How do you get a girl to like you when she's single and unavailable or not ready to date?

[Anonymous]

[HappyWoman34]

Just be kind. Flirt a bit, be romantic. Do something nice, like take her out to a picnic, after finding out which foods she likes. Women love romantic stuff. Also, don’t be afraid to try to kiss her, if she’s doing things like letting you get close to her and flirt, touch her respectfully, etc and doesn’t move away from you. I had a guy friend hit on me a few nights ago. He did things like standing close, asking if I was single and asking why I preferred another guy to him. This isn’t considered creepy or weird. I wasn’t interested, but it was done with such finesse, that I didn’t mind his approach and we’re still friends.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

Just be there for her until she's ready. Until she starts falling, lolz! But if you have to wait for several years, that might not be a good sign and you'll have to move on.

[ohsheeT]

Well if you have to get her to like you you're doing something that's not you so it's going to be false and it's not going to work out anyway..

She's either going to like you or she's not going to like it if she likes you she likes you for who you are what she sees who you are within and that can't be faked it can only be real so I would say just be yourself because that's what women fall in love with is the real person if you're not being real it's not going to work out

[Loner111]

It just has to all fall into place naturally, don't try to force, or make anything happen as it may land u in trouble.

[Asker]

I agreed, probably when my lady friend is ready, someone special will come to her but I'll probably won't be me because I'm one of the unlucky guys lol

[Loner111]

Don't think like that.

I know it's hard and it hurts when things don't go the way we want with a girl, but maybe she'll come along, who knows.

Give it time. One thing for sure, is that if u act desperate, u could scare her off.

Patience is key to success in any situation.

[Asker]

Trust me, she always tells me I deserved better 😉 because im not her dream man but it's all good

[Loner111]

Okay, in that case, remember that the world is huge, there r women everywhere.

One person's trash is another person's gold.

When one window closes, another opens.

God works in mysterious ways...

[Rosexøxø]

She could like you, but you’d still have to address the situation of why she isn’t ready to date. Walk with her through that, and wait, just wait, suggest something to help (therapy), something that may help or may not, or don’t wait. 🤷‍♀️

But her liking or not liking you still won’t change the core of the situation. Something in her perception, emotions, or where she is in her life. Her journey.

[ManOnFire]

Single and unavailable? Not sure how that works, unless she's just not emotionally available.

Not ready to date? Maybe she isn't, but is still having sex with someone.

Regardless, why would you try to get a girl to like you who is clearly saying she's unavailable? Why spend time on that when there are others who wouldn't have those blockers in their way keeping them from liking you?

[Anonymous]

I dont know her story, so its hard to answer. You can give her some time and make sure she knows you are available. If she’s interested she”ll give you a chance.

But dont wait too long for her. Especially if she shows no interest in dating. I know I wouldn't let someone go that im interested in. If you want to move forward, confess your feelings. She will have to make a decision

[OfMiceandMen]

Look for commonalities and befriend her first. Typically, friends make the best partners. If you find a common interest or activity to do, then she sees you as not only a compatible friend but maybe more when she finally decides to be available and ready to date.

[Valerii]

Not ready to date anyone or not ready to date you? If it’s the former, give her time and be her friend. Find out what she needs in a friend. Can you be that?

Women often fall for guys with whom they’re emotionally and intellectually connected. A good relationship will be build on a strong friendship.

It is possible that she won’t be interested in you no matter the time, though. You’ll figure that out once you know what she needs in a close deep friendship and whether that is you.

[Ευδεμονια]

I don’t think forcing people liking you or having a relationship with you is something healthy. You can build a trusting friendship with her so she maybe can change her ideas about dating and having someone while knowing you, but it isn’t assured.

[northerngal]

Well you can probably get her to like you as a friend...

[CrabCakes11]

You don’t. Trying to force somebody who doesn’t want or isn’t ready for a relationship is unhealthy and bizarre behavior

[I_am_a_human]

I agree with you on "You don't"... I am surprised by some of the responses to this question.

[CrabCakes11]

@I_am_a_human I know. People are strange. They fail to consider that the woman has agency

[midnightmoon05]

Not ready = she is not interested. She is letting you down in a “nice” way.

[Anonymous]

You don't. If a girl is "single and unavailable" it literally means she doesn't like you. If she's "not ready to date" it means she has no interest in dating you. Move on, my man!

[TacosRAwesome]

She's just not that into you. If she were she'll probably sort something out and become ready.

[mobiusforniner]

You don’t “get” someone to like you.

[Anonymous]

Depends on what situations she went through till her current time

[Anonymous]

Why would you want to?

But the answer is the same way you get any woman. Lie, lie, lie and then lie some more.

[Dongie]

You don't. Maybe 1 in a thousand.

[DrPepper12]

You don't. Move on.

[I_am_a_human]

You don't. Leave her alone.

[Anonymous]

Why do u want her

[Anonymous]

How do I open this damn pickle jar?

[Dongie]

With a jar opener.

[JonCobretti]

Make her cum

[In_Trance]

you don't