In a potential partner, what order would you rank these points/traits as things you must have in a partner?

[Anonymous]

• Intellect
• Humor
• Wealth
• Beauty
• Humility
• Loyalty
• Honesty

Rank in order from 1. Being must have to 7. Being, not important

[NathanDavis]

-Humor
-Intellect
these are two of my three must have, lol... (smart, interesting and funny)
-Beauty
this one would be next because, yes... attraction has to be there too

-Honesty
-Loyalty
-Humility
these I would have ranked them higher on the list, but I put them apart just because I consider them BASIC traits that any decent human being should have and these are a given not something I should be "hoping for"

-Wealth
don't care about money like that, at all

[Asker]

I think if they were basic traits, we wouldn't have people cheating and lying and destroying relationships and whole families. I think they are still something you have to actively look for clues that a person actually has those in spade rather than just think these must be normal for normal people. Normal people cheat, lie, destroy too.

[NathanDavis]

I never had any of the issues... they just have not been part of my life or previous relationships

[Minahh]

Fr few people are honest and have humility these days unfortunately that's why it's in the top of my list

[NathanDavis]

@Minahh very true yes

but in my case, I've been and still am very selective...

I know some people start to date and find out later or on the go, what kind of people the other person is... I've always done it different, first I get to know with someone well enough... and then we hang out, later... so by the time we end up in a relationship, there is no more "surprises" like this

[Minahh]

Good for you for figuring this strategy early, some of us needed to find that through the hardships

[NathanDavis]

@Minahh I actually figured it the very wrong way... at first, lol

but yes, it was early and then I promised myself "never again"

especially, for me to not idealize someone that I have not even met for real yet... lol, that was the thing I did the most wrong

[Hanrej]

1. Honesty

2. Beauty

3. Humor.

4. Intellect.

5. Humility

6. Wealth

7. Loyalty

[Altheavas]

I would go by this order.
• Intellect
• Humor
• Loyalty
• Honesty
• Wealth
• Beauty
• Humility

[Monalisa77]

1) Honesty
2) Humor
3) Intellect

4) Loyalty
5) Beauty
6) Humility
7) Wealth

[fairyprincess26]

Intellect3

Humor4 tied ⤴️

Wealth 6

Beauty 7

Humility5

Loyalty1

Honesty2

Wealth is second to last cause I don’t care about being rich but I don’t wanna be poor bordering on homelessness lol.. and beauty is last cause that shii fades and then it’s just the personality left

[IslaTheWitch]

Intellect
Humor
Honesty
Loyalty
Humility


Wealth
Beauty

[WhitneySnow]

Honesty Loyalty Intellect Humor Humility Beauty Wealth in that order

[captain_voidwalker]

1: loyalty
2: honesty
3: humility
4: beauty
5: humor
6: intellect
7: wealth

[Minahh]

1. Honesty

2. Loyalty
3. Humility
4. Beauty
5. Intellect
6. Wealth
7. Humor

[ThrillSeeker01]

Honesty, loyalty, intellect, humor, beauty, wealth, humility

[Likes2drive]

Beauty

humor

honesty

loyalty

humility

intellect

wealth

[MikeyObrien]

Loyalty
Beauty
Humor
Humility
Honesty
Intellect
Wealth