What does a guy do if a girl proposes to him? Do they like it? or they hate it? Or do they like it in a traditional way in which a guy ask her out?

[myloveforuisinfinte]

As far as I have seen, the success rate of girl accepting a guy's proposal is much greater and the reverse doesn't go as well, is this true or false? Why?

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

If she does it, I'll accept it as long as she pays for all the expenses and takes on all the executive responsibilities associated with the wedding. I'll even take on her family surname!

Similar to dating. I prefer to be the leader with the initiative asking women out on dates and not the other way around. Yet if a woman asks me out on a date, I expect her to plan the date, lead me while I follow her lead, and pay for it all.

It's the leader's responsibility to cover the costs as I see it. What's not fair to me is for a woman to take the leadership initiative and not be a proper leader, like a woman who proposes to me and then expects me to pay for the wedding, or a woman who asks me out and then expects me to pay for the date or split the bill. It's not fair for a woman to take only the easier parts of the traditional male role and still dump the costlier and more difficult parts on me.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Hell, I'll even become the housewife. I'll quit my job. Have a hot plate for my wife every time she comes home, take care of the kids, dust, vacuum, scrub, clean the dishes. Make sure she eats a healthy meal and always takes any medication she needs. Start watching soap operas and crime dramas. Sounds like a vacation!

She better make a decent income though. I ain't marrying no broke ass woman. How is she supposed to support our kids? And if an intruder comes in the night, I expect her to bust out the shotgun and protect me from danger and reassure me all the time that everything will be fine while she carries me in bridal position back to my bed in her strong muscular arms and makes love to me.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I expect her to really listen to me too and not just go, "Uh-huh" while watching TV. But she shouldn't give me any advice. She should just listen, really listen, and mostly agree with everything I say. And I don't mind if she cries sometimes but not too much. Just a little bit but only now and then. I want a woman who can be vulnerable with me but not a weak woman.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Sounds interesting, why not.😊haha 😆 that's what women like me want 👀👍
But I hope there's shouldn't be much age gap. Like similar age or 1 year younger or 1 year older. Not like dad's age. Lol

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I was admittedly joking with my tirade! I really prefer the basic (but flexible, not like wife has to be jobless housewife) traditional roles here for dating and marriage. So I prefer to be the one asking women out, the one proposing marriage, etc (leader role). I proposed to my wife and that felt the most natural to me. And in exchange, I paid for the wedding and was the executive decision-maker (although my wife had most of the ideas she ran by me).

[myloveforuisinfinte]

I knew 😂lmaooo. Well yeah can't agree more. That's what my post says too lol

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I don't mind if a woman is the first to discuss her desires to marry with me. That was the case with my wife. Also don't mind and liked it when I was a bachelor when a woman was the first to express interest in me, being flirty and passing me her phone number. Yet I liked to be the one that made the ultimate proposal that turned things into a concrete plan.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

On the why part of your question, I think we feel a bit emasculated if we don't have the lead and follow the woman instead. It makes us feel less of a man when we can't lead and provide and protect.

For example, imagine a ballroom dance. Isn't it kind of emasculating if instead of the man leading, the woman leads and he follows her footsteps and she dips him over and twirls him around and catches him? At some point I think any red-blooded man here will start to feel like he's not doing his job being a man properly, and will want to take over the lead.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Yeah agree and not agree but honestly what I want is someone like Krishan/ram (supreme masculine person). For that, I have to be Radha/Sita. Coz both deserve each other. That's what I want. Nothing less. Thats what true masculinity is.
Anyways , I got u 😄😊. Traditional things always feels natural. It's nice.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Hindu? It's interesting to me how Krishna and Radha overlap in terms of compassion, tenderness, and love (at least in the Wiki articles I'm reading) but differ mainly with Krishna focused on protection and Radha on devotion.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

No it's not krishan. Lmao krishan represents consciousness, knowledge , intelligence not a basic human or men. Radha represents people (us) both men and women.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

If u want to learn about krishan, choose bhagwat Geeta not Wikipedia lmao

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I see! My bad, I just put "Krishan" in Google search and the top link was that Wiki article on Krishna! I'll definitely have to study more about this. It's very interesting to me how different cultures conceive of what is masculine and feminine, like Yin vs. Yang.

[Jamie05rhs]

I think most guys would want to be the one to propose marriage. (Myself included.)

However, I'm an open-minded person, so it's not like I would get mad or anything if she did. I would roll with it.

Now, when it comes to just asking out on a date, I really couldn't care less either way.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

That's what my posts says lmaooo

[Jamie05rhs]

Cool :)

[Al_Musafir]

If I like the girl, I'll be flattered and it'll be an easy 'yes' from me. If I don't like her, I wouldn't think much of it and refuse her politely.

Ideally, I feel like whoever feels first should go for it. Saves a lot of time and confusion. Although being hesitant is reasonable due to the fear of getting rejected.

[RandomUser1000]

If you are two people in love I think that matters more then who is the one asking.

[Anonymous]

I used to be a fuccboi and met my fiance (she's in college) when I was all full of ego. First day she just tilts her head over with a cute face and I was just uhhh😦😦😦and my whole jaw dropped down hard. That moment just gutted me totally. I've been loyal to her for over a year now we're engaged, so yeah it's better that I did it.

[Anonymous]

I think that's just your bias. I've seen the opposite. Of the women I've seen purpose the success rate has been 100%.

I think if a woman fails she really not reading the situation and probably trying to force the issue. You can't bully someone into marrying you.

[Anonymous]

No I've heard a girl that asks a guy out tells her feelings has a 90 percent rate of marriage and love

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Maybe😶👉👈

[NathanDavis]

if we both wanted it... would not make a difference to me

[NathanDavis]

I would not enjoy it at all...

if it were a one-sided decision... from her, that would get very awkward really quick, lol

[SolitarySolace]

I'd hate it. I'd feel like she was feminizing me in public. I'd say yes in public but call it off when we're alone.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Ummm ykw your comment is okk - okk

[SolitarySolace]

I don't understand what you're saying

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Nothing tbh lol

[Keith469]

If I were thinking of asking her and she beat me to the punch, I would love it! And, of course say fuck yeah!

[Anonymous]

I think that depends on if he really feels like you’re the one, you definitely would want to know how he feels about marriage before that

[BoopBoopBeep]

I've always found it flattering.