Do you feel like you meet womens/mens standards?

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TenderFantasy · Accepted Answer

This isn't a simple yes or no answer. Everyone is different and has different standards/requirements in relationship. If everyone was the same and had the same likes/dislikes, it would be a very boring planet/world.

I honestly don't care to meet men/women's standards. I am ME and if they don't like it well tough cookies.

At the end of the day, I learned that what truly matters is what I think of myself really. Why should I care what a lot of men want? Also like I said, every man is different. Some want Double/Tripple D breasts, some are butt/ass men. Unfortunately, life is more complicated than that. You might meet a woman with the physical qualities that you like but she is a total bitch or vice versa with women. They might meet someone they really find physically appealing, but they are an asshole or are already taken, live half way across the world, in jail, etc. Unfortunately life's more complicated than that.

IslaTheWitch · Accepted Answer

I don't rate myself or others. I don't set expectations.

Don't you think it's utterly wrong? We should put an effort to get to know people. Then, we can say if we like this person or not.

Let's say person X expects their partner to be blonde and of a specific height and weight. So if person X meets someone with red or black hair, bigger or smaller, does it mean person X should give up? And what if this someone makes person X smile and feel good?

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

these standards are not actually standard...

standard means there's a generalized norm... and well, for women, it does vary a lot from person to person

but sure, there are personal standards and naturally... some will do, others will not

usually, the ones I do not meet are those of very religious nature as I'm not the most religious person, myself

dynamicyandere · Accepted Answer

Ever since my first year in college, finding women who want to date me hasn’t been a struggle. It actually wasn’t a struggle in high school either. If anything, I’M the picky one.

I’m not the tallest, nor am I the most handsome, but it’s my personality and charisma that wins people over.

My continual focus on self-improvement helps as well.

Account · Answer

What are those standards? Can you please elaborate?

Avicenna · Answer

There are no general standards. So no one meets them all anyway.

RolandCuthbert · Answer

The responses are all over the place. The issue is that in American society more people are feeling lonelier and more isolated today than at any other time in this nation's history. And it is so odd seeing that we have the technology to alleviate that loneliness and isolation, even during Covid.

But what is worse is that we don't seem to have a way out of this because we don't have any mechanism to cope or to get an understanding of what is happening. This question. . . at least I hope, is to help reveal people's frustrations with being social or feeling accepted in society. But responses don't lead to further discussion. They are just declarations of independence or individuality.

"I don't need anyone".

"I don't care if people don't like me".

Which are just lies. We are human beings. Human are social animals. And when we are not accepted or can't find people that we can be social with we start to develop dysfunction, mental health issues, etc.

It is a lie that only the weak get lonely. It is a lie that being isolated makes you strong. We all need healthy happy relationships. We need our tribes and the folks who are on our side.

https://fortune.com/well/2023/08/11/loneliness-study-digital-social-media/

A third of Americans say that they feel lonelier than ever before.

New data from a consumer study released in June, conducted by A/B Consulting in partnership with Maveron VC firm, found 34% of Americans expect to spend more time by themselves with 37% saying they don’t interact with anyone at least once a week.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/3WaEuRWoCcQ

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

I've been often told by men that  "You're much more than any guy would ever want in a woman."  From women:   "You're my idol!"  I guess it's safe to assume from those quotes that I generally meet both a man's and a woman's standards.

zeitgeist057 · Answer

All except for the big one: monogamy  But that's alright, I manage to do just fine with those that aren't hung up on monogamy. :)

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I picked yes, but my real answer is yes and no.

I mean the women don't even know what they want half the time. Yes they'll describe what they want and don't want, but then if you look at the last 3 or 4 dudes she let poke her...

Maybe what they want changes like emotions change. I don't know.

Wwwyzzerdd · Answer

I workout, look good enough, and typically takes me longer than 10 minutes in bed to cum. I can cook, clean, and do laundry. I own my home and my car. I make enough each month to meet my needs and my family's needs. So in my perspective yes I meet the standards.

However, women will develop the ick over just about anything so it's really down to how she's feeling that day at that specific moment.

wiltingrosepetal · Answer

I'm a young, thin, and somewhat attractive woman. No piercings, tats, overload of make-up or sexual history. So yeah. I think I meet most dating standards.
However, I'm shaped like a string bean. I'm your guy if you don't care about curves 💀

RebelinSteel · Answer

I meet my own, I completely ignore social media or similar standards and just go off my own expectations. So far it has worked great and do not have the pointless crap from listening to social shit.

FictionalCharacter · Answer

Absolutely not. Because if I tried to be men standards, then I would lose my self respect and not love myself.

So, it’s a good thing that I’m not men standards. Because I’m too busy spoiling myself. 💅🏻

Valdemort · Answer

Honestly, I've always kinda been "too much, but never enough". So yeah, I think I meet a standard, until I become a little bit too comfortable and then the standard gets adjusted.

Insecure2 · Answer

No, I never match the standards of anybody. Each person has a different set of standards and each time there is something that disqualifies me.

Jukes93 · Answer

Considering the prevalent standard, or at least the perceived standard (6 foot, 6" and 6 figures) I'm at 2/3. Considering a very small percentage of guys make 6 figures I'd say most don't meet the standard set by girls. At least the up front standards.

I think I would exceed on the long-term standards though.

serious · Answer

Though I have always been single but yes I am sure that I will meet a woman's standards. I am sure I am one of the best type of man a woman can get.

hahahmm · Answer

"Be in the world but not of the world" - I care more about what God thinks. If 99.99999% of people on earth told me I was wrong, I would still be right.

aceleon · Answer

maybe not with height standarts (5'10 at most) absolutly not money and i am glad i don't, to be honest i don't even want to, my money is my money not anyone elses.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

I sure hope so!  I want you and the guys of this community to come up with a list of standards that you all can agree on and then we will know for sure.

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

Depends in who's sta cards we're talking about. Everyone has different standards, preferences, morals, etc. I know I meet them for my boyfriend

LazerBean · Answer

I don't know if I meet the standards of men in general, but I meet the standards of the type of men that I am interested in.

genericname85 · Answer

i think no man "in reality" can meet the impossibly contradictory demands women have theese days.

Dennisjf12 · Answer

I do not feel like I am a good-looking guy to a woman & the women I am moving in with I don't know why they want me when they could have dozens of guys that look better than me?

Demonatrix · Answer

I have never been sort after by others. I know that I am different and I fully embrace that now.🙃😜

PeachyPie93 · Answer

No probably not. I don't even meet my own standards lol.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I couldn't care less about someone else's standards.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

I apparntly meet enough of them, whatever they are...

Paul09 · Answer

Apparently not, or I would not be single today. But then again the women I. Into are probably not until me. And the ones that are into me, I'm not into them. A vicious cycle.

exitseven · Answer

Probably but I imagine I am an acquired taste

Dargil · Answer

Authentic Trad Wife? Absolutely. Modern, educated Feminist Wine Women? Not even nearly.

confusedandromantic · Answer

If we are talking in general according to contemporary current beauty standards, then no I would say I don’t. But everyone has different tastes

Staximus · Answer

No. I'm too short, too fat, too bald, and too broke for Southern California women. I need to move.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't care if I meet fellow Americans standards, because they don't have any standards. They're too busy being pitied and laughed at by most of the globe as they self destruct now.

serious_miss419 · Answer

Do I feel like I do? As if I’m supposed to love up to this?

LiamJHayden · Answer

I meet the minimum standards of enough women to keep me happy.

JHAYES317 · Answer

Considering I get basically zero matches on dating apps, clearly not lol.

grega239 · Answer

Obviously not. Im single and dont talk to women

Dan_5001 · Answer

I meet the standards that foreign women set, but if you were to ask me "do I meet western women standards" it will be a no.

Anonymous · Answer

Almost. I think I just need to learn a few things like how to drive. (Long story.)

HappyWoman34 · Answer

Some, but not all.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I hope that I don't. Standard means: average :)

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

People don't have the same standards.

CozyCoffin · Answer

I don't think I meet anyone's standards.

Squatting_Slav · Answer

Oh definitely

AngryCarl · Answer

I don't even meet my own standards.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Yes.

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