Why did his ex tell me she’s shocked he took me to such nice restaurants/places early on? Why does she care what we did on our dates?

[Anonymous]

[OlderAndWiser]

She's jealous that he treated you better than he treated her.

[Asker]

She also brought my age into this. She’s 36 and I’m 27. That’s not old at all but she marked me up to be a young bimbo and that’s why he left her for me…

[OlderAndWiser]

That anger is consistent with her being jealous.

[Asker]

She told him it’s abusive that he’s dating someone much younger. He’s late 30s and I’m late 20s so I don’t see a problem.
She was like “he must really like you if he did all those things for you at first. That’s not his MO” and then gave him a hard time for spending so much money on me and said it’s ridiculous and how he did that just to sleep with someone.

[OlderAndWiser]

Can you cut off your contract with his ex? Nothing good will come from you talking to her.

[Asker]

Yeah she contacted me on fb and was really aggressive.

[ThrillSeeker01]

She hasn't been getting that kind of treatment, maybe.