Should I admit I like him?

[Anonymous]

I recently got texting A guy I now that has fancied me for at least 3 years I honestly was not that into him but in the last few months I started enjoying the fact I know he's always checking me out and picked up the courage to add him on social media and we were texting as normal but things turned into sexting , he knows I live with childrens dad but he nows I'm not happy and it's not gonna work out but we agree to keep everything secret to not hurt feelings as he also stays with his children mother and I'm 100% sure they are not together as she is not interested in him no more. At first I just wanted a bit of fun and we haven't actually met up yet alone , but I'm starting to have feelings and I feel everything building up inside me , we only ever flirt we chat as normal then everything turns sexual I now this is lust but how can I tell him I have feelings without embarrassing myself?

[SueShe]

The question is always what you are hoping to achieve by confessing your feelings to a person like him.

Both of you have children and have duties to fulfill towards those children. I have the feeling that your infatuation is only a way for you to try to find someone to share your duties with but this infatuation is not likely to lead to a long term relationship. I believe that there are too many issues that will arise from that constellation.

It is one thing to want to sext with someone but a totally different thing to be in a relationship.

[Unap0logetic_]

Honestly, I think you should wait until he’s no longer living with her… That doesn’t seem ideal and I read someone say the conversation starts normal than usually goes sexual. To me, it sounds like he’s just seeking a side chick. It seems like he’s doing the right things to make you like him and let it sit on your mind in hopes that you’ll allow him to sleep with you.. I’m saying this not to be judgmental, but as someone who’s witnessed that very scenario many times. It’s never smart to deal with any person who’s still involved with an ex, baby’s mom/dad, living with ex partner, etc…. The relationship isn’t over no matter how much they say it is.. it usually ends up bad in those situations. You don’t deserve that, find someone who’s serious about you.

[Anonymous]

What do you mean the conversation starts normal but ends up turning sexual, can you give an example

[strateguy632]

Yes. Tell him.

[Alex-Snow]

Of course go for it... life is short

[LazerMan]

admit or other woman will steal him away

[Cheerfull009]

It is your peroneal matter , why ask others?

[Anonymous]

Oh my god grandma no