I’ve tried the dating apps, rarely get matches. I’ve tried speed dating, get no response a lot of the time. I’ve even tried blind dating, and she friend zoned me. Is it that modern girls are just really picky or what? Cause even on dating apps the stats suggest that guys under 6 ft shouldn’t even bother…
‘Stone sharpens stone’. You need to work on yourself as you are getting consistent feedback.
Youve got 2-3 seconds when meeting girl to impress. After that… the bitch shield goes up and unless you are cery persistent… forget it.
So time to do some work. Hire a wing girl to watxh you socialize, watch videos , read books and practice. Learn to be yoir better self.
Dont know what that is… then daye yourself and impress the hell out if everyone how amazing of a person and life you are to be around.
Start there. If you can't step up to that then time to see a therapist about your early life traumas, its going to come up anyways might as well get a jump start.
Oh there's so much to unpack here. But it all has to do with unrealistic standards, lack of morals, lack of commitment, and social media.
The current dating world has been ruined by social media. Everyone expects someone unrealistic. You are not alone.
Act lost in home dépôt or something
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Women have better options than relatively normal guys. That's just how it is today.
Also, men have not really had to compete with each other on the basis of actual sex appeal or attractiveness for a long time, possibly since the dawn of agriculture. So far fewer men are really attractive in terms of what appeals to women.
Meanwhile, women have been selected almost 100% for sex appeal for the last several thousand years. So virtually all women are attractive to men.
It makes sense, then, that women are going after a minority of men, while most men would be pretty content with a fairly normal woman.
It isn't you. Women have massively unrealistic standards and when they hit 30+ and are run through and miserable not being able to find anyone they will start looking at guys like you as their meal ticket. Some advice now don't fall for it. Leave them to wither up and die alone. You will find yourself getting more attention as you age
That's just how the world is now. Personally I just focus on my life and I don't chase women. Right now I'm in a relationship it's a bit complicated to describe but I'm happy. It's important to find happiness by yourself and then a woman is just an option. If you work on yourself by the time you're 33 things will get easier :)
Dating apps don’t work. Dating in general is pointless these days. All the guy is doing is wasting money on someone you won’t know tomorrow. I’m hopes of what? Finding someone who will only love you for a week and then start fucking another dude behind your back? Or you end up marrying them and have kids and end up in a messy divorce where she gets everything you’ve worked so hard for. 🤷🏻♂️ Then what? Try again? You’re already back to square 1. Broke and Maybe even resentful
u you're not normal though...
you're already obsessed with the 6ft mark
and this is probably why most girls don't want that kind of insecurity
Because the options for finding a date have been reduced to things like apps, speed dating, and blind dates. Those kind of setups very rarely work for anyone, especially average people. There need to be more places where adults can hang out and meet new people in real life casually. Not just bars and clubs where drinking is involved. The average adult is very lonely nowadays, not just romantically but even lacking friendships. It's harder to make any connections now.
s It’s not, good people get picked up pretty fast. There’s always a reason why someone is having a hard time with dating, and sometimes it’s worth looking inwards rather than blaming anything and everything outside of themselves.
You just said it yourself. "Relatively normal". Standards begin at above average nowadays even for the minimum, especially on dating apps, sad but true. Dating apps can be good for stroking ego (or crushing it if you're unlucky) but I prefer irl encounters way more. Meeting someone should be organic.
work on yourself, your strengths, weaknesses, things you want to master
personality > appearance
Feminism and social media have turned most women into entitled, narcissistic whores. You now have women who are obese baby mommas demanding six foot tall men making six figures, it's ridiculous! I am glad I married one of the last good ones.
Women are picky. Most of them are not attracted to the 'relatively normal guy' anymore.
I think a lot of that is because getting into relationships simply isn't a priority for a lot of people.
Competition 😛💫 chicks are shy 😅 chicks wait for the guy ♂️ lol. I'm single cause no chick has asked 🥰
Precisely why i overall hardly bother with dating. It appears that most girls aren't interested in getting a boyfriend anymore.
This year, how many girls have you approached and asked for their number?
Lol its because you are not normal. But most guys don't have luck on dating apps unless they stand out somehow.
Girls like guys who have confidence among everything. Height is important too and your hobbies
Females have more options online. Societal and cultural values changed
I don't know why but they don't know what their missing 😭 I'll treat em like no other 🤷🏽
It isn't. If it's hard, you aren't relatively normal
This world is upside down, that's why. Picky people too.
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