What could be the reason a guy I went out once looks at me with serious face every time he sees me?

[Anonymous]

He looks me straight in my eyes and stares at me until I’m not on his line of view anymore.

We were chatting for 2 months before we went out on our first date. After our first date he said we shouldn’t date anymore because of our ”different life goals” he didn’t want to give details what exact goals didn’t align.

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that's kinda weird. A couple thoughts on what might be up with that:

- Maybe he still likes you but was scared of actually committing to dating or something. So now he just kinda longingly stares instead of actually asking you out again. Some guys can be chicken like that.

- Possibly he felt awkward or guilty about rejecting you after your date. So now he doesn't know what to say to you and just kinda zones out staring while his brain buffers, haha.

- It could be he's still interested in you physically but knows he doesn't want a relationship. So his body's like "oh she's cute" but his brain's like "nah can't date".

- Or he could just be a weirdo, some dudes are just socially awkward and don't know how to act normal around girls they like.

I'd say if it was me, I'd try joking with him next time, be like "take a picture it'll last longer!" Or something to see how he reacts. Maybe he'll laugh and act normal, or maybe he'll get all tongue-tied and you'll know for sure he still digs you. Then you can decide if you even want him staring longingly from afar or not, haha. Def call him out on it though, guys hate confronting that awkward shy stuff.

[Asker]

I don't know it’s weird how he doesn’t look away even after I’ve noticed. He also one viewed my instagram story update despite not even following me

[Oliverlogan263]

Dang, that is totally weird how he won't look away even when you notice him staring! What a creeper.

And then checking out your insta story when you're not even following each other? Super sketchy behavior.

It almost seems like he's obsessed with you or something. Like he can't get over the fact that you went out once. Some guys just don't know how to take no for an answer I guess.

I'd be kinda freaked out if I were you, to be honest. He definitely seems like the stalker type! I wouldn't put it past him to be watching all your socials.

Maybe you should private your accounts for a bit so he can't snoop. And definitely don't go anywhere alone just in case he tries something. Make sure to tell your friends about this creep too so they can look out for you.

Honestly this guy is giving me major bad vibes. Best thing is probably avoid being around him at all costs if you can. No idea what his problem is but he doesn't sound stable. Stay safe!

[CuriousHubby]

He hates you and is pissed his pretend imagine if you did not match reality!

[Asker]

Hate is pretty strong word. Also we only went out once. When he broke things off he sent ne long text explaining his reasons etc

[CuriousHubby]

Lmao yeah and he feels that way. He clearly thought you would be different. Why else would he shoot a long text!
He was venting his reasons! And has not let his feelings go

[Asker]

So he’s hurt we didn’t work out?

[CuriousHubby]

More hurt his imaginary version of you was not true and your very different from who he really wanted to date. He is upset you two did not work out and never would according to him

[Asker]

Very different in what way?

[Asker]

? Did gd thought I look diffetent or something else