What's the worst way to be friendzoned?

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Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

Look being friend zoned many times just means the relationship isn’t mean to be it doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with either person. Some people can be great friends but never compatible romantically or sexually. People are looking for different things and while it sucks that someone isn’t into you that way if you had nothing to like about you that person wouldn’t even be your friend.

I do however think the worst way of being friend zoned is (I wouldn’t even call someone like that a friend) is someone who strings someone along who they aren’t attracted to. It could be using them for attention, money, or anything such as free dates. Maybe their intentions are to save someone’s feelings but you’re hurting them more giving them some hope you’re into them if you’re not. As well as people who maybe aren’t attracted but if nothing else works out they want to be able to fall back on you.

But more times then not people just aren’t compatible. They like and respect you as a human being it’s not a personal rejection because if it was they wouldn’t want to be your friend

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

The worst way is with dishonesty, because it adds disrespect to the rejection.

Chevy1_kb · Accepted Answer

Basically me and my ex are just friends with benefits visit watch few film have a smoke fuck I stay for two nights we know what it's about we don't love each other anymore am no giving a fuck what he does with his life now he's no my type to be in. A relationship with her sleeps around to much that's not the kinda guy for me and happy alone loving Uma he's an asshole my ex for what he done to me but we don't talk about it it's in the past the person who made me put it in the past was Uma she made me and still makes me smile fuck relationships am just as happy smiling alone better loving her

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

When they tell you they like our sibling instead 💀

ManOnFire · Answer

Saying "we can still be friends though" but not really meaning it. Most women do not mean that, they just think it's what a guy wants or needs to hear as an easy let down. And they usually won't go on to be friends with you, in fact many will even proactively try to avoid you. And if she feels awkward enough she will even stop talking to you altogether or act like she doesn't see you, or put on a mean face in passing to try to make you feel like you were the one who did something wrong.

MrOracle · Answer

I got played like that when I was young and stupid, but I realized that I didn't have to accept that, and since about 22, if that situation happened, I just moved on. I wouldn't be uncivil, but I wasn't looking for a "friend", and I know what most women mean by "friends" (give her time and attention and favors whenever she wants and listen to her relationship problems with the guys she does pick who don't care about her). I'm SOOOOO not interested in doing that.

You can only be Friend Zoned if you allow yourself to be, and it's never going to get you anywhere.

Finchie40 · Answer

My guess would be if they strung you along by flirting with you and teasing you for a long time and being a little to close for comfort , and giving you hope that they like you the same way you like them , to eventually find out , they hooked up or slept with someone else and they just like you as a friend. That would be a a straight kick in the ass by them doing that to you

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I would say it was this one chick that actually played with my cock and stuck it in her vagina a few times and then just nothing. I actually paid her to leave that I got so sick of her shit. She drank all my alcohol, did all my drugs, and only molested me while I was sleeping. Underaged too so she shouldn't of even been there molesting me while I was asleep.

It's one of those friendzones that just confuses me. She basically put me inside her, so why not keep going?

I shit you not, I was never so relieved to get someone out of my condo and the fuck out of my life than her. I don't even remember her name... some Japanese chick (it was in Japan). I literally quit drinking and doing drugs for months after getting rid of her.

She basically raped me while I was trying to sleep and then wanted nothing to do with me physically while I was awake. If you can make any sense out of what she was doing then lay it on me because that shit was weird.

She was hot too so I did want more, but when I was awake she just wanted to party... like drugs and alcohol stuff. I played electric guitar and stuff and everything and she just wanted to party unless I was sleeping. It took like 2 days to get rid of her and like I said, I basically paid her to leave. No joke... I gave her spending money and money for her train, and we're talking like 10,000 yen just to go away. Keep in mind she drank all my hard liquors, snorted all my cocaine and smoked all my weed... and raped me while I was asleep.

Babygirl_S · Answer

The worst thing is to be enemy zoned. I wouldn’t mind anyone friend zoning me but they start calling me baby or give me nicknames after a few meetings so I have to tell them to stop. I am not here for you to play with my feelings and lead me on. If you aren’t serious I’m gone. I don’t mind being alone. Many of them are afraid of something serious but act like children falling in “deep love” too soon. Many also let their moods affect their replies to me which I find annoying because even if I’m feeling bad I am nice and don’t ruin a good relationship. They’re train wrecks. The friends, the boys who claim to be husband material etc. It takes a lot to really annoy me and they’ve achieved it

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

I don't know, but welcome back, it's been a long since you were off, glad to see you back miss @Desconhecida 🙂

Anonymous · Answer

There's no such thing.

If you were friendzoned it's because you never made your intentions clear early enough. The only exception to this is when HE or SHE led you on. In which case it's really not a friendzone still. Because HE or SHE is not really a friend to do that. Friends do NOT exploit your feelings for the benefit if thier own.

ihateTaylorSwift · Answer

when the guy pretends to like you back
but then says he actually doesn't
that he was just playing along to mess with you
So you won't like him anymore and think he's just a jerk
In hopes you'll get over it and lose interest fast

lorenzomichael · Answer

I can’t answer that question but I tell you this stay your ass out of the friend zone. If you can’t have it your way don’t have it at all. That might sound selfish but it really isn’t. You’re just doing what’s best for you fuck the friend zone.

AnonAndrew · Answer

To be siblingzoned. "You're like a brother/sister to me."

slickrick6600 · Answer

To be told ohh you’re like a brother to me. That one about killed me and still stings to this day. Like I don’t wanna be your brother

coolbreeze · Answer

I think in person rejections are bad and even getting rejected by text message or phone calls can hurt pretty bad as well.😞😞😞😞

Joshydavid25 · Answer

When you guys already dated, and you know she does or did like you, but she decides to "friendzone" you anyways for one reason or another.. It confuses you..

rebelsunshine · Answer

Being set up with a gay friend of hers during what you thought would be a date.

Potteplante · Answer

No such things. Not my fault if someone pretends to be my friend longing for something more.

Petermorgan343434 · Answer

After trying so hard to meet their needs and to be who they want is hardest. Specifically learning so much about someone and making the effort to make them feel special and praying for a chance with them and it not working out.

Flower7 · Answer

Being strung along and made to think the person is interested when they are not.

LeoTheCar · Answer

While they got you locked up. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

genericname85 · Answer

when shortly after you got friendzoned, they get with your best friend xD had that happen to me.

NicholasRedone · Answer

Publicly in front of others and vocally surely 🫠👿

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

When they feel the need to use the word friend, you know you're deep in that friendzone 😂

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Any way your friend zoned is horrible thank God I've never had to go through that. The worst thing in the world is to like someone that don't like you back!!! 😉

RingOfFire · Answer

The worst way is when they make you a friend. 😀

LiamJHayden · Answer

Any way, but always remember the "friendzone" is voluntary for the occupant.

Anonymous · Answer

Any way to be friendzoned is kinda awkward.  All of my loves were unrequited, all I had with girls is one big FriendZone.

Shy_Steve · Answer

Usually it's when heaps of People know you have been Friendzoned by someone.

Anonymous · Answer

When she pretends just enough to keep a guy holding onto hope knowing she's just using him.

Silver158 · Answer

the worst way to be friendzoned is if you're lead on for the attention.

Nikki1989 · Answer

There are no zones. They are just excuses people come up with for some relationship issues.

lifetimefitness · Answer

Let her know you care about her and she will instantly be turned off

exitseven · Answer

They are all bad.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Walking in on him/her n bff?

shortster · Answer

From a dating app before you go on a date.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

By a buxom blonde !!!

IWILLPLEASEYOU · Answer

To be told off without a few kind words.

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