A woman I went out with asked me why I've been single so many years and I didn't have an answer for her. What should I have said?

[debtfree_oneyear]

[texascollegegirl]

I think you should have hinted at the truth enough for her to decide if she wanted to know more. More women respect a man who can be honest about his kink than men realize. Forgive me if I'm wrong that it's kink that has kept you single.

[GOLDFISH_smile]

You can say I don't know, or it's a long story, or I'd rather not get into that rn, etc... it's best to be honest but that doesn't mean u gotta tell everything about urself as soon as someone asks either

[Anonymous]

Answer a question like that with another question. "Why is anybody single". She's trying to pin you down on something to judge you on. Don't allow that.

[LiamJHayden]

"I have not found someone truly compatible. Yet."

[Jooying]

What's your truth? Sometimes if you don't know the answer, simply being honest

[debtfree_oneyear]

The truth is it's complicated. Too long a story to tell to a date. I'm also not sure I want to tell her but I also don't want to lie.

[Jooying]

Then just simply said you have not yet met the right person

[Nikki1989]

You don't have to say anything at all.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

If you don’t have an answer, you don’t have one. I wouldn’t be ashamed of that