So we've been dating for a 8 months. We knew each other for a year previously before he asked me out. Things are going well besides for some of his strange fetishes that he has thankfully chosen to compromise on. He playfully roasts me in his jokes. I remember one in particular, he came over and I just came out of the shower we were kissing and his hand went under the towel and whatever and he made a comment asking if I even showered. I was mortified cause I was sweaty from work and class so I made sure to shower. I wanted to cry I got up and he pulled me back on the couch saying it was a joke. Another instance, he was sharing his fries with me but mustard was on them I never liked the smell of mustard so I told him I didn't want any he asked if I even tried it I said no. He kept insisting and gave up saying I was being disrespectful and I hated him. Then I thought I had his feelings so I panicked and apologise and he laughed. Another occasion we were watching a movie he picked and I yawned , I wasn't hungry or tired, I just felt the urge to yawn. He then turns and goes off on me asking if his movie was that boring, I said no I just felt like yawning and it wasn't boring, then he kept saying I thought he was boring like I was lying or something. He had been making his not funny jokes all day and I got up cause I was getting a migraine to get some water. He paused the movie and followed me to the kitchen. Saying I shouldn't have walked away when he was talking to me. I got water and tried explaining myself before I knew it I had burst into tears a d I didn't want him touching me. He went back to the living room and I calmed down and apologised. Then he asked if I knew he was just joking. I explained I didn't find the joke funny. Then he asked y would we argue cause I was yawning. I told he'd be surprised the things my ex yelled at me for like wearing knee length skirts/dresses or crossing my legs when i sit cause he wanted to put his hand up my skirt. He keeps joking
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But I don't find them funny and no matter how many times I tell him they just fall on deaf ears. I wonder if it's cause I laugh but my laugh isn't always cause I find it funny it's a trauma response but I think the fact that I'm crying like full blown streams while he's making these hurtful jokes should be a dead giveaway that I don't find it funny. I just dint know what to do. I'm considering ending things but I think it's a silly reason. The relationship is good outside of that
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