Why do men run away from beautiful women?

[Anonymous]

Yeah ugly women find a lover easily. But beautiful women are always sad. Why? :/

[ManOnFire]

Are they running away? Or are you wearing a snobby or cold face that is supposed to keep them from talking to you? I often times hear "beautiful" girls complaining about no guys talking to them, yet they want to act in ways that are meant to discourage guys from talking to them.

Also, guys can often times purposely avoid approaching "beautiful" girls because these girls are hoping a guy will give them a reason to act rudely or unkind to them. They simply want to be this way towards guys because the opportunity is there, and they love doing it even more if other people around so they can see and try to make the guy feel humiliated.

[Siri137]

So in your mind "beautiful" equals cruel and narcissistic? I don't think so.

[ManOnFire]

@Siri137 Not all the time, just most times. Conventionally "beautiful" girls know the world worships and glorifies them, so because of it they tend to feel like they can do/behave however they want, especially towards a man, and pretty much no one will stop or correct them. They will be cruel and narcissistic even if nobody thinks so.

[Anonymous]

Everyone loves a beautiful girl but if she's spoiled and full of herself then it's a big NO for me. I'd rather be with a pretty girl who's kind than some top beautiful woman who thinks she deserves the best and needs to be treated as a queen just because she's beautiful. There are lots of these women and they act like this because they know they're beautiful.


There are people that just go for the beautiful women just because they're beautiful, even if they have horrible personalities. But I like my girl pretty and kind. She doesn't have to be a super beautiful woman, just pretty. Otherwise I can't fall for you no matter how kind you are. Not to mention that the more beautiful she is the more high maintenance she is and full of herself like she's some kind of queen and needs to be treated as one otherwise she'll find someone who can.


Take for example a Lamborghini or Ferrari. Those are very high maintenance cars. You'll need constantly to be ready in case something goes wrong and replace the parts, oil, scratches etc. which are expensive, otherwise you won't be able to keep it for long. Why go for one of those when you can go for something cheaper like a BMW or Audi etc which is just as cool and good looking but without being as high maintenance as those.

[Justneedtokno]

Ever think that What beautiful to you might be ugly to them or vice versa my grandmother told me that us as women think we know what like but we don’t know at all. We may think there’s a woman that super hairy bowlegged baldheaded whatever and they absolutely love it, but we find flaws where they find beauty. They may have an awesome personality that makes them beautiful and attractive and makes them funny, and keep them coming back or keep them.


so I say embrace your uniqueness stop wondering be open. A guy will come along when you’re ready.

[purplepoppy]

They don't. The problem is too many women who think they're beautiful ain't. They slap on enough make up to plant potatoes in then fawn about expecting praise for it like it was some kind of achievement to look like every Instagram trollop going. Men like women who don't look like they're trying but still look good.

[Xia1994]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 I’m finished lol 🤣

[ohsheeT]

Oh you have to understand there's many types of beautiful women.

There are beautiful women that know they're beautiful and have been spoiled all their life

There is the Girl Next door beautiful woman

There's the plain Jane beautiful woman

There's the tomboy beautiful woman...

I have met some of the most beautiful women and talking with them for just a few minutes. You realize how ugly of a person they are on the inside and you don't even want to be around them.
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I would rather look at the inside first to see you they truly are that's what I look for and the outside is just all an extra bonus.

I see beauty and all women but it's truly who they are within that makes them truly beautiful

[red324]

Very true. It's like looking at girls on a dating site. There is a person behind that pretty face. It's very hard to find someone who's a good person both inside and out.

[coachTanthony]

Men these days run away from everything unfortunately. They are too busy liking women's posts on social media hoping that they are seen lol

[Siri137]

Exactly! Hey, we finally agree on something. :)

[Anonymous]

You sure it’s men running away from beautiful women? Maybe these “beautiful” women have no personality, stuck up, I deserve everything cause I’m a pretty girl attitude. I’ve learned that a lot of women tend to think other women are pretty, which they may be from a female’s perspective but not from a man’s. So maybe these beautiful women aren’t as beautiful as you think they are. Maybe the women you call ugly have a better personality than you. I mean for you to call them ugly isn’t a good personality at all. Maybe you’re the one who is ugly personality wise that’s why men don’t gravitate to women like that. Not for something serious. Maybe for fun.

[KrakenAttackin]

Anon... let's add that many super pretty girls are devoid of personality.

[Seinna]

Lack of confidence... men in western countries have been emasculated for the past few generations. Not to mention, the best ones die in wars or end up messed up by them. Also, I think collectively as a society we learned to look down on beauty... you see it especially when you compare western and foreign media. It's as though you can be either beautiful or smart, talented etc, but not both. Beauty is demonized as something shallow and unimportant, if a woman is beautiful then she's definitely x, y and z. Which, in my opinion is also a symptom of our collective low esteem and trying to put down anything that we perceive as a threat. Or use it, abuse it and discard it. Watch some foreign media, it's a breath of fresh air.

[Seinna]

Check out men's responses - they immediately attach negative stereotypes to beautiful women without even knowing them. Again, what else does it stem from if not a low self esteem?

[Xia1994]

No this is actually interesting, but I’m noticing the other side too I feel like society prioritises beauty as well, in the media the attractive celebrities are most liked even if they have very regular personalities but also in terms of men some of them do this thing where they put really attractive women down or women who reject them down as sort of like a way to console themselves 😭 that’s how I interpret it.

It’s like they put them down call them ugly as a way to feel better because she rejected them or because they feel like a woman like that would not be with a guy like themselves I could be wrong though.

[Xia1994]

Yeah I hear ya I hear your point!

[Curmudgeon]

Fair enough, but you left out the third dimension: kindness. "Attractive, Intelligent, Kind - pick two..."

[godfatherfan]

lol... it has nothing to do with low self esteem. Actually, it is the opposite. I deserve way better then a high maintenance snob that demands everything her way (see my post). True not all are like that, but who wants to put in the work to find out if she is the rare 1 in 1000000 that isn't a nasty human being.

[ManOnFire]

@Seinna You're mad because the men's responses have gotten more Likes and because we're telling the truth. Men aren't attaching bad traits to beautiful women for no reason. It's because they can look at her body language and tell what she's about. Vibes never lie, and many "beautiful" women know they act shitty, yet still expect men to want and worship them. Trying to project their bad behavior on men as a man problem is nothing short of evading personal responsibility.

[Seinna]

@ManOnFire I'm mad? How did you reach that conclusion? I feel sorry for people who believe that they're too good for beauty because I can see through it - I can see that they simply lack the self esteem to get what they want. What we all are programmed to want. The popularity of an opinion doesn't mean it's more valid... there are more men on this site too. In fact, I'd say that considering that most people of either sex are idiots, I tend to be more suspicious when an idea is overly popular... we have seen in the past that following the crowd often leads to jumping off the cliff.

[ManOnFire]

@Seinna Because your answer was to have a go at men for talking about their experiences with "beautiful" women. That's why they're writing what they're writing. They are the ones who have dealt with their bullshit more than anyone else, and that is what tells us how they are. Experience.

Do you experience a "beautiful" girl thinking you must be trying to hit on her because you were just being polite? Do you experience them trying to be snobby to you in the same room simply because you're the only guy in there?

[laly520]

some men aren't confident enough to approach beautiful women

[Asker]

It makes sense.. everyone tells i'm beautiful. I'm always unlucky at relationships. But ugly girls around me are super lucky.🥲

[laly520]

just one remark
it isn't nice or cool to call other girls as ugly girls

[Asker]

Then why did u say "beautiful women" at beginning?)

[laly520]

I had to since thats how u worded ur question, description

[JacobJordan]

If we are saying the picture on the question is "beautiful" I have to disagree. She could look like a hag under that make up. Any woman who wears a full face of make up is automatically ugly as hell. Same with fake nails, eyelashes. Largely anything that is not naturally part of you (not counting clothes of course) makes a woman uglier. I went with a gorgeous woman who is still gorgeous without make up and has long lush hair, small petite frame, an hourglass shape and a soft feminine voice. I am just glad she picked me over someone else. Cause I am far less attractive than she is. She vehemently disagrees with that but

[BonzoInBitburg]

There's only so much you can do about your appearance so some people put effort into developing their personality to attract a partner. A lot of beautiful women never put any effort into improving themselves because they already get enough attention and compliments.

[godfatherfan]

Because, typically, the more beautiful a woman is, the higher maintenance they are. They are not nice people. Look down on others because they feel they are better then everyone else. They have beauty privilege and think everyone needs to bow to her every wish. Nothing is ever good enough for them. Also, they have their pick of guys, so they are not faithful and don't stick around in a relationship. No Thanks

[godfatherfan]

It is true that not all of them are like that. But because so many are, most guys don't want to bother to find out if she is the 1 out of a million that isn't.

[genericname85]

cause "typically", the more beautiful she is, the more fucked up she is in the head. not being misandristic. but if you're pretty "generally speaking", you can get away with A LOT more than an average looking person or an ugly person and that does things with ones character.

[genericname85]

and the other thing is risk management. nobody likes getting rejected and pretty people have more options so they are more likely to reject you so it's less worth it to try. thus better get away from them. that's the logic.

[SixFootSexy]

"Behind every beautiful woman, is a man tired of putting up with her crap."

Beautiful women have the option of hooking up with a different guy every night of the week on a dating app. They only have to make themselves available while spreading their legs.

[DishLady]

Men don't run. Boys run.
Beauty can look like a lot of different things. A beautiful woman is only intimidating to immature individuals who can't process the intensity of their feelings for the external appearance of a woman, so some run, others talk themselves out of being with the woman, etc. A man (particularly a gentleman) is mature enough to be able to handle whatever (or whomever) crosses his path.

[shoeboxcerealcard]

Trust me men do run.

[DishLady]

Just because they’re old doesn’t mean they’re men.

[mstbooblover]

You sure of that? Well, this may depend on what you mean with "beautiful women". If you mean the covergirl type with lots of artificial make up, I'm indeed not prone to approach them. The notion of beauty is also very personal, and I'm not sure everyone will agree with my taste, which means that a beautiful woman according my taste and preferences will certainly not make me run away !

[Starrrboy]

Because they're afraid she's gonna get bored with him and cheat or leave with one of the many guys who are dying for a shot with her.. ugly and mid girls do that too I know lol, but the chances are automatically higher with good looking girls..

[Juxtapose]

Men don't want to approach a woman who looks like she is high maintenance and has been carried throughout her life by her looks. If you look more average, you're not going to be able to rely on your body to get you through problems as much and you're going to have to actually develop character.

And for these idiots who think I am being sexist? The same applies to men as well.

[Juxtapose]

And also it sounds like you have a pretty shitty attitude which will make people want to stay away from you.

[Anonymous]

Who said ugly women find love easy? More like average women do. Ugly women have an even worse time than an attractive woman finding a partner because while the attractive woman is desired by all men but not taken seriously, the ugly woman isn’t desirable to most men and also not taken seriously.

[Shy_Steve]

Fear of rejection mostly, We just think that Beautiful are more likely to reject us than other Women are.

Wether that is correct or not, We just feel that there is at least a 60 to 70% chance of Rejection especially with Beautiful Girls so we don't feel it is not worth the risk.

[zagor]

Personality counts.

But also, a lot of men are insecure about approaching a beautiful woman. I used to be one of them. If she has a shitty personality, the looks aren't worth it, at least in the long term. If she has a good personality, then I'm (speaking of guys feelings in general, not mine specifically) not good enough for her.

Now I just don't bother approaching any women.

[innerman]

They think that they grew up in Gods house and they were the favorite child. So they set their standards close to the sky. Most men just someone to laugh with, hug or say good night to. That’s the perfect girl. If she is beautiful. Cool. But they will be okay with just their perfect girl even though she is not beautiful.

[tzdc21]

One reason is because she has a bad attitude. Beauty means absolutely nothing without character.

Plus, if she is painting herself in a bad light, with the way she dresses, the places she goes, the things she does, it's a no no as well.

[skidawgkc22]

I love beautiful women. However, the odds of her being with someone else are already so high that I can never bring myself to talk with a beautiful woman out of fear of having my life ended by a jealous boyfriend (or, worse, husband).