Why don’t girls stay single forever if people say you need be happy alone & never have a man for happiness?

[Sugar100]

Why girls Aren’t living alone in an empty house , no man, adopting babies alone forever , as people say you don’t need a man for happiness and you need be happy alone forever? Why girls have bfs and husbands why they can’t be alone 24/7, go to stores alone, go to market alone, work , raise baby alone in an empty house, masterbate forever? as people say this is true happiness being alone happy with yourself? Waking up alone never waking up next to a. Man in bed, no sex no kiss nothing?

[Anonymous]

That’s what I do. I’ve been single for many years and haven’t dated at all during those years, have 3 kids on my own through sperm donation (and hoping for more) and don’t plan to start dating again. I’m content. Would I want a partner? No, not unless it was my dream man and we had an amazing relationship that I knew would last our whole lives. That’s not reality though. So many men are liars, manipulators, cheaters, abusers, manbabies and what not and I’m just done with it. I have no desire to deal with such men, and no you don’t always know until it’s too late and his looks and popularity is completely irrelevant some of the worst ones are average or ugly and unpopular. And I don’t want to have to deal with breakups or divorce. Almost every relationship fails so it’s just not worth it to me. I think it’s crazy how people keep doing the whole relationship-breakup-date-new relationship-breakup-date-new relationship-breakup-date cycle. I’m just not interested in that. Waste of time, emotion and ruins your mental health and attatchment capabilities.

[Sugar100]

I’ll be 27 and can’t find a first boyfriend , not even a boyfriend short term one year then breakup & meet family. Guys act like they will die if they meet family.

How do u work and rasie your babies alone everyday?
How do u make bday parties with your babies if you don’t have a guys family?

This is issue for me because all my family is in Mexico so how my babies will have fun bday parties if I’m alone never have a partner& be part of guys family ?

[Sugar100]

How old r u now?

[desidoll]

Because people who keep claiming that are lying to themselves. They are frustrated that they repeatedly fail in finding their soulmate but see everyone else is happy. Most single people around me is either miserable, bitter or angry. I had to cut contact with three of them because they kept harassing me, trying to invade my private life.

[OlderAndWiser]

There are "people" who say that the Earth is flat. Do you believe everything that "they" say?

[handsomelad70]

Most folk, definitely including Yours Truly, want a partner.

[Sugar100]

But if it don’t exist , u can’t have a partner neevr in your life 😔

[Sugar100]

All guys I meet only want sex. No guy has shown he wants a partner. 😞

[Crimsyjo]

It's not said like that. People don't mean be happy alone to be alone forever. They mean be happy first alone so when u meet someone you don't depend on them solely to make you happy. Which is too needy for most men.

[Anonymous]

You don't need a man to be happy, just like you don't need a TV for happiness, or your favorite food, or a lot of money, or whatever. Things can make you feel happy without being the foundation of your happiness.

[Sugar100]

It’s always the girls that already have a boyfriend or husband that say this type of shit 🙄

[Opinion Owner]

I don't have one.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

I know a few IRL. Some have careers, some became lesbians, and some are widows.

[laly520]

it isn't hard

some r happier being alone while others prefer being with someone

[OddBeMe]

For one, our society mocks those people. So social pressure for sure. But I think we all desire partnership and romance. And intimacy.

[art84]

If I was a girl, I would be single forever and happy.

[Julian7312]

It depends on your personality. It works for some people and not others.

[Bklynbadboy12]

If all women did that there would be no babies to adopt

[Sugar100]

But men don’t even get girls pregnant , no guy wants makes me pregnant , I don't know how girls get bfs and baby except for me

[Bklynbadboy12]

Why do you always say that when you know it's not true guys on this app hit on you all of the time

[Sugar100]

Notice no one that hits on me lives in my fucking state!!!😓 I need to move out of here. 😔 I already told my mom I’m moving next year after I finish school. I’ll need adopt baby no guy will live with me and get me pregnant no guy wants make me pregnant 😞

[Sugar100]

I don’t want friends with benefits I want a boyfriend that meets family. I’m not asking for 1 million dollars. Guys act like they’ll die if they meet family. Guys don’t want show me to their mom 😞

[WatchMeCumXD]

Nobody wants to be alone forever. It’s boring! And masturbating is a lot more fun when you can watch someone while they watch you.

[Anonymous]

Women need to have kids to be happy. Guys need to have a family to provide and protect to be happy.

[Sugar100]

But how I’ll have baby if no guy wants live with me and make me pregnant?
I’m sad how I’ll be happy alone adopting babies? No sex just alone in my house forever? Masterbate forever? 😔

[Opinion Owner]

I think that there are guys that want to date you and marry you. You just keep going after the f-bois that only want sex.

[Sugar100]

I don’t fo after them. It’s the guys that message me & that I match with on the dating apps. I don’t encounter any good guy that wants marriage & girlfriend

[Sugar100]

My bio says i want a serious relationship.

[Opinion Owner]

You swiped right on the guys in dating apps to match with them.

[Opinion Owner]

Put in your bio that you are waiting for marriage to have sex.

[Sugar100]

No guy wants sex til marriage LOL zero

[Sugar100]

I saw 3 times 3 guys say they want sex til marriage but they never matched with me. They don’t like me.

[Opinion Owner]

I would wait

[Opinion Owner]

Most guys don't put that in their bio; because it makes them look weird.

[MasterKS]

because most dont have guts to live against social noms!

[Cheerfull009]

May be only few girls do this , otherwise it's very hard to stay alone

[1073sucks]

What people say that? 👀

[Sugar100]

Everyone tells me that shit

[Sugar100]

I’m 27 as I spent my entire life never looking for a boy and I’m 27 never had a boyfriend. Now that I want a first boyfriend people say u need be happy alone forever u don’t need a man.

So why girls don’t buy a house alone, adopt babies, be alone in the damn house daily never meet a guys family , just alone til old age like that? Lol that’s happiness?

[1073sucks]

Why are you doing what others tell you to do? Why don’t you do what you want to do?

[Sugar100]

I ask for help how to get a boyfriend and that’s the advice they give. I can’t find a guy that wants meet family. My mom won’t kill you lol.

Guys don’t call me their girlfriend , they just act like it. 😞 not meeting fmaily means he is single and hiding me. telling family he has no girlfriend in his life

[1073sucks]

Well just keep searching. Don’t listen to people that say you should be happy alone if that’s not what you want.

[MrGSpotHer]

I have dandelion and burdock does that help?

[scott04sa22]

I'm in the same boat

[eagle1951]

some do

[Sugar100]

You know girls living in a house alone with babies she’s raising alone forever til she’s old?

[eagle1951]

my sister was 75 and died in Nov 2023 lived alone and not only raised her kids but was a Foster parent and adopted 2