He’s saying if love him have sex with him?

[SpiritualQueen1]

I have been broken up with my ex for a while and we both do love eachother. I think I was so stupid in love that I said even though we are not together we can still be intimate but I changed my mind before anything did happen and I said to him im worth more than that so it will not be happening. but he wants to come and see me and I know he wants to get intimate and now because I have put boundaries in place and said I don’t sleep with anyone i am not in a relationship with he’s saying to me I don’t love him because I don’t want to do anything sexual with him and have sex with him.

is it me who finds this really insecure and weird or am I overthinking

[OlderAndWiser]

That is an extremely well known manipulation that some guys use when all they want is sex.

[SpiritualQueen1]

Honestly I find it absolutely disgusting like how can people even thinking like that because it’s taking advantage of someone

[OlderAndWiser]

It's not really taking advantage of you because it doesn't happen unless you agree, but it is very shallow and self-centered.

[SpiritualQueen1]

Thank you and I will definitely not be agreeing

[OhLongJohnsoning]

I don't get why people settle for ex's.

You're ex's. You realized you weren't good for each other. YOU NEED TO MOVE ON

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

Sex does not equal to love. Read that again, sister..

[SpiritualQueen1]

I agree sister AMEN 🫶🏽🙌🏾

[DishLady]

Please don’t… my goodness.

[SpiritualQueen1]

Definitely not girl!!! I can promise
You. That will not be happening

[Danny_dan92]

It’s done. Move on