. 🤣🤣🤣 In your case, this would be a major issue. Not being broke.

[chris_987]

Anyways my whole problem with the broke argument is that it's superficial. Being broke is relative. You can live in a recession where the inflation can make 100k a year pointless. So why base a man's worth of his earnings when the economy determines how much money is worth

[Nikki1989]

Who said we do?

The problem is, men will always believe what they want to believe, and it is not helping them at all.

[chris_987]

I like how you can just ignore society and then come to the conclusion that It must be men who are wrong when they're literally songs about girls who don't like broke guys. videos going viral about girls not wanting to go on cheap dates anymore.

If you're solipsistic and can only see the world through your experience than just say so, no need to gas light ma'am

[purplepoppy]

Yes the Lord was broke, that why it didn't end well for him.

[chris_987]

He died so that we could live

[iwannaknowrn]

I dated a broke guy before. I accepted it at first but I noticed he didn't want to work. He constantly kept askin me for shit like i was his fairy godmother while he sits and play 2k all damn day.

[chris_987]

I have a feeling that's not why you broke up with him though

[iwannaknowrn]

He broke up with me cauze I didn't want to keep spending on him. I felt like i had a child but like i said idc if u broke. Long as u try to change that

[chris_987]

Naww something sounds off. Why would a guy break up with a girl, especially if you're still having sex? You're probably complaining all the time

Cuz if a girl stop paying for my lifestyle but she was still having sex with me. Why would I break up with her?

[chris_987]

I thought it was because you tried to shoot him

[iwannaknowrn]

Lmaooo wtf

[chris_987]

Yeah aren't you Meg the stallion

[iwannaknowrn]

Yes 🌚☠️

[chris_987]

So you're the toxic one then?

[WhitneySnow]

We don’t. But if a guy is truly broke his priority should not be dating a bunch of girls.

[chris_987]

Why is that? And is it the same for women? Should a broke girl not be dating a bunch of guys?

[WhitneySnow]

That’s not an issue because most girls only want to date one guy. It’s just a matter of finding that guy.

[chris_987]

So I date involve spending money?

[WhitneySnow]

It doesn’t have to, but usually it does. But a broke guy could date one special girl if he could think of things to do that don’t involve a lot of money and she’s cool with that.

[chris_987]

But if poor people shouldn't date then how come the poorest countries have the most people.

Doesn't that mean that they're women are more humble than Western women?

[WhitneySnow]

No. It means that they either get married right away or they fuck without dating. Both of which are a terrible idea if you’re my age.

[chris_987]

But that's my point since there aren't any rich people. They don't have those demands of what other countries have where there are rich people. Which means that girls only care about the money instead of the actual guy

[WhitneySnow]

Every country has rich people

[WhitneySnow]

Girls don’t care about money any more than guys do. Thats a total myth. And the ones who do care about it a lot usually go into high paying careers like medicine or law or finance where they can make their own money.

[chris_987]

And you know this because you've dated a lot of girls right?

[WhitneySnow]

No but I am a girl. I don’t care about money, at least not enough to date a guy just because of that. And most of my friends don’t either.

[chris_987]

Well I guess because you said so then that mean girls never look at a guys money

[MemeSupreme]

depends why he's broke. if he's working idc but that's where i'm at. if he's lazy so he does nothing then how the hell can i rely on him?

[chris_987]

He's broke because everyone is broke, especially if you live in a poor country.

[sheenagwapa]

it's better to be with a poor man than with a shitty rich man

[IlllllIll]

I'd choose the good man.

If he happens to be broke, it's alright, we'll make it do.

[whistlingwh0res]

Because they pretend they are cat but they really are a dog

[chris_987]

Cat's are horrible. They ignore you but dogs are obsessed with you. I'd rather be with somebody with a dog personality.

[piang]

not all girls.

[chris_987]

I'm willing to bet that the vast majority of girls who are brainwashed, think that they are entitled to a rich man. Especially now with dating apps. Girls literally choose man based off of superficial things like a good looking photo and the appearance of somebody that looks rich.

[piang]

oh well thats
because of this generation. when they felt the real
connection theyre not gonna be looking about money.