My boyfriend follows OF girls but 2-3 of them are his close friends. Is it okay?

[ericajones]

He was always telling me that he follows only people who he knows on instagram. Like all people he follows he talk to them. I checked his followings that time. Really those girls are following him back too. I don’t care if they’re his friends okay. But there’s even one girl (who’s also only fans girl) is his acquaintance. But she doesn’t follow him back. it makes me a little bit uncomfortable tho like smth is not true. He says that I’m making assumptions. How should I react? Maybe I’m too insecure or what:(

[SueShe]

That is indeed worrisome if your boyfriend follows those girls on a porn site. I presume that those girls are selling their bodies on this porn platform. Thus they make a revenue from it and are therefore considered as prostitutes.

I would really be worried about that fact. You are right to be concerned and you are certainly not insecure.

There is one small step between following them and purchasing their content, which would make him de facto a kind of a pimp since it is thanks to people like him that they make a revenue from pornographic content.

If I was in your situation, I would instantly break up with that guy. He does not inspire me confidence at all.

[Drew-1990]

Personally I don't think he should be following OF girls while with you especially if it makes you uncomfortable and you have told him. He is not respecting you and he is letting his eyes wonder. If it just following on Instagram or something I wouldn't call it cheating or anything but if he starts following on OF itself and actually chatting with them in that nature then he is mentally cheating on you at that point.

[BigTony445]

in my mind that’s such a down bad and embarrassing thing to do in a relationship, absolutely make it clear that if he wants to follow girls on onlyfans or follow girls on insta that post suggestive content, that you find it disgusting, offensive and disloyal. (I’d 100% breakup with him if he’s so addicted to porn that he can’t even prioritize a relationship over his dick)

[boggboss]

How are u asking strangers essentially what the boundaries of your relationship are or not clearly u have a issue with it is it something u can get over or is it somthing he will stop as 1 of u have to budge or things won't work out

[Sameone]

I don't see anything wrong

[Sameone]

+ if he didn't talk about people u following you don't have right to judge him

[ericajones]

I mean why he follows girls who don’t follow him back. Cuz he likes them or what? 😂

[Sameone]

Ask this question for yourself and u will find the answer
Why i follow guys who don't follow me back

[ericajones]

I follow only actors, doctors and etc. But I don’t follow such type of content to see bodies, that’s why I don't know

[Sameone]

Ohh okay
first thing what women post on her profile if she post sexy pics and this stuff he have crash on her or he wants to fk her

If woman was posting normal pic maybe they are frands but the women have ego following ( don't like to follow lot of people )

[Anonymous]

Obviously, it's not okay with you.

[Anonymous]

no, he's basically cheating on you