Do you feel like you meet womens/mens standards?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[TenderFantasy]

This isn't a simple yes or no answer. Everyone is different and has different standards/requirements in relationship. If everyone was the same and had the same likes/dislikes, it would be a very boring planet/world.

I honestly don't care to meet men/women's standards. I am ME and if they don't like it well tough cookies.

At the end of the day, I learned that what truly matters is what I think of myself really. Why should I care what a lot of men want? Also like I said, every man is different. Some want Double/Tripple D breasts, some are butt/ass men. Unfortunately, life is more complicated than that. You might meet a woman with the physical qualities that you like but she is a total bitch or vice versa with women. They might meet someone they really find physically appealing, but they are an asshole or are already taken, live half way across the world, in jail, etc. Unfortunately life's more complicated than that.

[IslaTheWitch]

I don't rate myself or others. I don't set expectations.

Don't you think it's utterly wrong? We should put an effort to get to know people. Then, we can say if we like this person or not.

Let's say person X expects their partner to be blonde and of a specific height and weight. So if person X meets someone with red or black hair, bigger or smaller, does it mean person X should give up? And what if this someone makes person X smile and feel good?

[NathanDavis]

these standards are not actually standard...

standard means there's a generalized norm... and well, for women, it does vary a lot from person to person

but sure, there are personal standards and naturally... some will do, others will not

usually, the ones I do not meet are those of very religious nature as I'm not the most religious person, myself

[dynamicyandere]

Ever since my first year in college, finding women who want to date me hasn’t been a struggle. It actually wasn’t a struggle in high school either. If anything, I’M the picky one.


I’m not the tallest, nor am I the most handsome, but it’s my personality and charisma that wins people over.


My continual focus on self-improvement helps as well.

[Account]

What are those standards? Can you please elaborate?

[zeitgeist057]

what do you feel like they are? I think that's part of what's being asked.

[Account]

Νo clue. That is exactly why I am asking.

[zeitgeist057]

what are your standards?

[Avicenna]

There are no general standards. So no one meets them all anyway.

[RolandCuthbert]

The responses are all over the place. The issue is that in American society more people are feeling lonelier and more isolated today than at any other time in this nation's history. And it is so odd seeing that we have the technology to alleviate that loneliness and isolation, even during Covid.

But what is worse is that we don't seem to have a way out of this because we don't have any mechanism to cope or to get an understanding of what is happening. This question. . . at least I hope, is to help reveal people's frustrations with being social or feeling accepted in society. But responses don't lead to further discussion. They are just declarations of independence or individuality.

"I don't need anyone".

"I don't care if people don't like me".

Which are just lies. We are human beings. Human are social animals. And when we are not accepted or can't find people that we can be social with we start to develop dysfunction, mental health issues, etc.

It is a lie that only the weak get lonely. It is a lie that being isolated makes you strong. We all need healthy happy relationships. We need our tribes and the folks who are on our side.

https://fortune.com/well/2023/08/11/loneliness-study-digital-social-media/

A third of Americans say that they feel lonelier than ever before.

New data from a consumer study released in June, conducted by A/B Consulting in partnership with Maveron VC firm, found 34% of Americans expect to spend more time by themselves with 37% saying they don’t interact with anyone at least once a week.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/3WaEuRWoCcQ

[DeeDeeDeVour]

I've been often told by men that "You're much more than any guy would ever want in a woman."

From women: "You're my idol!"

I guess it's safe to assume from those quotes that I generally meet both a man's and a woman's standards.

[zeitgeist057]

All except for the big one: monogamy

But that's alright, I manage to do just fine with those that aren't hung up on monogamy. :)

https://www.youtube.com/embed/pFDWY7LFpP0

[D_Bone_Steak]

I picked yes, but my real answer is yes and no.

I mean the women don't even know what they want half the time. Yes they'll describe what they want and don't want, but then if you look at the last 3 or 4 dudes she let poke her...

Maybe what they want changes like emotions change. I don't know.

[Реrverted_Сreeр]

I think it's a @BonerKiller when someone tells you you're everything they want, they start to feel like you've got them by their balls.

So they only tell you that they want exactly what you are, at the times when they just want a quick fucking, when you not valuing them won't matter anyway.

If they want to pussywhip you or just want you to commit, they'd tell you they're into something similar but not exactly you, so that you work hard to compensate and make them overlook your supposed shortcummings... it's immature but that's what I think their reasoning is.

Anyway, would you like to fuck a retard?

www.canadianbrawn.com/.../

[Реrverted_Сreeр]

Fuck that thread is limited access. One moment I will embed it here.

[Реrverted_Сreeр]

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Реrverted_Сreeр Chicks saying what you want to hear to get what they want out of the man is a great point to make here. As soon as you pointed that out my mind went straight to those so called "gamer girls" that don't even play video games... not the real ones, but the ones that just say it so they can get attention.

I mean they'll buy a PS5 and they don't even use it. When they do it's just to watch some chick flick on DVD. It's more of a decoration than a tool of adventure for them.

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Реrverted_Сreeр And yes, I would definitely fuck a retard. Even one of those who has to wear knee pads and a football helmet to school.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Retards and midgets are front-of-the-line delicacies... hard to find. I could go for a blind girl too... I'd flick her off all day and she wouldn't even know it. I'd probably videotape me flicking her off all day, even during sexy time... make a compilation of it... and then try to become youporn famous.

[Wwwyzzerdd]

I workout, look good enough, and typically takes me longer than 10 minutes in bed to cum. I can cook, clean, and do laundry. I own my home and my car. I make enough each month to meet my needs and my family's needs. So in my perspective yes I meet the standards.

However, women will develop the ick over just about anything so it's really down to how she's feeling that day at that specific moment.

[wiltingrosepetal]

I'm a young, thin, and somewhat attractive woman. No piercings, tats, overload of make-up or sexual history. So yeah. I think I meet most dating standards.
However, I'm shaped like a string bean. I'm your guy if you don't care about curves 💀

[RebelinSteel]

I meet my own, I completely ignore social media or similar standards and just go off my own expectations. So far it has worked great and do not have the pointless crap from listening to social shit.

[FictionalCharacter]

Absolutely not. Because if I tried to be men standards, then I would lose my self respect and not love myself.

So, it’s a good thing that I’m not men standards. Because I’m too busy spoiling myself. 💅🏻

[Valdemort]

Honestly, I've always kinda been "too much, but never enough".

So yeah, I think I meet a standard, until I become a little bit too comfortable and then the standard gets adjusted.

[Insecure2]

No, I never match the standards of anybody. Each person has a different set of standards and each time there is something that disqualifies me.

[Jukes93]

Considering the prevalent standard, or at least the perceived standard (6 foot, 6" and 6 figures) I'm at 2/3. Considering a very small percentage of guys make 6 figures I'd say most don't meet the standard set by girls. At least the up front standards.

I think I would exceed on the long-term standards though.

[serious]

Though I have always been single but yes I am sure that I will meet a woman's standards.

I am sure I am one of the best type of man a woman can get.

[hahahmm]

"Be in the world but not of the world" - I care more about what God thinks. If 99.99999% of people on earth told me I was wrong, I would still be right.

[aceleon]

maybe not with height standarts (5'10 at most)

absolutly not money and i am glad i don't, to be honest i don't even want to, my money is my money not anyone elses.

[Ms_Facesitter]

I sure hope so!
I want you and the guys of this community to come up with a list of standards that you all can agree on and then we will know for sure.

[scooogy]

@Ms_Facesitter you are my standard :)

[Ms_Facesitter]

@scooogy I voted no. I just don't know.

[Sirenboobzilla]

Depends in who's sta cards we're talking about. Everyone has different standards, preferences, morals, etc. I know I meet them for my boyfriend

[LazerBean]

I don't know if I meet the standards of men in general, but I meet the standards of the type of men that I am interested in.

[genericname85]

i think no man "in reality" can meet the impossibly contradictory demands women have theese days.