When does a guy gets emotionally attached to a girl? Do guys even get attached?

[gauri_rads]

I have seen many guys breaking up with their girlfriends for no reason or may be for a very stupid reason.. makes me wonder if they we even attached to each other.. girls are.. most of the times.. but guys don't seem to be. Why is that?

[XavierKane]

this is actually a common misnomer. statistics and research show that men are more emotionally effected by break ups, men stay hurt after a break up longer than girls, and men are also the first ones to say "i love you"

men get attached exceptionally quickly. the boys you describe are actually a minority and tend to be deiven by desire for sexual pleasure.

also women have a tendency to trash talk mens break ups so often it makes it seem like they all break up for bad reasons when in reality many men leave girls for great reasons.

being abused, feeling not comforted when lonely, desires and interests dont match up. etc etc. I've had a couple girlfriends cheat on me and leave me because i declined to have sex and within a week they had entire circles of people believing i left them due to religious differances

like no. i left because you fucked some random guy after i rejected sex because i wasn't ready xD

[gauri_rads]

ohh.. that's terrible.. well I agree with your response to your ex!

[XavierKane]

but to answer your question yes men do get attached and typically its pretty fast. but if the giy was only in it for your body or sex etc etc dont expect emotions to flourish. the last girl i "hooked up with" was a girl I've been talking to you for nearly a year, we had gone out together on several occasions (bowling, to dinner, to ice cream and this past time when things got a litrle sexy, we went to the drive in togetger) but mind you nothing sexual flourished until nearly 11 months of friendship and constant talk. so the real key here is to pursue friendship first and wait for feelings to grow. if the guy is worth your time he will come around

[chefG]

guys are quick to become attached and many guys struggle with the feelings so lash out. also with many guys you can only feel attached to a small number of people both friends and girlfriend included, some guys will just pick there friends so they seem more distant from feelings.

[gauri_rads]

okay

[anmari2001]

this pic is so accurate but only cowards try to replace you although they are into yoi

[Livinglogical]

If you find the answer, bottle it for me and I'll buy it in a heartbeat.

[TheMoroccangirl]

I think guys get more attached than girls do nowadays

[SILENTWOLF22]

lol. both are attached to sex. lol

[gauri_rads]

really?

[SILENTWOLF22]

ofc. lol. ntng can substitute sex.

[OlderAndWiser]

No, guys never fall in love or get attached. Just look around you and you will realize that no man has ever loved a woman, that we are all alike, and that gross generalizations are perfectly fine for describing one half of the humans on the planet.

[Cavewoman]

Hahaha!

[Anonymous]

basically girls are naturally more sensitive when it comes to feeling that's a fact but there are some guys who are more emotional and some who are less.
me for example I think Im a bit more emotional than many if my friends are, but somehow I can block bad feelings or even turn em off but sometimes I can't hold the negativity.
over all I think I would get attached to someone I really love ^^

[gauri_rads]

I totally agree with your response!

[InDetail]

Well we're taught to look out for number one, we're not used to getting attached to even our friends, so an actual mature guy will know when he's attached control himself within reason when he is attached or be secure not being attached to anyone, besides to be honest rarely do guys have true fun with women they court, because we have to watch everything or at least most things we do to keep them interested.

[Zer0Ghost]

They are, guys are just expected to not let emotional turmoil get to them, they're expected to move on quickly, show no sign of hurt, and even if they're emotionally invested, not let people know

[gauri_rads]

hmm.. may be..

[mobiusactual]

hell yeah we get attached. usually it's when we start really enjoying being around her and are scared to lose her.

[gauri_rads]

ummm okay

[Onyekachii]

Guys do...
people generally get emotionally attached when they invest themselves and get profit... either in cash, time or kind.
A mans heart lies where his treasure is.

[Crotte]

are you a sociopath

[Onyekachii]

how do you mean

[Crotte]

re-read what you wrote, but this time pretend your reading it out of donald trumps book

[Onyekachii]

I think you should be re-read what I wrote, then re-read what you wrote... funny dude

[Crotte]

well it still sounds like you're suggesting that people are only in it for profit, when the aspect is heartlessness among men

[Onyekachii]

I mean profit in the sense that... when a guy spends time or money or whatever with a lady and she reciprocates the affection.. that's what I mean by profit.
when this happens, the guy gets emotionally attached

[Crotte]

what about the commies? do they fall in love?

[gauri_rads]

I thought you're talking about investing his tym. Money? I'm not sure..

[Onyekachii]

Time and money are both treasures one can invest... im talking about both

[gauri_rads]

umm... yaa..

[Browneye57]

They do, but not the way YOU do.

Women connect emotionally.
Guys connect physically.

If they're bailing out then they're simply not getting what they need or want from their girl.

[TheEnvy]

Some of us (including myself) do. But it's not so common.

[Jts1996]

Around the same time the girl rips your heart in half.

[gauri_rads]

I know.. right?😂😂😂

[Youngpapai]

When their heart belongs to ya or when you are the best friend or friend essential to his life.

[Justinaveragedude]

You find the wrong guys. Guys do get attached, you just haven't found the right ones.

[uknaked]

Only when they fall in love with you, rather than lust!

[Anonymous]

We get attached to women, but often we grow tired of the childishness and shit testing, which makes it easy to get rid of them.

[Slasher006]

My experience is that I am emotionally very attached to my girlfriend.

[HeatNation1]

I don't get attached to anybody. I'm a loner and I like it that way

[gauri_rads]

oh okay

[jaydtre]

They say guys on average fall for girls a lot sooner.

[GeorgeHarris]

oh yes, its when we feel we can trust them.

[gauri_rads]

and when is that.. exactly?

[Anonymous]

Guy gets emotionally attached when he sees her naked the first time and is able to enjoy her naked beauty by constantly looking at her and admiring it. A woman's body is heaven on Earth TBH.

[LORESKI]

you must be really stupid to be generalizing all guys like that

[gauri_rads]

you form an opinion about me and called me 'stupid' only by a question I asked.. and I form an opinion about guys after a number of incidences I've seen.. and I'm the one Stupid.. how legit is that?

[LORESKI]

yea you must really be an idiot i formed that opinion from the stupidity you showed by generalizing men and so to your reasoning by saying that because of thos "incidents" you say you've had that means thats true about all men? thats like if i said due to the incidents that I've had all women care about is money so then that would also be true according to your reasoning right? hell no it sounds stupid just like you did thats why i had and still have the opinion i stated 😂😉

[gauri_rads]

idiots like you are so blind that they don't even see the question mark I've put after my words.. and the work 'seem'.. oh I forgot you are too blind to notice that.. and if I had already made an opinion about guys, I wouldn't have asked a question.. rather I would have created an article giving my statements.. so stop wasting my time and don't comment if you don't have anything worth acknowledging!!

[LORESKI]

wow apart from being so stupid you're even ignorant 😂😂😂 well im done wasting my time on trash

[ashish2354]

yes they do

[dabestaround]

It really depends on the relationship