If I had a baby with a guy that made me a single mom, should I give a guy a chance that clearly likes me but has shown to have some "nice guy" traits?

[Anonymous]

We talked off and on for years and he has returned again. Last time we talked it ended in a falling out. He felt I was playing games with him but I was talking to someone else and I wanted to be just friends with him

[Anonymous]

You friend zoned the guy. You were indeed playing games. Let him find someone who is mature enough to be in an adult relationship. Which you obviously are not capable of that.

[Asker]

How was I playing games? He knows I wasn't interested and he chose to remain friends

[Opinion Owner]

Uh huh. Right.

[Asker]

You still didn't explain how I was playing games. He argued with me like he was entitled to something so who was wrong?

[Anonymous]

I don't think it really matters. I mean you screwed up once. Your judgement is kind of suspect already.

[Asker]

I'm not sure if I should give him a chance because In the past he was one of those fake nice guys. Don't you think that Is a red flag if after years he is still interested?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know the guy. If I did I could make this call. But I'm forced to rely on your judgment which I've already established is kind of 💩ty.
When women say "nice guy" they generally mean a quality guy that they're just not feeling it with. How you're describing it is kind of the opposite.
Honestly based on what I know at the moment he should be passing on you.

[Asker]

Why should he pass on me?

[jahaims]

That simp is going to be the only one who wants your leftovers