Why would a man call you perfect when you are obviously not perfect?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

The man I am talking to -

We were talking about Braces and I told him I am going to get them after a nose job , he answered

“You are already perfect ❤️”

I know I am not, he knows I am not, why is he being so sweet?

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Imperfections are part of perfection as I see it. If we remove all imperfections from human beings, we get something that looks synthetic, artificial, doll-like. So from my perspective, "perfect" isn't actually "perfect" despite sounding paradoxical.

[MsBrie]

You just earned a follower!

[Caramalkisses23]

No one is perfect. But sometimes the most imperfect person is perfect to us. He loves you for you... your eyes, nose, face, personality. If he didn't- he wouldn't be with you at all.

How would you feel if every time you said you wanted work done his reply was "Yeah, you would look better"? Or what if he constantly told you all the ways you can enhance yourself to be better? Your self-esteem would be even lower. That is the man that woman look for.

[dustybiker2]

Men don't always know how to word things. But any man who says anything sounding remotely positive is big.


Praise is harder for men to give. So many are "trained" through peer pressures in life not to show emotions.


So yes, it comes out sounding strange to woman. First thoughts are to pull that odd praise apart.


Don't. Just smile and say "thank you".

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Sometimes, the flaws a person has becomes a part of what you get attached to.

Writers understand this well. Just how our brains are wired. When you don't accept someone else accepting you, it has the effect of making them feel distant from you.

If you really want to get these things done, you should make him feel appreciated and ask for his support. Let his genuine feelings of attachment be acknowledged and then go from there.

[AMS700CX4u2]

Possibly, you are being too critical of your appearance. He loves you just the way you are. Women have been forced into a "Barbie" mold and think that they have too fit or they are not good enough. You gotta Love yourself before you can love others. Embrace your imperfections or you will be chasing fixes all your life.

[sawno]

Perfect match for him specifically. You already look beautiful femme, don't ruin it with artificial things.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Thank you ☺️

[NathanDavis]

because you might be perfect for him...

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Because you are perfect in his eyes.

[JosyJosy]

Perfect Imperfections. We can't be perfect like robots, but to human standards, we can be, flaw and all. He's accepted you for who you are which is a beautiful thing.

[DagonbroughtMehere]

Perfect is the enemy of good, Flattery is the works of the Insincere.

He may want more from You than the current relationship offers, until You want to give it or know He is worthy of it, don't.

[loveslongnails]

Hmm... maybe he thinks you're fine the way you are, or maybe it's a flirty little mini love bomb compliment.

[JacobJordan]

Bullshit he knows. He said what he meant and he meant what he said.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I think it's his way of saying you're precious to him and even if you didn't get those changes, he'd still love you for who you are.

[Chelsdope0]

You’re getting way too excited. Relax.


And don’t let any man know your insecurities especially a man you’re just talking to. He doesn’t need to know all that.

[DryGermanGuy]

Reminds me of these embarrassing selection scenes in the movie Showgirls. 🤔🙄

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I have not seen it, what’s it about?

[DryGermanGuy]

They pick apart every detail of the girls‘ bodies. One girl is commended for the nosejob she got after being denied the year before. Then they deny her again, because she has „protruding ears“.

[strateguy632]

he meant don't need them so don't bother getting nose job nor braces

[superchan2011]

the way I see it he's saying that you're perfect for him. You can be imperfect in general but still be perfect to and for someone else.

[Mediterraneansoul]

I don't think he means universally perfect. Only he sees you that way from his standards

[laly520]

maybe perfect for him

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I’d think so girl, but he has had hot girlfriends… Like gorgeous girlfriends in the past.

[laly520]

could be he is just tryna seem nice or sweet
lot of guys lie

[BraxtonsGf]

Because he loves everyone of your little flaws because they make you YOU

[MsBrie]

he's either being nice or tricking you why do you like it?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Why do I like being told I am perfect as I am?

Who wouldn’t like it?

[MsBrie]

Well friends have told me im perfect the way i am but those are friends if its a stranger it would be weird.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

He’s not a stranger, we’ve been talking everyday for 2 months.

[MsBrie]

Maybe thats not a stranger but id still be careful the bad boy you might have heard about won me over with flattery.

[Sam12348]

He likes you if he sent the heart emoji in the end

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

He often does.

[Sam12348]

Do you like him too?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yes.

[Sam12348]

If he's a good guy then go with the flow. Cause it's really hard to find a good partner these days.

[LiamJHayden]

1. He's trying to manipulate you.
or
2. You are perfect in that you seem to be a match for what he wants.

[Still-alive]

He's buttering you up lol. being suave.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

lol, why though

[Still-alive]

Well i do think he likes you and he might think saying this stuff to you will get you to like him more, maybe even want to go on a date.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I’d happily go on a date with him, he’s very cute.

[Still-alive]

nice. well if you keep talking to him he just might ask you out. if you want him to do that maybe try making it more comfortable for him to go for it

[nawtee_me]

You may very well be perfect. Perfection may not mean flawless as much as it means you are perfect even with your flaws….

[CaptainSmartass]

Because he thinks you're seriously prodworthy.

Simples...

[bobby_bush_eater]

You're perfect to him... Your imperfections don't bother him, they make you yourself.

[Dongie]

Duh, perfect to his expectations.

[Dongie]

But ofcourse speaking of you its, well, ummmmm

[Bobby88t]

Because you in my eyes look percect

[Nerdvana]

Perfection is in the eye of the beholder

[MaxUsefull]

Because for him you’re perfect

[euniestars]

yeah this happens to me also

[ProbablyClueless]

Because he's trying to win your affections

[OtterMan68]

you are perfect for him.

[jahaims]

He likes you

[JayBones]

Hrs a liar and you can never trust him

[handsomelad70]

He perfectly wants your body, girl.

[Anonymous]

"Why am I so wonderful"?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

If I thought I am perfect, I would not be questioning the reasons he called it to me…

So, practice better thought process.