Girls, Is it just me that falls in love quickly but gets attached to people I actually like and not just someone I think about romantically?

[AstoriaIzNotHere]

(Asking from my “female” prospective)

[SueShe]

Falling in love normally involves a lengthy process and if you bypass all those steps, then you are not really in love but you are simply infatuated in those people. The infatuation will disappear just as quickly as it came the longer you know those people and you learn to appreciate (or dislike) them

You are probably not the only one in that case mainly in your age group. Your sexual hormones are playing tricks on you and you tend to listen to them rather than to reason.

I, on the other hand, never fall in love because I let my reason do the talking and I carefully weigh the pros and cons of such a feeling. Until now, the cons have always dominated which makes it so much easier to me to make a decision based on reason and not on sexual hormones.

[Anonymous]

It could be just you.