Was the man suing 27 women on "Are we Dating the Same Man" website really just desperate for money?

[Anonymous]

About a month ago, I asked what people thought about Illinois Man Nikko D’Ambrosio suing some nearly 30 women for 75 million, and the Facebook group creators of the "Are We Dating the Same Man," website in which users are invited to discuss issues with the troublesome sets of men they have dated so that other women can avoid dating potentially harmful men. He claimed these women slandered him and caused him financial harm as well as claims of doxxing and invasion of privacy.

But...the plot thickens. D’Ambrosio, who was literally on trial for fraud when he filed the Facebook/women lawsuit and has been during the month of January, has now been convicted of 2 counts of Tax Fraud in which he was scheming to claim two years in a row that he only made about $4,000 a month, and made massive donations to charity (which he did not), and that nearly $300K of his earnings came from money he'd won in sweepstakes. Each count comes with a maximum sentence of three years.

So in your opinion, is this still truly a man seeking justice against the website/women or a man in desperate search for a way to potentially make money because he knew the inevitable was coming or other?

[blueonblack22]

Alright this guy sounds like a nut, fraudster, con man and womanizer. But again he sounds like this. The only thing that is official is the tax fraud charge and lawsuit he is filing. Everything else about him is speculation.

So there is a difference between facing criminal charges which requires hard evidence via a prosecutor vs. being accused of something by the press, media and/or general public.

This “are we dating the same man” website/FB group sounds very metoo’ish. He’s being doxxed by an unsubstantiated claims. Maybe it’s true. Maybe he deserves it. Still though his reputation is being damaged via unsubstantiated claims. Sure he is glaring bad example but what about all the other men who are getting doxxed that are just average Joe’s and/or NOT criminals. What about the women who exaggerate or make up lies?

Ladies I just have to ask you something: how often do you see men congregating about “which women to avoid” and publicly share their identities on social media? How often do men dox scumbag women? How much sympathy does society give to men who get screwed over by scumbag women? Very little. It’s usually on us to use our best judgment. If we get screwed over we are “chumps”. If a woman gets screwed over she’s a victim. This is why men are usually a bit more cynical in the real world.

Anyway I highly doubt this guy will win this lawsuit. And I wish someone else would file a defamation lawsuit on this bs website who does not have a spotty record. Not for 75M but enough to make it sting for these women who lack judgment, dox men for unsubstantied claims and are looking for shoulders to cry on (while publicly destroying someone’s reputation).

There is a difference between being immoral vs being a criminal. This guy is likely both. But most of these are the former. If you think that it’s okay to dox men who are NOT criminals then I men should start doxxing the identities/locations of OF models.

[RavVid]

I don't think you should conflate two separate and distinct legal issues. If he is seeking 75 million than obviously he is looking for financial compensation and anything else is not relevant for the case.

If there was the inverse site of be careful of this girl because she does everybody and I got an STI from her than I think there would be a lot of screaming. If it is ok for women to shake down men then it is ok for men to shake down women.

There was another incident when the group of girls rented a billboard.

At the end of the day if girls are running after a top 1%tile man a pause for thought would tell them he will be doing all the girls he can.

Funny... thanks for the laugh.

[Kelley1]

I don't know. I don't have the facts. I have no confidence in your version and I am not interested enough to research the facts.

[electromagnetic]

Sounds to me like he knew what he was doing.

[Anonymous]

It's the American way. Enron, Bernie Madoff, Russell Erxpebej, Crystal Magnum, Deshaun Watson's "anonymous" accusers (but willing to settle out of court), same for Jameis Winston's (anonymous) accuser, Amber Heard, etc. It's the American way. American "values."

[Opinion Owner]

Russell Erxleben I mean. Look him up. Used to be the best kicker in college football. Now he just commits fraud over and over and over.

[Grond21]

It's very possible he is being fraudulent in suing the women. But we have no idea. Your post does not offer any information that lends us to believe one way or the other, especially if we are presuming innocent until proven guilty

[DaBiggestBird]

He must be desperate for some b*tches if he is trying to find a healthy and NORMAL relationship on a dating website. I’ve seen more class in coked up squirrels.

[catsmemoir]

I've heard of that website. Its strikes me as just another way for creepy women to spread malicious gossip.

[Anonymous]

He has too much time on his hands. Sucks to be him.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like a person is trying to buy his way at a jail using other Innocent women's money

[LazerBean]

Possibly. I had just assumed be was butt hurt

[Zestyassmf1997]

It’s hard to tell based just on what’s written.

[KrakenAttackin]

He has every right to sue these hoes.