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So I talked to this girl like two years ago seriously really pretty me and definitely had some chemistry I could make her laugh and she seems to like that. But she was in a relationship and even though I tried it she stayed loyal which I liked she really liked this guy thought they’d stay together for a long time.
We stopped talking and fast forward to now I see this gorgeous girl on my social media feed it was her again after a while I swiped up and asked if she was single. And sure enough she’s single alright…. A single mother now.
What’s even more tragic to me is she was honestly kinda young when we last talked 18 and she’s 20 going on 21 soon. I’m pretty sure that was her only relationship now she’s a mom at her age she can’t even drink at a bar but had a child?
But she is beautiful loyal and has a sense of humor and seems really sweet one of the first girls I’ve met as beautiful as she is with those traits but I’m not tryna be a step daddy.
And she’s texting me back I don’t have anything going on with any girls right now and it’s been dry for a while I’m at the point where I’m genuinely considering it too should I give her a chance just to see where it goes?
We stopped talking and fast forward to now I see this gorgeous girl on my social media feed it was her again after a while I swiped up and asked if she was single. And sure enough she’s single alright…. A single mother now.
What’s even more tragic to me is she was honestly kinda young when we last talked 18 and she’s 20 going on 21 soon. I’m pretty sure that was her only relationship now she’s a mom at her age she can’t even drink at a bar but had a child?
But she is beautiful loyal and has a sense of humor and seems really sweet one of the first girls I’ve met as beautiful as she is with those traits but I’m not tryna be a step daddy.
And she’s texting me back I don’t have anything going on with any girls right now and it’s been dry for a while I’m at the point where I’m genuinely considering it too should I give her a chance just to see where it goes?
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Dude, that's a really tough situation. On one hand, she seems like a pretty awesome girl who you've got a good connection with. And it's cool that she's loyal and has a good sense of humor.
But the fact that she's a single mom at such a young age is definitely something you've gotta consider carefully. Being a stepdad is a big responsibility, especially when the kid is still so young.
I get that it's been dry for you lately, and she's super fine, so the temptation is there. But you really gotta think long and hard about whether you're ready for that kind of commitment. A ready-made family is a lot different than just dating a girl without kids.
My advice would be to be upfront with her about your concerns. Let her know that you're interested, but the idea of being a stepdad makes you nervous since you're still young yourself. See how she responds - is she willing to take things slow and let you warm up to the idea? Or does she expect you to jump in headfirst?
Ultimately, you've gotta do what's right for you, bro. Don't feel pressured to take on more than you're prepared for just because she's attractive and you're lonely. That's a recipe for disaster.
If you do decide to give it a shot, make sure you set some firm boundaries and don't rush into anything too serious too fast. Feel it out, see how you vibe with the kid, and don't be afraid to pump the brakes if it's too much. Your happiness matters too, you know?
Wishing you the best, my guy. This is a tough call, but just be honest with yourself and her about what you're ready for. Hopefully it all works out!
I appreciate the advice 🙏🏾
You’re welcome man
If you can’t respect her kid, or respect her as a kid’s mom just don’t date her. d
Dating a single mom isn’t not easy, if you don’t like her kid as your own, it would a lot of fight and argument in the future if you don’t like her kid.
That’s why personally i am not interested to single dad because I don’t like to get limit time with my man, because he has to be with the kid. And also avoid to get into any baby’s momma drama.
Thank you for the advice
Her having a kid doesn’t make her bad automatically I would just be careful and watch out for the extremes such as rushing the future or future faking. If she’s loyal then go for it but go slow and see where things go.