Why do promiscuous girls deserve to be single forever?

[Anonymous]

No guy takes them seriously to have a real relationship with them so how do promiscuous girls find a guy to date them for a serious relationship?

[Drew-1990]

It is going to be difficult, not impossible, sorry to say. Most high quality men are not going to be interested in a girl who has been promiscuous in her past. Me personally I would definitely not prefer it but it depends on her. If it is something she looks back on and wishes she wasn't I maybe willing, everyone has a past they may regret. I have regrets I would want a girl to forgive why can't I do the same. But if you Don't look back at it as a regret I would have no interest myself. Again it's not impossible for you but will be more difficult than a girl who has a low to zero body count.

[Crimsyjo]

I think the term "promiscuous" is very obscure. What is deemed many partners for a woman? And does age change this view? If a woman had 5 sexual partners by age 25 but 10 by age 35? Does that mean she is a worse person at 35 then she was 25? Why is it even anyone's business? Because the only important criteria for her to have for a new partner is her qualities as a good, loving, loyal, kind, decent human being. And yes she deserves love. Just as her partner who may have had 5, 10, or 50 sexual partners before her.

I think the person who should find it difficult to get a new partner is only one that is a cheater!

[JacobJordan]

My approach is far simpler and brings logic into play. If you have 1 sexual partner that makes sense you found someone you love them etc. No issues there. If you have had 2 sexual partners fair enough you made a mistake it was your first one after all now you are on your second meaning you learned from that mistake. If you have 3+ you made poor choices not once but 2 or more times meaning you the person with 3+ partners is not good when it comes to making healthy decisions as such you are not a healthy choice to be in a relationship with.

[Crimsyjo]

@JacobJordan haha that presumes all your choices are relationship related choices. What about sex for fun? And why is it bad to have sex for fun when single and free? Also your logic seems very unfair because nobody can predict if a partner choice is going to become a bad choice. Maybe they are perfect when you meet and perfect for years but then things go wrong. They could become a drunk, a drug user, a bum, depressed. How do you choose partners that are happy and well and treat you right and yet predict that they are not a good choice after all? Impossible. And rubbish mostly touted by flawed men who would rather a woman stays with them forever, miserable and unsatisfied, yet loyal. Like the old traditional ways. Thank god women are not tied to one man forever anymore if he doesn't know how to be decent. And yeah goes both ways.

[JacobJordan]

Lol tell me you are single without telling me you are single. Good partners rarely end up "going bad". Drunks and drug addicts start in the early/late teens and early 20s. Very very low chances someone becomes addicted to either if they didn't do it then. So wrong on that count. Sex isn't for fun it serves a biological purpose and has a secondary biochemical reaction which is feeling good. That doesn't change the primary purpose of it. So also wrong. Yeah thank goodness women aren't "tied" to one man cause women are soo much happier now than they were 50 years ago. They definitely aren't depressed on pills committing suicide at rates not seen in women before. Yeah women are soo empowered and independent. You live your life however you want and when you find yourself looking for a husband hopefully you will remember this and go "shit I should have listened". Hopefully women don't listen to advice from a "single and free" woman cause that is a fast track to being single and free for life as well.

[laly520]

they find their right ones just like anyone
might be harder to settle down with someone being all serious but not impossible

[JacobJordan]

They don't lol. They had lots of guys that wanted them for serious relationships they turned them down. Actions have consequences and the consequences of promiscuity is generally being alone forever. Women make that despite being told that guys will NOT want them because they naively think "oh but he'll want me" no... no he won't most of the good men will have moved on so take your pick of the trash. Either way they end up miserable and alone. Make better choices if you want a good life otherwise sleep in the bed you made

[Avicenna]

They usually don't until they find some simp.

[Staximus]

I know girls and guys who were faithful in their relationships but were the town bicycle when single. I also know some that always cheat on their boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands and wives. The ones that cheat were for the most part promiscuous before and after the relationship. Sex doesn't mean anything to promiscuous people so they are more likely to cheat. Most promiscuous people don't value themselves, so they give themselves away in order to feel accepted but it backfires in the long run.

[DarkLegacy]

What do you expect, if you sleep around no guy is going to take you seriously, the other problem is that women in their younger years will sleep around with alpha/bad guys or guys based on looks and then try and settle for a good guy later on and change their appearance preferences. These girls deserve to be alone

[jshm2]

Technically they are never "single" as they always have a cock in a hole.

The issue is that they are never in a relationship for more than a night or two...

[Kaneki05]

Let's say 1/10 guys would then if your promiscuous going through guys chances are you are going to find that guy who would.

[Berethor]

Too late, but they can find a cock, no real man would marry a promiscuous woman.

[Berethor]

I mean they can find a cuck.

[DryGermanGuy]

Might as well move towns, of even better, the state.

[Al_Musafir]

They didn't take themselves seriously and expect guys to take them seriously. LOL!

[TheSpaceGnome]

Promiscuous behavior is sleeping around, and is thus contrary to monogamy.

In otherwords, you can't get a serious relationship.

[noohair]

Men used to have to make a commitment to a woman for sex.
That was love and marriage.
Women wanted freedom and equality.
This is what freedom and equality looks like.

[KrakenAttackin]

Being single is a matter of standards. If you humped away your value you will have to settle for a second or third tier man.

[Anonymous]

hi there incel dude posing as a girl on here!

[Apple1996]

They don't. Everyone deserves love

[MrOracle]

"Everyone deserves love"

Perhaps, but not everyone deserves a committed relationship. Those require work and sacrifice and morals and values. I can have love for someone as a human being, but have absolutely no desire to be with them romantically - that's a completely different thing. And I'm sure you agree with me, because if not, WHO is owed romantic love to a given person? You can't deserve something which you have not earned, so who have they earned it from?

[Apple1996]

@MrOracle love does not have to be earned. It should be freely given. If not then it's not real love

[MrOracle]

Then who should I go to in order to get my freely-given romantic love? Who owes that to me?

And to whom do YOU owe this freely-given romantic love, aside from your husband?

[Apple1996]

@MrOracle whoever is willing to give it to you freely. I'm not saying it isn't a choice but it's something that shouldn't have conditions like being earned

[MrOracle]

In the real world, NO ONE gives romantic love to someone with no conditions. That's my point.

[Apple1996]

@MrOracle I've given and received love from all my partners without any conditions 🤷‍♀️

[MrOracle]

You wouldn't have made them your partners without conditions. Or could literally any man be your partner?

[Apple1996]

@MrOracle I'm not picky like that. It doesn't even have to be a man either lol

[MrOracle]

So you have ZERO standards for a partner? A homeless drug addict with 7 yellow teeth? Really?

[Apple1996]

@MrOracle homeless druggies have the best rizz so i don't know why you'd even bring them up in a seemingly negative way 😯

[BarryLiverstone]

Smh, well

[Anonymous]

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