Will men always choose the prettier woman if both are interested in him and are good people?

[Anonymous]

When never I hear this question asked the response is always a mix but there might be a lot of no because maybe the less pretty one has a better personality. The thing is in real life I find most women are good people, often Ill find myself in competition with much more beautiful women who have a equally good but different personality than me and I always loose or give up because I know I will loose.

Not to say I’m not confident because I am but I’m reasonable, I know I’m average and I know men don’t respond well to average women. At least where I’m from if you’re an average girl even if the guy is less attractive because most attractive women are more extroverted men will ignite the more average women to talk to the prettier one. Will men choose the prettier woman if they have equally good personalities and are both interested in him.

[worldscolide]

No, there are a hell of a lot more things that go into a man wanting to stick around beyond being pretty.

For example, she could be a 10 out of 10 appearance wise, but if she has a shit personality, she won't be anything more than a pump and dump.

[Asker]

No but that’s apart of my question what if they both have good personalities. I think people underestimate how many beautiful and good women they’re are and it’s so easy to find yourself competing with one for a genuinely good man. If there anyway the less attractive woman can get the guy if they both have good personalities

[worldscolide]

Bring more to the table than the beautiful one. Not kidding on this. 9 times out of 10, even with a good personality, looks and sex are literally all the 10 out of 10's have.

[worldscolide]

And by bring more to the table, I mean more skills, qualities that will help build a better family. Things that make a good wife.

[Asker]

I can try thank you for the good advice!

[BarryLiverstone]

Some guys may wanna date both and then will become exclusive once feelings deepen. Have you been on a date with him yet?

[Asker]

This isn’t about a specific guy. In the past most men kind of ignored me because in an area where a lot of women are very beautiful and social. So since I’m more average guys will ignore me to speak with them so i’ve never been able to get a date with any of these guys I just kind of drop out once I notice the competition

[BarryLiverstone]

Well of those guys are not dating you, have you tried with other guys? Or worked on being healthier and more attractive? I’m sure dropping out isn’t the best feeling

[Asker]

I mean they aren’t dating the other women either it’s more like they just don’t have conversations with average women. I’m not sure how to try with other guys I feel like even starting a conversation with men is difficult because they’re so closed off unless you already know them or you’re beautiful. I mean I eat well and exercise, I do my makeup and hair etc. I don’t think I’m ugly but I’m just not stunningly beautiful for special. I’m not sure what more to do because I just feel I have a very bland normal face. I could definitely work on my glutes more though, I’m pretty flat backed.

[BarryLiverstone]

If your body has a nice shape that’s the most important part. Do you get compliments on it

[Asker]

I mean sometimes. Most women are slim, I’m just average slim but like I said I don’t really have a butt.

[BarryLiverstone]

Personally I don’t understand why guys need a bigger butt. Smaller and natural to the body is the best look

[BarryLiverstone]

If you are running into closed off guys might try meeting them in places they are more comfortable and confident

[Asker]

What types of places should I look?

[BarryLiverstone]

Think of places guys hang out at: ballparks, church, casinos, live music, shooting ranges…

[BarryLiverstone]

Even bars with trivia nights

[Asker]

I’ll try those places. I don’t think I’ve ever gone anywhere on that list aside from church and a pretty female oriented concert. Thank you for the advice

[BarryLiverstone]

You are welcome. Lemme know how it goes

[IslaTheWitch]

personality is not only about being good. It's about finding in another person something we like or pique our interest. So even if both women are good, only one can have this trait that makes this man attracted to this woman.

[Nikki1989]

Most men probably would, but not all. There are still decent men in the world if you look hard enough.

[Cheapskate]

Tastes do differ somewhat. E. g. my male friends have been crazy about some girl, and I'm just not seeing it. And vice versa.

[HelpfulWoman]

i mean, duh? its just common sense.