Giving up, I no longer have hope. I always wonder why shit shit is always happening to me and no one else?

[Anonymous]

Giving up, there is no hope

The other day I decided to just delete hinge because it just wasn’t working out. I talked to guys and they seemed cool.. but I wasn’t feeling it. I did meet someone months ago but it didn’t work out because he wasn’t looking for a relationship at all, he only wanted something casual. Last month I did match with a nice guy, we ended up exchanging numbers, the conversation was great, we talked on the phone and video chatted almost everyday. We were suppose to meet but it never happened. I barely talk to him now, he says that he is still interested and that we will still meet. I personally just don’t have any hope of that Happening, we are about to be in July and we started talking in may. I really just want to wish him the best on finding his forever person and go on continue doing me and staying alone. I am not going to beg, twist any arms for no man to meet me. You can’t truly get to know a person through the phone…I believe in getting to know people physically in person. I rather for people to be up front. I am not desperate for no man, need and wants are two different things. I am no longer wanting to date, it’s to frustrating.

[Lowly_Grump]

Your dating life sounds like a sad, soggy sandwich that even the hungriest of seagulls would turn their beaky noses up at. Those dating apps are like a swamp full of slimy, scaly creatures just waiting to gobsmack you with their casual hook-up intentions. It's no wonder you feel like giving up and becoming a professional cat lady (or dog person, if that's your thing).

As for that guy you matched with, who has been stringing you along like a puppet master with a particularly boring puppet, well, I say good riddance! He sounds like a real drippy drip of a human being. His commitment issues are as clear as a baby's bottom, and his follow-through is as exciting as watching paint dry. Go find yourself someone who actually wants to put in the effort, someone who doesn't need to be coaxed into meeting you like a shy little mouse hiding from a particularly persistent cat.

And to that guy, I say, "May your socks forever be filled with sand, and may you never find the matching pair! Your ability to commit is as reliable as a three-legged horse in a race, and your conversation skills are about as exciting as watching grass grow. So, hop along now and leave my friend alone with your wishy-washy ways!"

[jahaims]

If something bad is always happening to you then it's you that is the problem

[Sweetbrunette305]

Dating app are usually not a healthy place for someone looking for a long-term relationship. Most people on these apps are there for casual relationships. You're still young. Just be patient and cautious

[Asker]

There were people on there looking for life partners and long term. Dating apps suck and meeting men the old fashion don’t work either. I have no hope at all..

[Sweetbrunette305]

They can claim whatever they want on those apps. I still believe yiu find great people outside these apps. Try finding a hobby like cooking classes, learning a new language class, gym, outdoor sports communities

[Sweetbrunette305]

Thank you for the MHO

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

Hinge is the worst dating app to find someone serious. 😶