Do you sometimes feel like It’s a waste you are single?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I have been working out recently and have lost 5 lbs (I am 105 lbs now) and developed a pretty nice body shape and yesterday I suddenly passed by the mirror and had the double-look moment and then I took some photos and I think I looked really great.

I thought It’s such a pity to be single when you feel this sexy.

[Lochlan]

Been in between relationships a few months but definitely got to let my nervous system recover too from hitting the heavy weight gains. I'll take two rest days in a row or more, no shame.

I feel your sentiment sometimes LaFemme. We are capable, young. Staying hopeful now, planting seeds, enjoying the grown fruits every now and then. Grateful for the love that 's been had.

Do you feel more capable as well? You sound like you have gymnast qualities.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I feel capable. I broke my leg 4.5 months ago and started walking 1month ago but I am perfectly capable now. Just can’t run and jump for a while.

I had a break up 1.5 year ago. After that I have dated people, the biggest amount being 2-3 months.

The last man I had feelings for that was 3 months, but it didn’t work out the way I wished and I had to end.

However, he was the perfect man in my eyes.

So, I have been feeling a little sad about that, today I have a date. I don’t have hard time finding dates, it’s just I rarely feel connection that is necessary for us to keep going. I have only felt it twice.

As for sexiness, I feel sexy, I feel capable and I feel like I shouldn’t be single.

[molonski2]

The opposite is true ( sadly ) , people get lazy in relationships , they put in far more effort when they are not , as a single woman of child bearing age , and having a weight that is correct , especially when ovulating you should have a high sense of your sexuality.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

How did you guess I was ovulating 🤣

[molonski2]

Because you were generating " The feeling " of yourself..

When we had the strip club , the girls made more money when they were ovulating ( a fact of life ) so the interesting part of that is not it was not a conscious action , yet something drew the men to them. With some its black/ white , with other more subtle , but even when she doesn't know ( some dont ) something happens.
Same occurs with females on IVF , this is why some are off in this circumstance , the problem is with him say , but she is ready. Its an interesting topic.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Can’t believe I am friends with former strip club owner 🤣🤣

[molonski2]

Sadly , only a very small part of it..
The main owner ( now sadly deceased ) was a property / transport tycoon , kind of a knock around guy who made a heep of money , always a little shifty. It for the most part was great fun , but regulation rules are the killer , and with liquor licenses tied to same.
A world of education though , and mostly fun..
Except , sometimes keeping control on the independent contractors 5555 ..
Ohh , we had everything going on in there.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Ahahahahha, that’s still it.

It doesn’t matter how much part of it, it’s all about the idea that you were open for it.

[molonski2]

Hard business , incoming $$ = Door Cover charge ( lots of free tickets / Over priced drinks ( because license comes under " sexual " ) / Shift Fees = from the contractors ( strippers / exoctic dancers ) -
So take a Friday / Saturday - You want a plethora of dancers ( they pay to work ) , you want as much as you can get out of the bar ( guys big noting and buying drinks for dancers ) , and you have a window of say 8pm to 3 am max..
Plus all the drama that goes with a large ego centric women in g-stings wearing expensive perfume and Glitter , all the cattiness that goes with that " Why is she making more money than me " ..
" My tables are always at the worst time " " I've driven from XYZ and I've only made $$ " ..
Arrrrggh , that part was impossible..
" Now.. Tiffany , would you be offended if I made a couple of suggestions " ..

[supercutebutt]

The irony is working so hard to have a nice body will only increase your odds of some dude putting a baby in your belly, which will effectively ruin the hot body you once had. And you will spend all your time and money on raising a child who will grow up to not appreciate you.

[IslaTheWitch]

nope... I'm single by choice, not because I have to :D

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am single by choice too ;)

I have so many date opportunities that I am not interested in.

But even when I am single, I feel so sexy, I feel pity there’s not a suitable man for my taste to enjoy my sexiness.

[IslaTheWitch]

their loss :D

today a quite handsome type wanted to make me smile... unfortunately for him, I was pissed off beyond belief... so to not be rude to him verbally, I just ignored him...
If my look could hurt, this guy would be in the ER by now... it's a pity that looks don't connect with brains...

[AviatorTom]

With a nice body and single, you have so many options and opportunities. Why would that ever be a waste?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Because I have no one to enjoy my sexiness with me

[AviatorTom]

@LaFemmeFatale_1 I'm not sure what you mean... you have your choice of thousands of males.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yeah, I do. But… I feel connection with only very few of them. And I don’t settle for less, hence why I didn’t pursue a relationship with all the men I’ve dated after my ex.

There was only one I really liked after my ex and he and I had a long distance video calls and no immediate plans of meeting,

So…
Other than him I’ve not liked anyone that much after my ex

[sawno]

You definetely looked great in your pictures. But lets think about it from a more realistic positive way. Your looks aren't being wasted, it helps you attract quality men. So instead of thinking its just for a true deep connection see it as an asset to stand out to the guy who will give you that connection. Then you can apprechiate it outside of a relationship to.

[Anonymous]

Haha 😂 hurray for your self love!! That’s good.

there are days I feel that way but then there’s also days I see myself and think I need a nose job a lip job an eye job and just feel ugly lol

[PBandJ_Nerd]

Maybe sometimes. I get told I shouldn't be single online all of the time just by my personality alone. In looks I'm just average.

[LiamS95]

You have no need to be single I'd date you tonight if I could.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Hehe, you are cute. Thank you

[LiamS95]

Can we date some time

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Nope, sorry

[Knightwatch27]

No, I think that if you (in seriousness) believe "you're being wasted" as single then it's quite a vain and arrogant attitude which doesn't go well in relationships. I'm single rn, but I just wait for that special connection you know. That one girl with which you have something, more.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Special connection as? How many connections do you have?

[Knightwatch27]

You know, that one girl with which there's a certain spark. As for how many I have, well that depends on what we mean by connection.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

What do you mean by connection?

[Knightwatch27]

Personal, emotional, sexual.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Interesting.

Let’s say you are texting me everyday, romantically, we understand each other very well, you feel very comfortable with me, and you tell me how comfortable I make you feel and that you love how open we communicate, we call with video calls, you always initiate texting with me and calling me.

You tell me you love our connection and that you want me to be honest with you and you’ll also always be honest with me.

What kind of connection would that be for you if we are long distance and sex is out of the picture?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

But you also go on dates, before and after which you always text me. Telling me you wish you were with me instead.

[Knightwatch27]

Well that's a personal and emotional connection clearly. I've personally never discarded the idea of long distance, even had one once. But I do like to invest and progress within reasonable timeframes if I feel the connection is that good. Given that I aim for marriage at the end of the day.

[Knightwatch27]

Why would I be going on other dates if our connection was as strong as you suggested?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

That’s nice to hear.

But why would you have a personal and emotional connection with someone and date other people at the same time?

[Knightwatch27]

That's what I asked.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yeah, I don’t understand either. Good that you don’t understand either.

[Knightwatch27]

Mm. Well good that you feel happy about your physique anyway. I'm sure you look lovely.

[soe11]

My humble advice...

• Be positive and optimistic.
• Be happy and healthy.
• Enjoying the life as you desires.
• Life is all about healthy living.

[Caliguy88]

I think my friends think that about me more than I do. I don’t want kinds. I’ve moved around. I will move around more due to my career. I have a hard time dating someone that will be hurt and or I’ll be hurt from leaving because of what I want in life. I need to find someone that can work form anywhere or easily transfer. A lot of people won’t move because of family etc. I respect that, but it’s hard for me really think about dating anyone because of that.

[Anonymous]

lol there is a reason why you are single… you may look good so you can get a man and get some dick.. but keeping a man involves way more than looking good… and judging by what you are saying… I would venture to say you probably don’t know how to treat a man so you don’t know how to keep a man.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I think the more logical reason for why I am single is that I have refused going out with men who are interested in me… ;)

Genius.

[Opinion Owner]

lol I hear that all the time.. but yet you go out with men that do and you are still single… 🤔🤔 women talk about being selective.. but the guys you want don’t want you.. hence why you are still single 😂😂😂

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Oh yes, sure.

[Bricealan]

Hell, where do you live? I only weigh 138 pounds... Well, that is, if you like older men. Well now, let me step back and rethink this... you being LaFeffeFatale_1

I might not get out of that... alive !!! 👀👀👀👀🤔🤔🤷‍♂️

[Daviddd5412]

Yeah kind of. I feel like I'm in better shape and look better now than any previous version of myself. But at the same time I'm 30. Soon enough I'll be an old man 😭

[NathanDavis]

if I were by this logic...

then I should be stripping and dancing for money

but I will not... lol

[Dongie]

I used to. I thought I was dead sexy. Not to many in agreement tho.

[Siri137]

So where are the photos?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Ahaha, they are too sexy to be shared with anyone other than a boyfriend which I don’t have

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

That’s why I was thinking it’s a pity, nobody’s got to see me 😁

[Anonymous]

Another woman whining about how hot she is and how she can’t find anyone worthy enough to kiss her feet 🙄

Anyways...🙄 Sorry to hear about your leg. I hope the rehab goes well and you continue to heal and get stronger.

[Yannae]

I have Never felt that way. I always had things to do. Plans. Goals. I was too busy to stand still and feel like a waste.

[handsomelad70]

Sometimes, but I always wanted to date/marry up in looks, which would have been exceedingly difficult given my (still) telegenic features.

[Grond21]

I can understand what you mean. But I have not felt that myself

[mayurr]

Yes, sometimes.
Many people say that it's impossible that u don't have any girl in ur life till now, u r lying💀

[AnAmazingGuy]

its a loss of the beautiful girls in world, not mine.

[Prodsebi]

Mostly no since the point is to live your life the way you want t.

[katiesmuff]

I never did when I was single!

[JHAYES317]

Why not go on dates then?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yeah, I just started dating someone.

[KrakenAttackin]

Such a problem 😏

[elaphe]

I do feel like that, yes.