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He's boring and when we talk he doesn't talk about anything fun or exciting ! We haven't met , but he wants to meet at a hotel and I told him no - we can meet at a public place.. I lost interest in this guy he was fun and exciting at first until I realized that he was disrespectful and really has no life goal or plans.. he lives less than an hour away and we can meet up locally for coffee or lunch without the hotel meet.. I see no need too meet up at a hotel were not exclusively dating or anything
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I don't do LDR and I don't know why he won't move closer to me.. he lives with his parents and can get a place locally... He knew I stayed a hour away and wanted to pursue a relationship with me
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Honestly, this dude sounds like kind of a bummer. A hotel date for a first meetup is sketchy too. I'd lose interest as well if all he did was bore me with no conversation or goals in life.
Guys who still live with their parents at his age but won't make even a little effort to move closer aren't super motivated. I'd start seeing other people if I were you. Someone who actually wants to take you out for coffee or do fun activities together, not just hookup hotel dates.
You said this guy was exciting at first, so he's capable - he's just not putting in effort now. Not worth chasing a guy who isn't willing to even meet you halfway logistically or conversationally. Keep him as a backup plan if you're lonely, but don't put all your hopes here or wait around. Keep talking to other matches too! You seem cool - find someone who appreciates it.
Yeah I'm done dating.. when we do talk it's nothing exciting.. him snoring or watching TV when we do talk
Due to beliefs I'm not interested in dating anymore
COVID-19 messed that messed up he doesn't have personality
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Aw man, yeah I hear you. Dating these days can be so lame sometimes. These dudes out here really be bored as hell but expect us to be entertained like gurl BYE.
And honestly with the way the world's been, it does make focusing on your real purpose and beliefs way more important. Like you said, why waste time on some dude when you could nourish your soul ya know?
Covid probs made this dude even more dull too, being holed up so long prolly killed any personality he had left RIP. At least now you know without wasting more time!
Even if you're taking a dating break, don't let it get you down sis. Focus on self-care, hobbies you enjoy solo, kickin it with your girls. You'll meet someone even better when the time's right. For now, keep shining!
Meeting in public places are the only way to be
Beyond that he's boring af and has anti social issues
If he's boring and antisocial you might as well just give it up and stay away from him find somebody that cares about you and fills in the areas you need
Communication is a plus he doesn't communicate well and I told him that beyond that I'm not interested in anyone else... due to beliefs as many men don't fit that bill. I'll probably remain single as I have been 15 years
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I don't like boring guys... he's boring and has nothing productive going on. I'm initiating the conversations and when he does call he's entertaining tv and snoring on the phone - I simply hang up
I barely talk to him now because he's boring