My boyfriend makes me feel guilty?

[Anonymous]

I have endometriosis. For the people that have it understand have painful it is. I’ve been on very strong painkillers but my body has gotten used to it and it’s gave me IBS, more pain that I have to deal with. I was thinking about getting a hysterectomy. When I told my boyfriend that he said “A girl having her uterus is kinda what makes you a women. And without it the greatest gift you have is gone” that made me feel like shit. I can’t sleep at night bc of pain. I can’t workout, walk, eat or even get out of bed bc of the pain. What I’m I supposed to do?

[IslaTheWitch]

What do you value more, your own health and well-being or some man's opinion, who can't even relate to your experience?

If he can't show a minimum empathy, focus on yourself and make yourself feel better. It's in your hands, so, don't wait for an idiot to understand and do whatever you have to and don't pay attention to his opinion.

[Nikki1989]

He sounds like a real ass. You know what you have to do.

[Asker]

Yes haha it’s more about doing it now

[Roudyrebel8]

He shouldn't be making you feel that way. He should have compassion for what you're going through and try to be comforting and supportive.

[LiamJHayden]

Dump that inconsiderate clown. Sorry if that sounds harsh, but that is my guy reaction.

[Asker]

Haha dw, but yes I probably should

[NathanDavis]

the quicker the better...

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