The woman in dating wants a relationship. Dating for 3 months, I’m so on the fence. Not my usual type. Something is making me gravitate towards her?

[Anonymous]

Over the last three months we’ve been in a dating/relationship type scenario and I really enjoy it. I’m really not the type of person to date around like crazy but I am very attracted to lust. And as a guy I see woman look at me and I want to approach but think it’s very rude when talking to someone. This girl is great, she’s family oriented, hardworking, and very caring. She’s also a very good communicator which is sooo key to me. The only problem for me is that she’s a foreign girl who just got a two year Visa extension for school, and she’s a 7/10 in looks category. If those weren’t issues I probably would’ve asked for in a relationship months ago. It’s as if I’m looking for something better, while really enjoying to date and get to know her, and realizing I’ll probably fall for her. Any advice on deciding?

[dudeinohio]

Sounds like you are trying to be talked out of pursuing a relationship.

I can't do. it. sounds like you should go for it.

[Asker]

What do you mean by sounds like I’m trying to be talked out of a relationship? She wants one and I’m 60/40%.

[dudeinohio]

I mean you seem to be for one and are looking for reasons against one.

[Asker]

Ahhh! My reasons against are simply… I could have a more attractive woman potentially

[Anonymous]

she isn’t the one

[Opinion Owner]

How much would u Rate yourself on looks

[Asker]

I’d say a humble 8. Even if she isn’t the one, could saying yes and pursuing what we have turn into something better in the future. I’m not saying she’s bad looking, she’s pretty. I just know there are very pretty girls who have looked at me, and I’ve had thoughts

[Opinion Owner]

Then go date someone like u. Stop using her for validating