Does anyone notice this with standards?

[Anonymous]

There are some women who say “I’m allowed to have standards” when the type of men they want aren’t the ones giving them attention. How no man is entitled to have her.

But these same women feel entitled to the man they want. They demand that a man does all this stuff for her and she doesn’t have much to offer in return. She wonders why these men who have options… Pick and go for the best option.

Everyone is entitled to standards even if they’re unreasonable. But nobody is entitled to another human being.

[ProbablyClueless]

That's not just dating standards. It's every kind of standards. People want to be able to expect higher performance from others than they expect from themselves.

[Asker]

That’s true. People should absolutely go for who makes them happy. But when those people aren’t wanting them…. Or frankly don’t exist. Then act like the entire other sex is bad. Maybe they’re the problem?

[Anonymous]

Nobody is "entitled" to anything. When a woman wants a dick, there will be 400 guys in line.

[Asker]

And that’s the problem…. People whore around and wonder why nobody decent wants them.

Girls wanna fuck around with man whores. But they wanna marry a gentleman….

[Asker]

Guys wanna marry a virgin. But sleep witn tons of whores.

That’s the problem with people who want their cake and to eat it too. Until they start getting older and more resentful. Because the decent men and women have settled down with someone good. The good ones aren’t picking them and they just can’t figure it out.

[Asker]

It’s a major problem. With men and women. Who hold the opposite sex to standards they refuse to hold themselves to. Then wonder why the kind of people they want don’t want them.

Maybe there is 400 people in line. But more times then not they’re not the kind of men she wants. She wants to have fun with the bad boys. But play the victim when they don’t treat her right. After whoring around all the time. She is entitled tk s good man to marry her and take care of her. While she contributes nothing but sex. If all you offer is sex then you attract men who only want you for sex.

[Asker]

You’re never going to find that guy you truly wanna marry. If you’re sleeping with 400 dudes just because you wanna lay down and have sex. Especially if babies come or maybe you’re a coward and kill your baby. Because you wanna have sex without conswhwnxes. Just like coward men knock women up and run off.

People don’t know how things really work and end up extremely disappointed later in life. Either single or with someone they genuinely aren’t happy with

[Anonymous]

[Asker]

Troll? Y’all seem to deflect onto trolling when you see something in yourself you don’t like. I like how you’re anonymous (like I am) because evidently you don’t want me seeing into your profile on what you post

[Asker]

There are men and women who hold the opposite sex to standards they refuse to hold themselves to. Then wonder why these people they want who are like top tier aren’t choosing them.

When they can’t offer the same in a relationship they demand. Even working in separate roles working equally as hard.

A lot of women who want to be housewives or stay at home moms are so delusional on what it is. They think they can sit around all dah not doing anything. Then they find out oh… This is actually work. Their husbands work 70 or more hours a week. Work sometimes 17 hour shifts or comes home from deployment. To a nagging wife with a honey do list.

Especially when she’s with the kids for only a few hours after getting off the school bus. It’s just too hard

[Asker]

What women used to do staying home. Worked their asses off. They homeschooled the kids, they washed clothes by hand, they sometimes cooked all day. They cooked breakfast lunch and dinner from scratch. They did most the childcare.

While men should be spending time with their kids as a father. They changed the diapers. They sewn clothing. They made medicine

[Asker]

They didn’t sit on their ass all day watching Lifetime. Swimming in the pool while her working husband is remodeling the house and taking the trash out and cooking dinner.

They wonder why men in these one sided relationships end up leaving. Sometimes having affairs. While having affairs are wrong. They’re so miserable in the marriage. As well as most of these women cheat

[Asker]

I see these men married in the military. Where the women stay home and do as little as they can get away with. They refuse to cook, they refuse to clean, they refuse to take care of the kids. It’s her break. It’s her time. It’s all about her. It’s narcissists that do this. Then wonder why men won’t stay.

Only men who can’t stand up for themselves and are desperate would put up with a one sided relationship. Because just like women who have options go for the best…… So do men