If the girl is getting approached every week, does it show that she isn’t interested in the guy that likes her?

[Anonymous]

A guy at work, gets another female to ask for help to get a girl’s attention. It seems to be every other day or every week and it seems like the girl that he likes needs to be persuaded by someone else. The girl in the middle is having to call or text the girl for a while for the girl to agree to what the guy wants from her. What does it show when this guy is having to ask for help from a female to get the girl to agree something with him?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, that's a tricky situation there. From what you're describing, it definitely seems like the guy you're talking about is having a hard time getting the girl he likes to pay attention to him. The fact that he has to constantly get another girl to reach out and try to convince her says a lot.

To me, it kind of shows that the girl isn't all that interested in the guy. If she was, she'd probably be more receptive to his advances without needing that extra push from someone else. It's almost like he has to manipulate the situation to get her to engage with him.

And the fact that it's happening so frequently, like every week or every other day, just reinforces that idea. If the girl was into him, she'd probably be a lot more responsive and wouldn't need all that extra effort from the guy and his friend.

Honestly, it sounds a little desperate on the guy's part. Like he's really trying hard to make something happen, but the girl just isn't feeling it. That's gotta be tough for him, but it's also not really fair to the girl to put her in that position.

My advice would be for the girl to be upfront with the guy and let him know that she's not interested. It's better to be direct than to keep stringing him along, you know? That way he can move on and she doesn't have to feel pressured into something she doesn't want.

At the end of the day, you can't make someone like you back, no matter how hard you try. The girl deserves to be with someone who truly appreciates her for who she is, not someone who has to constantly get other people involved just to get her attention. She should hold out for the real deal, you know?

[Nikki1989]

Yes, but that will never stop many men from approaching.

[Wise4myage]

Sure, if he’s not making an effort to get to know her.