Do you agree that handsome guys are more loyal than unattractive guys? (Page 2)

[sabaileytx]

If a man is very attractive, women will tempt him. Testosterone is a powerful hormone. It’s hard to say no. Notice I said attractive, not handsome. Because if you are particularly alluring because of your demeanor, not good looks, that’s attractive. I’m not particularly handsome in my opinion, but my whole life women were just attracted to me. A LOT of women. Beware of the women looking for Prince Charming, they have vanity issues. Instead, find one that is attracted to you because of your demeanor. Those appreciate you for you. But a little bit of good looks along with that is putting a cherry on top!

[katiesmuff]

If I were voting on this I'd vote NO and my reason first would be because a good looking guy is going to get cheating opportunities with many taking advantage of it where an unattractive guy (and that is all your personal perspective) would feel more secure once he has scored a good going relationship.

[razelove]

I agree that if a simple opportunity to cheat comes up that someone attractive is less likely to take it. If they want to cheat they can simply make their own opportunity rather than being passive about it.

Being attractive or not won't affect how loyal you are in a relationship. It will only affect how many opportunities you can make to cheat every year, no more or less.

[Lionman95]

No I would say there is no rule that handsome guys do this and unattractive guys do that. It´s rather a question of character than of attractiveness. Both attractive and unattractive guys can be loyal or cheaters it rather depends on their behavior. Like a cheater is more likely to self focused and a person that looks for his or her benefit asap while a loyal person is ready to develop something over time.

[patrick994]

These are only generalisations based on personal experiences, the betrayer can be good or bad, what matters is why he betrays.

Are you sure that ugly guys had a happy sex life with girls? Did they give them everything they wanted in this respect?

Are you sure that beautiful girls loved them and made them feel wanted?

Often the reasons for betrayals can be these, as you see beauty has nothing to do with it.

[Danny_dan92]

Think about this….






Just like how beautiful women’s loyalty is tested every single day.




The same goes for objectively good looking dudes.




That being said, if you have a person that is approached and flirted with way more than an unattractive person…. What is the probability of them being more loyal than the person that hardly is approached?

[Asker]

Let go of the idea that a guy hardly or easily approaches. Loyalty, respect, honour, appreciation, love, care is necessary in a relationship. Most of the handsome guys I know does it. Unattractive guys only cheat, treat the other poorly, have egos in the boys I know

[Danny_dan92]

You completely missed my point

[Anonymous]

I don’t think looks have anything to do with the issue, think about. if a beautiful girl sees herself as settling for less how is she going to treat that guy? Probably not great. There’s a good chance she will be constantly nagging him, always have problems to bring up, issues and demands to make him live up to what she failed to get. Of course he would cheat under these circumstances. he’s not happy or even being treated right.


on average even outside of relationships people that look better get treated better. I don’t think it’s the ugliness but the shallowness that causes men to cheat.

[Anonymous]

So you would be okay with an attractive guy cheating?

"beautiful girlfriend who settled for less with them by mistaking that they are good guys"

you don't see how stupid and dehumanizing this type of thinking is?

They are good guys but actually less because they are unattractive?

If you go into a relationship with this mentality, you will get cheated. You have no clue about good relationships. People cheat because of their mentality and being in different positions in life, not as per their appearance.

[WanderingSigma]

I believe you are close in your answer but this mostly depends on the persons background. Sometimes men who aren’t attractive know this and do this to exact revenge even if the girl doesn’t deserve this. There’s other times where a man may be addicted to drugs and his past life may not have been so well. Men are very emotional believe it or not despite most men not sharing how they feel with women. I’m not usually one to judge though I think every man is valuable in his own right.

[RingOfFire]

There is a saying that a man is only as loyal as his options. So by that standard more attractive men would have more options and be less loyal. I do think that is the case with some attractive men. The options are greater and it is hard to resist the temptation.

That aside I don't think you can generalize much. There are plenty of loyal attractive men and disloyal unattractive men.

So I don't think you can reasonably generalize one way or the other.

[9in_Serpent]

It could be because attractive men are seen as competition so everyone treats them like shit and women think they are out of their league or are too intimidated by them and think they won't be able to keep them. Basically insecurity and jealousy destroying everyone's lives

[molonski2]

I'm sorry , completely untrue..

The more opportunity = more temptation = very rarely loyal

It makes obvious sense.

[Forceinhand]

How do you approach beauty after a certain point being subjective then? How do you determine and by what metric how handsome a man is from another and where on the scale they place on loyalty? You can't just draw a completely generalized conclusion based on a tiny sample of encounters, though I realize telling that to gaggers is like squeezing water from a rock.

[TenderFantasy]

Yes I agree with you.

If I didn't also personally see it and experience it myself, my answer would have been different!

[Claire2002]

Let's say that it's random: being handsome doesn't influence your loyality per-se. But handsome guys have many more opportunities to cheat compared to average guys. Plus, many of them have an inflated ego so they cheat more.

[Twalli]

It's really based on how you are beyond physical looks. I don't exactly look that attractive, but I have a good heart and even girls who never wanted to date me liked my personality because I showed then what a guy could be if he was a goid person on the inside.

[Tomisworthless]

Handsome guys are better for women than unattractive guys in terms of respect, confidence boosting, dignity so forth, ugly men are rude and treat people poorly because of being treated poorly their whole lives they are bitter. Handsome men are less loyal/committed to a relationship because if they truly are handsome they have plenty of women tempting them unlike unattractive men who nobody wants

[FreyaRed]

Among handsome guys you will find sooner an idealist than among average boys.

[bobalife]

I think anyone can cheat if they choose to and don’t respect/love/value their partner enough… :/

[DreamCrescent]

i think what you’re trying to say is the loyal ones are handsomer.

dishonest disingenuous guys are uggo inside and out.

we’re on the same page ;)