How often do online dates flake on you?

[MikeTheBartender]

I'd say 1 out of 10 make plans and I don't hear from them the day of. Gents? Ladies?

This is why as much as people preach or love dating apps, I preach... Nothing... Will ever replace the bar to meet your next boyfriend, girlfriend, one night stand etc ❤️

[Chazmatazz269]

You’re getting 9 out of 10? That’s borderline miraculous compared to my experience.
About half of all women with whom i arranged a date stood me up, repeatedly rescheduled or “ghosted” me entirely. It was because of this that i eventually established a one chance rule.
The games that came from online dating are bananas. It boils down to “something given has no value”. When women can go online and receive an abundance of attention and even gifts through very little to no effort of her own, why would they put in real effort? Most people don’t work any harder than they absolutely have to. If women got lazy and entitled, it’s men’s fault for giving them so much for nothing in return in the first place.

[MikeTheBartender]

"It boils down to “something given has no value”. When women can go online and receive an abundance of attention and even gifts through very little to no effort"

Love this! Yeah most show up. But ten percent will maybe no show, or the good old last minute/same day... I'm not feeling good lol.

[slatyb]

Never happened to me. Two posted old pictures or grossly misdescribed themselves. They all showed up as agreed, and so did I. But I used a pay site, so the women I met were paying for the chance to meet me. People on free sites are probably flakier.

[PeachyPie93]

I flaked on one of my dates because I thought he was out of my league and he was gonna cross the border from the states to come see me and I didn't think I was worth it, just for a coffee date lol. I stopped using apps after that :/

[MikeTheBartender]

No one is out of your league ❤️

[PeachyPie93]

LOL he was the only guy to ask me on a real date and seemed really down to earth. I don't know I just didn't want him to show up an be like well, you aren't as pretty as I thought and waste his time. It was sad because I did like him :/

[MikeTheBartender]

FaceTime call next time before you meet up ❤️ they will be excited to meet you

[Nikki1989]

I have never done the online dating thing. The way I look at it is, if you are so dysfunctional that you need a dating site to talk to women, you are not worth my time and effort.

[MikeTheBartender]

Well I am certainly disfuncional 😈, but I know plenty of men and women that are certainly good peeps, and they use em too ❤️

[supercutebutt]

Are you talking about gloryhole or non-gloryhole dates?

[MikeTheBartender]

Lol both

[Anonymous]

I've never had that happen. But to fair I wouldn't agree to meet a woman I hadn't properly vetted either. So I don't know if I've just been fortunate or if it's because I do my due dilligence.

[NathanDavis]

never tried the online dating

[Redstang88]

Probably 3/4 for me

[Anonymous]

I’ve heard a lot of of them do