Am I a bitch or am I justified?

[Anonymous]

I blocked a guy after he canceled a date half an hr beforehand. I ignore texts if I see they don't reply on a reasonable time-frame.

[talentedclock]

It depends. Sounds justified to me to block the guy who canceled unless his mom died or something.

With texting, I'm a lot more relaxed about it. I don't like texting much when it comes to chatting anyways so I let her know that and try to set up a date asap and if things go well, set up a time to talk on the phone. For me, texts are mostly for quick, brief communication. I don't like the endless back and forth for days on end.

[Iron_Man]

I understand you’re upset and you want to discipline back but by blocking you have no idea why he didn’t show up and why he canceled. That’s like putting a guy in jail and just being done with him

[Asker]

He said he didn't feel well cuz he took the vaccine today. I had no problem with him canceling but it was way too last minute. I could have been walking to the meetup location already.

[Iron_Man]

Well, that’s completely understandable because it’s happened to me with the flu shot and I started breaking out with hives but the next day and I wasn’t feeling well and I got my money back but just try to unblock him and work it out and try for another date. He probably shouldn’t have taken the vaccine shot going out on a first date there’s always side effects involved and sometimes you just don’t feel good after

[Asker]

Its less of the fact he cancled. Its more that canceling half an hr before hand is very very rude

[Iron_Man]

Yes, but you can give the guy one chance you never know you could get married. It could be something that you will regret for the rest of your life by cutting him out. If the date doesn’t go that well then you’ll have your answer, but then you’ll have peace of mind

[Iron_Man]

I met my long-term former girlfriend on the phone dating service in our first conversation was boring. I didn’t do much but then she called one more time and she said she had long hair and that lite a spark and that gave me enthusiasm. Then after that everything was perfect and we even lived together and traveled all over the world. together

[Asker]

He doesn't qualify to be the love of my life. The love of my life would have more respect for others than that

[Iron_Man]

OK well you never know what can happen if you try again if you’re interested in him give it one more shot. Usually I allow three strikes and you’re out rule. Not just one strike.

[Asker]

I have set low standards in the past and attracted a lot of sub par guys. Now i deliberately set my standards higher for angood reason

[Iron_Man]

Well, you do what you feel is best for you

[TerribleTurk]

I'm glad I'm alone and I don't experience such situations. In a relationship, smartness is expressed clearly and directly.

[Anonymous]

You sound kind of like a b**** to be honest. I don't know if that guy is a jerk or not. But it sounds like you did him a favor.

[Asker]

you definitely sound jaded and vengeful

[Opinion Owner]

Wait, you asked a question. All I di was answer it. And that makes me jaded and vengeful?😆
What answer did you want me to give you. Maybe next time put that you just want answers that you want to hear.

[Asker]

I can tell by your tone of voice that you are bitter, jaded and vengeful.
everyone gives off vibes and you definitely don't give off good ones

[Opinion Owner]

Tone of voice.😆

[Asker]

i sense you definitely know what I am saying is true.

[Opinion Owner]

I sense that you're seeing a whole team of therapists.😆

[Asker]

i am a psychiatric nurse.

[Opinion Owner]

No need to condemn the medical field like that. It's doing bad enough on it's own.

[Asker]

thats why i was able to sniff you out... you have a lot of issues going up in your head.

[Opinion Owner]

I think what you're sniffing is your B. O.

[Asker]

well it must be it. because you smell like B. O.

[Opinion Owner]

Is that why you're so obsessed with me?😆

[Asker]

you're just wishing I was obsessed with you cuz you never get any attention from women.
this is the most attention you've gotten from a woman

[Opinion Owner]

I think you mean "woman" because like you even register as one.😆

[Asker]

you'd be lucky if you even got any attention from a man to woman tranny

[Asker]

at least attention from a tranny is better for you than no attention at all

[Opinion Owner]

I don't want your attention bro.

[Asker]

ohhhh I can tell you love it.

[Asker]

more like you NEED it

[Opinion Owner]

Now I see why this guy canceled on you. You're just ever guys chewtoy aren't you.