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- Guru Age: 46 , mho 46%5 mo
Being together means both partners make an effort. If you are broken and your girlfriend provides, I assume you do all home chores, including cooking and nice surprises for your hardworking girlfriend?
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Why is sharing effort seen as submissive?
- 5 mo
Well think about it this way. Guys can't Wake up and say I want a girl to pursue me so that I can cook and clean and nurture him. What are the chances that he will get in a relationship? Your average girl who hasn't thought about what it's like to live life as a man will say it's very possible. But zero girls approach men. So that means from the get-go men can't adopt a feminine way of being in a relationship. So why would it a woman be attracted to a feminine man?
- 5 mo
@chris_987 if girls don't approach you, you can approach them.
In general, if something doesn't work for you, change the approach. Don't blame others. If you look for a specific type of a girl, look in specific circles, when the chance of meeting matching partner is higher - 5 mo
@chris_987 Man can be pursued the same way. Just has to find a woman who will enjoy it.
- 5 mo
@chris_987 I did :D
- 5 mo
I proposed to both husbands and so did my best friend. There are plenty of women who will propose to submissive men. Every guy doesn't have to find a girl to propose... he has to be desirable in some way. We are saying that it does happen and being submissive alone won't prevent it. Neither will being broke. The man has to have value on some kind just like women do.
- 5 mo
I proposed to both husbands and so did my best friend. There are plenty of women who will propose to submissive men. Every guy doesn't have to find a girl to propose... he has to be desirable in some way. We are saying that it does happen and being submissive alone won't prevent it. Neither will being broke. The man has to have value on some kind just like women do. We believe it because it's obviously true.
- 5 mo
Okay so I asked the question and you've demonstrated that three girls would get down on one knee and proposed to a guy.
And now you guys are insinuating with that, this is more likely to happen if the guy is submissive. But common sense would show us that a girl who is willing to propose to a guy is like less than 1% of the human population.
But you wouldn't be a woman if you didn't argue for the exception to the rule - 5 mo
Why would a girl that hates broke men explain her position? Especially if I posted a question that would insinuate that I don't agree with her assessment of men.
So just because a couple of girls say they don't hate broke men doesn't mean that there are no girls that their German based on his income - 5 mo
Why would you ask a question to a public forum expecting no one to disagree with you? Especially one that's clearly untrue. That's delusional.
Most broke men have been in relationships and even had kids, so again this is a YOU problem and not a broke men problem. Men who are the most poor have the most children statistically. You are undesirable and looking to blame one thing that isn't the issue while ignoring every other red flag being pointed out. Other men are doing great with the one trait you want to blame, and billions of women are dating men with those traits. It's funny. - 5 mo
"Men aged 22–49 with no high school
diploma or GED had fathered a
higher mean number of children
(1.7) than men who had a high
school diploma or GED (1.3) or
those with some college (1.0) or a
bachelor’s degree or higher (1.0).
Men aged 20–49 currently living in
households with incomes at 300%
of the federal poverty level or higher
on average fathered 1.0 child, lower
than the average of 1.3 children
for men living in households with
incomes at 0%–149% of the federal
poverty level and 1.2 children for
men living in households with
incomes at 150%–299% of the
federal poverty level."
https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr179.pdf - 5 mo
Because girls deep down know it's shameful to judge a man based on his finances. It's the same reason why if I asked how many girls have cheated on their husband, no girls going to volunteer that information.
And just because a couple of girls come saying I've never cheated on my husband. Therefore there are no women that cheat on their husband. I would be stupid to believe that
And that statistic about men being poor have the most children is not a good thing. Most of them have multiple baby mothers. So if one dude impregnates seven girls that's not something we should be celebrating in society and it doesn't mean that women go after broke men. All that statistic points out is that if you're broke, a woman will leave you even if she's pregnant with your child. So you basically defeated your own argument but whatever.
Yeah if you're adding the statics, the 20% of men father like 70% of children.
Then that doesn't mean women are dating broke man. All that means is that The guy is broke and he has confidence in a good dick game. I will have his child but I won't stay with him. - 5 mo
The mental gymnastics your brain goes through to make nonsense make sense are astounding... You're like religiously anti women and that being broke must be the issue and not that the guy is an unintelligent, egotistical, very delusional, nut case who can't do math. Couldn't be that for sure... 1.3 children per poor guy vs 1 per rich doesn't equal 70% of children. This is so dumb.
On the same source, about 70 of poor men having children are married. The majority of first marriages last a median of 22 years.
Only 10% of people with kids have children by multiple partners. Not the majority at any income level.
www.census.gov/.../p70br-146.pdf
Literally nothing you say is actually based in reality or on facts. You just make things up as you go to try to cope with your insecurities as a person. But, that's not how the real world or women work. - 5 mo
I sighted a different study so you can't say I don't make sense if my results are different from yours. And saying that a lot of women's judge men based of their income is not anti-woman.
You also believe that there are women who will propose to a man and it's so prevalent that it's easy to find so looks like you're the only one not living in the real world. - 5 mo
Damn... I should buy popcorn...
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Women don't hate broke guys, they hate men who aren't contributing or bettering their selves and their partners.
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What Girls Said
10.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Who said we do?
The problem is, men will always believe what they want to believe, and it is not helping them at all.
31 Reply- New 5 mo
I like how you can just ignore society and then come to the conclusion that It must be men who are wrong when they're literally songs about girls who don't like broke guys. videos going viral about girls not wanting to go on cheap dates anymore.
If you're solipsistic and can only see the world through your experience than just say so, no need to gas light ma'am
- Xper 2 Age: 245 mo
I dated a broke guy before. I accepted it at first but I noticed he didn't want to work. He constantly kept askin me for shit like i was his fairy godmother while he sits and play 2k all damn day.
18 Reply- 5 mo
He broke up with me cauze I didn't want to keep spending on him. I felt like i had a child but like i said idc if u broke. Long as u try to change that
- 5 mo
Lmaooo wtf
- 5 mo
Yes 🌚☠️
- Master Age: 24 , mho 51%5 mo
Yes the Lord was broke, that why it didn't end well for him.
11 Reply - Guru Age: 185 mo
We don’t. But if a guy is truly broke his priority should not be dating a bunch of girls.
112 Reply- 5 mo
That’s not an issue because most girls only want to date one guy. It’s just a matter of finding that guy.
- 5 mo
It doesn’t have to, but usually it does. But a broke guy could date one special girl if he could think of things to do that don’t involve a lot of money and she’s cool with that.
- 5 mo
No. It means that they either get married right away or they fuck without dating. Both of which are a terrible idea if you’re my age.
- 5 mo
Every country has rich people
- 5 mo
Girls don’t care about money any more than guys do. Thats a total myth. And the ones who do care about it a lot usually go into high paying careers like medicine or law or finance where they can make their own money.
- 5 mo
No but I am a girl. I don’t care about money, at least not enough to date a guy just because of that. And most of my friends don’t either.
- Yoda Age: 21 , mho 34%5 mo
depends why he's broke. if he's working idc but that's where i'm at. if he's lazy so he does nothing then how the hell can i rely on him?
01 Reply - Yoda Age: 385 mo
it's better to be with a poor man than with a shitty rich man
20 Reply I'd choose the good man.
If he happens to be broke, it's alright, we'll make it do.
10 Reply- Yoda Age: 405 mo
Because they pretend they are cat but they really are a dog
11 Reply not all girls.
22 Reply- 5 mo
I'm willing to bet that the vast majority of girls who are brainwashed, think that they are entitled to a rich man. Especially now with dating apps. Girls literally choose man based off of superficial things like a good looking photo and the appearance of somebody that looks rich.
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