Why do I get so emotionally attached to girls I barely know?

Anonymous

Has happened two times now. They show some form of interest (my friends tell me it’s interest), i wonder if they are being friendly or are actually interested. I start to develop feelings and get really nervous in front of them and am unable to talk to them.

Then my feelings start to grow more and more even after months of them showing interest, and then due to the passage of time, they or i have to leave/move out of town, etc. which leaves me sad.

with the most recent girl i liked, who also left, i got so nervous in front of her that she noticed that. She started to ask me why i get so nervous around her. I had no idea what to say though, so i just said “i dont know”. She then started to ask me if im single and stuff. My friends told me this was a sign of interest and that i should have asked her out, but sadly she left after 5 months or so.

I’m 24 and i have never been in a relationship due to getting really shy around girls i like. I liked 2 girls but was too nervous to do anything.

im not sure if I’m single until now because im too ugly. Maybe i am, but i also think that im at the least average looking because a few random girls at the club i went to one time, told the waiter to tell me to come to them. What made them attracted to me if they dont know me? Is it looks? Or were they just looking for anyone? But why me out of all guys?

Why do I get so emotionally attached to girls I barely know?
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