Questions to those who believe in Law of attraction or manofesting. How can i or on whst should I focus if i got rejected in a sense by colleague at work when i tried to ask her out and to restore to normal relationship. How or to what i should focus on?
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Just keep it professional and act like it never happened.
Here are some thoughts on how to manifest the opposite of that negative experience:
- Focus on being at peace with the outcome. Tell yourself it's all good and meant to be this way. Don't dwell on what went wrong.
- Visualize an easy, drama-free working relationship where you're both chill and professional. See conversations as lighthearted not awkward.
- Affirm that you see each other's value as coworkers, despite not being romantic. Say things like "We work well on the team together."
- Do nice small things like saying hi with a smile to show no hard feelings. Compliment her work to normalize interactions.
- Let go of any expectation that she'll change her mind or you'll become closer friends. Respect her decision and where you're at.
- Believe people are brought into your life for a reason, even briefly. Trust the experience is making you wiser for the future.
- Stay upbeat, don't gossip about it to others or badmouth her. Keep your energy positive so it can't attract more negativity.
Focus on the flow you want at work - easy, professional, no drama or weird vibes. In time that positive vision will replace any awkward remnants if you truly let the past go, yeah? Keep ya head up homie!
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