How often does your partner blame you for stuff you didn't do?

[red324]

I remember this one girl I dated. She was really cute and had a few quirky traits, but she was also really insecure. We went on a few dates, but she always accused me of being a cheater or just wanting her for sex or this that and the other things. No telling what she would come up with and I don't even know what I ever did to make her believe this. All I ever can find are girls that have all these emotional problems.

[ProbablyClueless]

I used to date women who did two things A LOT.

• They would ask me to do things and then get mad when what I did didn't give them the result they wanted
• They would get mad at me and tell me that I wasn't being empathetic to them when I would point out facts that didn't line up with their opinions on things.

[red324]

With their truck questions?

[ProbablyClueless]

I don't know if they were asking trick questions so much as just having a really specific and uncompromising idea about reality, and then they would get mad at me when reality wouldn't line up with their preconceive perception.

[PeachyPie93]

I first boyfriend would blame me for stuff I never did, like even though he knew it wasn't me, he just wanted to blame someone. He would go to work late and tell them it was because I didn't wake him up or just dumb petty stuff like that, but like it was ALL the time. It got annoying because it began to feel like he was bullying me.

[KittygosMeoWW]

I don’t have a partner but in my last relationship I was blamed for everything that went wrong… not only in the relationship but their life as well.

[red324]

Narcissist right there, huh?

[KittygosMeoWW]

Narcissistic abusive and 💅

[OlderAndWiser]

If all the girls you find are emotionally damaged, then it is not a weird coincidence. You are doing something - perhaps subconsciously - that attracts these women or turns away the healthy ones.

[Jennuine]

Too often.. Or I get led into a situation already on record, then judged or penalized for behaving as I always have... But 5 years in the same position and people still calling you a liar or something different is too insulting and ridiculous to be tolerable.

[itsclearlynicholas]

I wouldn't know lol, yet I'm sure I've had my share of arguments with family growing up lol or classmates. Lol. Ah wells, anyways I'm just glad I don't have a nagging wife, or a ball-breaker girlfriend lol 😂😆

[exitseven]

Not too much but she finds fault in just about everything I do.

[butterly248]

I used to lie a lot and have a tendency to break, lose and throw away stuff. Unfortunately, even though I'm better with all of this now, I still get blamed lot

[CozyCoffin]

Well, how often did you do that? It's understandable that your partner would, depending of frequency.

[butterly248]

When we first started dating the lying was constant. Now lying is not common. Unfortunately, I'm still not good with breaking and losing stuff. But I no longer throw any stuff away. My OCD has calmed down

[LiamJHayden]

The first time it would happen to me would be the last with her.

[red324]

You can't end a relationship over something trivial like that.

[LiamJHayden]

Being falsely accused is not trivial and yes, I can.

[CozyCoffin]

That would suck and it's a stereotype of women in general.

[MysticDevice]

I had a girlfriend years ago who would do that. I got tired of that reeeaaal fast.

[pinkydaze]

Men just gotta say sorry for peace to reign, it's principle!

[red324]

I'll say sorry. I'm usually wrong more often than not. Lol

[Anonymous]

never. that's what my mom is for.

[Nikki1989]

It had never happened to me.

[sheikalana]

We don't do that.

[DreamLife7]

Move on why are u talking about the past?

[KrakenAttackin]

Projection is female.

[Slapmynuts]

That's the definition of marriage!🤪

[laly520]

he never did

[dudeinohio]

This one... nevet

[Anonymous]

Very rarely.